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Example of an insecure person with way too much social proof value

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http://movies.yahoo.com/blogs/movie-talk/jesse-eisenberg-junket-intervie...

Comes across like a dick because he doesn't realize his own value. 

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i think i'm in lurve

i think i'm in lurve

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Not available in my country.

Not available in my country. They don't regonize Canada's value.

I was guilty of this occasionally on the road to coming into terms with my own value. We all are sometimes. Like Alex says leaving the set because shes boring when its simply your unaware of the influence you have on her because ultimately you don't realize your own value.

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You should probably break

You should probably break down what you mean by that? I think he recognizes his own value, I just think likes her. He literally wants to take her on a date but doesn't know how to flirt that well. Also, he got stuck going down a particular path with her, doesn't realize the simple truth that he can absolutely turn things around any time he wants and head in a new direction. I recently did a vlog on this topic. 

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Yeah, that's basically what I

Yeah, that's basically what I was saying. 

He likes her- thinks that flurting with her means being a dick but doesn't realize that because he's already high-value, he doesn't need to do as much of it and also he's doing it to achieve a certain outcome so again, he just comes across like a dick. 

It's insecurity because he doesn't get that he doesn't need to do that shit- he was simply overgaming her for the situation. 

And yeah- Turning things around, in this kind of situation, is exactly where shit comes together- it's the act of turning it around that  = game/set/match

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"Apart from the pulling and hauling stands what I am, Stands amused, complacent, compassionating, idle, unitary, Looks down, is erect, or bends an arm on an impalpable certain rest, Looking with side-curved head curious what will come next, Both in and out of the game and watching and wondering at it."

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He should take notes from

He should take notes from Russell Brand. That guy is a legit pimp

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Wow, what a try hard. Glad I

Wow, what a try hard. 

Glad I got past the "Overcompensating Douche" stage a while ago.

It's repulsive.  Just an easy way to get attention when you lack depth and character. 

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This is totally me... he just

This is totally me... he just gave her so much shit, so much push, he forgot to even express the fact that he was actually into her. He stays so damn monotone he's not properly expressing postive emotions towards her. He actually dominated her, and didn't make her feel safe afterwards.

I actually think the stuff he said wasn't bad, he just needed to add a playful spin to it.

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this explains why he does

this explains why he does this so well

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zAEJt-Rvaqo

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Lol great call Gogo

Lol great call Gogo

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