Escalating
Her: "picture of a beer and shot"
Me: that's one way you'll feel better (lol emoji)
*she was hungover for the night before*
Her: truth (3 lol emoji)
Me: Bar? You going to hang out for a while? I want to play!
Her: lol idk my beer is still pretty full lol
Her: dead ass bar! Wtf lol
Me: on my way so I can judge you!
Her: lmao neverrr
so we hung out played around. Didn't get to make out and ovy didn't get to smash. Next morning send her a quick text
me: how you feeling after the shenanigan aftermath?
her: not to bad.
it got me stuck because the texting before meet up was all vibes. Well before she sent the beer pic I told her let's go to x bar in the city. She asked if I was crazy.it just doesn't seem like the same vibe. You think you could pull back and escalate from this?
Trying to smash ash before I get FZ.
Well what are her last texts? You're describing the vibe as being different after the date but didn't put the texts except for one. Throw them up.
But honestly dude it sounds like you didn't handle business right during the date. Should have escalated smoothly and probably banged her. The fact you didn't even kiss her sorta makes you seem like a potential lame duck. Details?
Me: hey its that guy you stole and brought back to your place.
Her: lmafo idk if it happen quite like that but yeah.. what's upppp shaaaa!
Me: hey its that guy you stole and brought back to your place.
Her: lmafo idk if it happen quite like that but yeah.. what's upppp shaaaa!
Her: lmafo idk if it happen quite like that but yeah.. what's upppp shaaaa!
I don't know why but all what I typed didn't show up? I am on mobile.
Me: Hey its that guy you stole and brought back to your place.
Her: lmafo idk if it happen quite like that but yeah.. what's upppp shaaaa!
Sorry for blowing up your in box man with the repost. I just got that vibe after I text her this morning. That was the last text.
Ok and why didn't you escalate on the date? What happened there.
Huh that's a fine vibe homeslice. Carry on.
we been knowing each other but through mutual friends for years and never hung out. she had the same bf forever she single now. Anyway I got wasted one night and some how she brought me back to her place to sleep it off. I started to Snapchat text her and told her to give me her number so we Conversation like normal people. That was the whole initial text that fucking posted 5 times.
Anyway becaue of cockblockers. Same mutual friends. So if we were playing that nude photo hunt game that they have on the bar some douch would come up and start playing the game "with us" I'll give them that "really nigga" look. We definitely has a playful flirty vibe going on.But chick had to leave because her kid got sick.
I think it was one of your videos on how to deal with the girl's friends. By just grabbing her hand dragging her away and yelling at the friends saying something. I was trying to find it earlier. I dont know know if they have one on cockblocking friends tho
Well now you're starting to sound anti-social. It's not about actually trying to be a dickhead and weirdly intimidating to "friends" of your girl. You should be relaxed enough and flirty enough that she chooses to give you her time and even escalate on you a bit. That's how social circle game is played. You try to act territorial with a girl when she's out with mutual friends she's going to shine you on real fast.
I was socializing with the crew. I was just under the impression that you got to separate the two.
What does that mean exactly
Separate her from the social group so she wouldn't have outside influences. I never understood that. like you said you want to be in mix of friends. It's been a few years sense I visited the forum because i was tied down with some chick. I just started to rebrows and trying to back in the game.
Update: I had text her again with no response.
me: It feels kinda good adulting and not slamming Jaeger bomb left and right.
Yes that's if you're trying to pull or leave off with her in some way and they're stopping you. Otherwise if you're hitting on a chick and shit's going somewhere, no one else should even matter anyway. And if they are trying to be little rats going after the girl you're trying to get somewhere with, either pull her outside or just socially intimidate them out of the picture.