Example of Yin Escalation
MW brought up the idea of yin/yang physical escalation and how you should balance the two. He even did a video on it.
Yin and Yang styles of escalation.
Yang = hard fast dominant and controlling.
Yep quite solid. There's even a bit of yang in there when the girl grabs her and pulls her in. That sets the tone and garners that sexy acquiescence.
Just watched the Ying & Yang video. and got some questions about the "rhythm" of escalation.
I remember Julien saying something about when you pull a girl by her hand, you do it smoothly and assertively while being 100% grounder rather than doing it quick, forced and choppy.
I just realized i kind of apply this to my physical escalation aswell but i'm starting to think my idea of it is flawed. On thursday i was dancing with this girl and i was grabbing her hips, body, hair, kissing her neck, grinding and teasing with the kiss so she was "fighting for it" but i wouldn't give it to her too fast lol. All this in the smooth and assertive way that i mentioned so it's still "Yang". At one point i just suddenly grabbed her hip and pulled her against mine fast and HARD and it seemed to turn her on a lot!
So i'm thinking i've been too plain all the time and need to do add more sudden sparks to my game! Do you agree?
Yes the key to solid yang escalation is her feeling her body surrendered. So when you exhibited complete dominance/control over her body it sent pleasure shockwaves thru her body. Just remember you don't need much of it. Yang has more of a splash effect whereas yin physicalness is more a function over time.