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Alright! 

So I've gotten this whole tinder thing down. I've banged a dozen hotties off this cool little app. Just wondering how you guys handle facebook game. I have yet to do the fb thing. Do you guys just find hott girls that you have mutual friends with and add then them hit them up with a message and take it from there.

My only trepadation is that I don't want to be 'that guy' aggressively hitting up random girls on fb in my extended social circle. 

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Some guy on RSD made a post

Some guy on RSD made a post about it. He basicly poked girls that he had friends in common with and then if he got poked back he'd start messaging them. I got a few pokes but im abroad right now so i havent bothered to write anything though.

I think the profile is important though, like you wanna come across as a cool guy. Me and a friend would always tell girls to add us after talking to them, just so that we would have more girls commenting/liking our pics LOL.

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Cholo wrote: Some guy on RSD

Cholo wrote:
Some guy on RSD made a post about it. He basicly poked girls that he had friends in common with and then if he got poked back he'd start messaging them. I got a few pokes but im abroad right now so i havent bothered to write anything though. I think the profile is important though, like you wanna come across as a cool guy. Me and a friend would always tell girls to add us after talking to them, just so that we would have more girls commenting/liking our pics LOL.

Cool but I think this whole poking thing is considered to be super gay and it's annoying as fuck. I'm curious about MW's thoughts.  

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Yeah its so that facebook

Yeah its so that facebook doesnt block your account for messaging too many girls that you don't know. Lol

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Yeah I've gotten laid off

Yeah I've gotten laid off Facebook plenty. Bateman just do it. You've got plenty of value on FB I'd go about it the same way, just poke a bunch of girls and see what happens. You're too worried about public opinion, poking is just funny and friendly. 

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Manwhore wrote: Yeah I've

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Yeah I've gotten laid off Facebook plenty. Bateman just do it. You've got plenty of value on FB I'd go about it the same way, just poke a bunch of girls and see what happens. You're too worried about public opinion, poking is just funny and friendly. 

Haha okay. And are you adding these girls and getting their friend accept and then poking? Or are you just poking first?  

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Hm I forget Bateman why don't

Hm I forget Bateman why don't you just grow some balls and try them both. 

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So there's this super hott

So there's this super hott girl I have on fb. She actually used to date one of my workout buddies back from college like 4 years ago. Anyways I think I met her a couple of times back then and we're fb friends. She's lked a couple of my status's which is a good sign. Decided to poke her and she poked me back. Here's what ensued 

me: Hey you! Not sure if we've met before but you're downright cute, just had to say hello. How's it going?

her: Hey! I'm not sure if we've met either, but I'm glad you said hello. Pretty good thanks, just winding down. How about you?

me: Actually i think we worked out at the same gym in guelph or sumtin. I was at school there for a year a long time ago lol

me: Just about to get ready to wind down myself. Ray donovan obviously, that show is awesome

her: Oh ok, that makes sense. I wondered how I had you on fb. I'm still catching up with it, I started watching a little late

me: yeah get on it lol ;)

me: it just gets better and better

me: so whacha up to these days, besides robbing banks and beating up kids of course

her: I'm catching up quick, I'm addicted lol

her: Well those do take up most of my time... but I'm finding time to work and enjoy the summer until I go back to school in Toronto in September.

her: How about you? What have you been up to besides revealing that you're batman? Your identity is supposed to be secret you know. (this was based on a fb post i did)

me: Toronto in september eh? Geting borded of guelph, finalllyyyyy

me: Kidding it's a lovely town but could never live there hahaha one year for me was enough

me: Yeah just couldn't stand being closeted anymore hahah. But mostly just working in toronto and going up to musoka every now and again

her: Haha, it has it's ups and downs. I'm looking forward to the change. We probably went to the university at the same time as well

She didn't contribute as much in her last message so I went more laconic

me: yup. Have you been to Toronto much?

her: Not as much as I like, but a fair amount. My brother lives there. Are you dt?

me: cool. I'm like x town, you've heard of it?

me: And I secretly miss guelph. How is that little town in the summer?

her: Yup I know it!

her: I knew it! Lol, it's good. Quit since all the hooligans from the University are gone though.

me: yah i like to be slightly out of reach of the downtown scene. I've actaully been so over hitting up the bars these days

me: Yeah must be a totally different vibe

her: Yea they got old pretty quick for me as well, especially the ones here lol

me: Well we'll do drinks or sumtin when you're in Toronto next. But first i have to ask.... you're not like a psychopath or anything right hhaha?

her: Haha, that's a fool proof way to find out . I'm not that I'm aware of, hope you're not as well. Drinks sounds good!

me: hahah indeed

me: cool well let's take this off fb, what's your number. And I'm definitely not a psychopath, but I do love the movie AMerican Psycho haha

her: that's only slightly troubling. jk.

her: Number

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WEll just realized that this

WEll just realized that this conversation had some definite holes in it lol. Could have been way tighter, but it got the job done. I Definitely juiced it up with the following sequence 

me: Yeah get on it lol ;) (giving her shit and applying sum tension

me: So whacha up to these days, besides robbing banks and beating up kids 

This definitely juiced up the conversation and got her much more invested. I used to struggle with keeping a conversation entertaining back in the day, now it's so fucking easy, you just can't be a pussy trying to avoid saying anything weird.

The next point that was solid was here

me: Well we'll do drinks or sumtin when you're in Toronto next. But first I have to ask... you're not like a psychopath or anything haha? 

This is perfect. She lives about 50 minutes away but I'm getting her to come to me because that's the high value thing to do. I used to always want to drive to the girl if she lived far away because I thought it was like the gentlmenly thing to do. You're actually more likely to hangout with them, if you at-least, at first, try to get them to come to you.

As well, I don't just say "want to get drinks". I say "we'll do drinks." This is much more powerful and gets more of her compliance. As well, I realized I hadnt qualified her much yet. So I had to add in the part to make sure she's not a psychopath. This definitely turns up the tension and makes her more invested into me. This sutis my frame as a high value guy.