epic 3some fail
Back when I lived in vegas I went to meet up with a girl I’d already fucked from a pick up a few weeks back, and her friend that I’d never met before. We shoot the shit and from the get go, im trying to get them back to their hotel for some “drinking games”. It was late, they were down so we head back to their hotel with a bottle. I suggest some bullshit drinking game I made up on the spot to get their clothes off. It worked. Eventually we were all in our underwear and both of them were digging me a LOT. We were all in one bed and they were both touching my junk.
The one I had already slept with decides that it hurts her feelings that I was attracted to her friend and goes to cry in the bathroom. While in the bathroom the hotter new one tells me that im just her type and that she wants me, she grabs my cock suggestively…then she says that her friend has feelings for me and probably will reject a threesome.
The initial girl comes out of the bathroom. Each time there’s a break in the interaction, im working from scratch to build the chemistry back up and get us all back in the covers. It was like taking care of two immature kids.
So I finally get them back in the bed, all three laying down, making moves, and some heavy touching going on…then the second girl, who was hotter one starts to get upset about her ex boyfriend and starts crying HEAVY into her pillow. The first one decides I’m too occupied on her and has another emotional upwelling.
So at one point I’m in a hotel room with two crying girls at 5 in the morning. At this point I’m over it. I grab the initial Girl and take her to the other bed. We fuck as the other girl crys painfully loudly into her pillow. I drowned it out. Then I got the fuck outta there.
i guess the only take-away is dont get girls too drunk. these chicks were drunk before i met them so hard to say what i couldve done.
Aww dude. Wtf.
No leading dude. Whatsoever. This is also the same issue with the main girl. You've got a ton of magnetism, and you make girls feel goodey in your presence, but you have no leading edge. You got to direct things.
Absolutely. Thanks for that. It comes from caring what the girl thinks about me too much. I gotta learn to sack up and direct things. instead of making my reality powerful and dominant and expressing it to her to accept or reject, I kind of have a democratic approach .which is a little pussyfooting. Now that I look back girls have been kind of waiting around for me to be more directing and instructful. Great insight for me
It's a way to avoid rejection to kind of form a mutual reality. I feel like it can work up to an extant perhaps but hurts you badly ultimately