Emotional momentum and vibing over text
Sat, 08/18/2012 - 18:08
I think I asked a question similar to this a while ago. Manwhores response was something akin to "once you get good follow up game none of this shit matters." and I def agree. I've hit up girls months later or who live across the planet and have picked up right where we left off.
Usually I text the girls non stop. Like at least once a day to keep the emotional momentum going because anytime within the next few days I want to arrange a meetup. That's one of the principles I directly learnt from this forum. No days without communication and then trying to hit them up for a day 2. But what if that day 2 isn't possible for two weeks.. Two months.. Months upon months? Kind of a chode question and I think I already know the answer but I just want some more input.
Ideally I think it's best to always keep convo going. Either by email every few days, text everyday, phone calls... But i find sometimes the vibe or emotional momentum can't get off the ground and the only thing I can think of to send is gay chode shit. Here I know it's better to keep in contact but if I can't I'll try to just shoot over a brief text Convo once a week or every ten days. Cause anything more than that without that vibe comes of as needy.. Which it is, I'm trying to force a vibe that isn't there instead of just waiting for the flow to come, a reason for us to talk or meetup again.
Any one else relate?
Usually I text the girls non stop. Like at least once a day to keep the emotional momentum going because anytime within the next few days I want to arrange a meetup. That's one of the principles I directly learnt from this forum. No days without communication and then trying to hit them up for a day 2. But what if that day 2 isn't possible for two weeks.. Two months.. Months upon months? Kind of a chode question and I think I already know the answer but I just want some more input.
Ideally I think it's best to always keep convo going. Either by email every few days, text everyday, phone calls... But i find sometimes the vibe or emotional momentum can't get off the ground and the only thing I can think of to send is gay chode shit. Here I know it's better to keep in contact but if I can't I'll try to just shoot over a brief text Convo once a week or every ten days. Cause anything more than that without that vibe comes of as needy.. Which it is, I'm trying to force a vibe that isn't there instead of just waiting for the flow to come, a reason for us to talk or meetup again.
Any one else relate?
Sat, 08/18/2012 - 21:57
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Re: Emotional momentum and vibing over text
@icewahine:
personally i keep it up with a meaningless text every 1/2/3 days and invite out once a week or two depending on girl.
if they stop responding to normal shit i send a sext message. if they don't respond to that then it's clearly over, i delete and next.
personally i keep it up with a meaningless text every 1/2/3 days and invite out once a week or two depending on girl.
if they stop responding to normal shit i send a sext message. if they don't respond to that then it's clearly over, i delete and next.
Sun, 08/19/2012 - 03:09
#2
Re: Emotional momentum and vibing over text
So basicallly if you don't keep it up every day you lose them.
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