Ex-Gf - Lay Report - Review/Analysis
So one of my ex's has been hitting me up and we have been texting back and forth. 2 weeks ago we went for a drink together, I kept my game tight and it paid off.
She texts me at work tonight and wants to chill afterwards. Her exact words were "You should come watch a movie with me tonight, I'll be home around 10:30"
So, I get there, we are chatting a bit, I look around.. no tv in sight. I ask her where it is and she tells me there is only one in her bedroom. I go in, we get on the bed. Makeout starts about 5 mins after. Right before we make out she tells me that "This isn't us getting back together" I tell her I agree and we continue. I fucked this girl so hard she cramped and couldn't even fuck anymore. It was fucking money. She even apologized for getting all cramped up. I told her straight up she'd have to make up for it next time. She agreed and we made out a bunch more.
This girl is down to chill and do whatever. It's amazing how the past 2 years has changed who I am entirely. This girl was one of the best lays I've ever had, hands down.
So, as I'm getting ready to leave I look at her, start kissing her and tell her I want to see her again, but this time she has to do better. She agrees but also tells me again that this isn't us getting back together. Seems like I got myself another fuck buddy on my hand. This is number 5.
The only thing is, this girl was a solid gf. One of the better ex's that I've had lol.
My only question here is how would I go about transitioning from fuckbuddy/fwb to a relationship over time? I don't think I've done that before. I mean I usually sleep with girls then it either becomes a relationship right away or it doesn't at all. I'm considering this one as a relationship option. The reason we broke up was due to my work schedule (I work 7 days a week), it created a lot of tension and fighting.
I almost feel as if I'm being "shit-tested" when she says this isn't a path to dating, since she's open to going on hikes, getting dinner, hanging out literally any time. I probably won't message her tomorrow either unless she hits me up first. I don't want to come off too strong or anything and I was a little disappointed in her cramping cutting our sesh short, so, just a bit of disapproval to go along with the verbal disapproval I gave her tonight haha. What do you fellas think?
More importantly -> credit where it's due: Manwhore, you fucking legend. I fucking love you. Thank you for steering me in the right direction, took a while buuuut I'd say I'm really starting to get it.
Naw dude you don't need to be mean in any way. You could potentially cut out negativity all together.
The point of this relationship is that you've won. You get to enjoy all the benefits of being in a relationship without being beholden to one. Seriously, test that shit out. And then when/if she tries to bring something up stare at her blankly.
Her: "Um, so.. I heard that you had a threesome? And that you slept with a black girl?
(30 seconds of silence. May have been awkward for her)
Me: Yo the boys are gonna be at Cosmo tonight you coming with us?
Her: *blah blah blah (disregarded)
Now don't throw it in her face or disrespect her publicly, but you've got free rein. And only bring it up to her in terms of threesomes, at which point this sort of scenario becomes a very compelling gateway for a woman to try out this type of stuff. ;)
That's actually money, man. I can try to get that threesome accomplished now. I like her company as well, she is sweet and she's got that cocky humor I'm into.
I'll try to set those threesomes up with help from that video you tossed me not too long ago. I think I actually might be able to. Might have to warm her up to it though.
Would it be cool to text her today or am I better off waiting? I don't want to come across as pushy or anything. I think she has concern I'll try to LTR her, but I rather that be her idea if it ever comes up. I remember when I used to follow RSD they explained a way to get a girl to want this but I can't quite remember what it is. Usually once the feeling of loss sets in the girl, she'll chase you down and tell you she wants exclusivity and you're golden from there.
Dude you just ignore all that. Really
Yeah, I've completely given up on RSD forums and a good majority of the stuff that they've put out at this point. Feels like it just hurts my game more than anything...