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"Fast & Furious" Texting Strategy for Strippers and Cocktail Waitresses FREE CHAPTER GIVEAWAY From Manwhore's Textgame Manual

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Overall Difficulty/Skill Level 7/10
Pacing/Speed 10/10
Emotional Calibration/"Feeling out" 9/10
Creativity/Imagination 6/10
Complexity 4/10
Humor/Silliness 5/10 (It's there, but underplayed) 
 
Disclaimer: ALL EXAMPLES ARE FROM REAL-LIFE TEXT CONVERSATIONS THAT RESULTED IN GETTING LAID

"Fast & Furious

This style is very powerful. It works incredibly well on industry girls, dancers, strippers, bartenders, and any other "hired guns" that work for the nightlife industry in general. 

 
The basic premise is a hard-charging yet smooth, "can't stop won't stop" type energy to your texting. You're not just going after her, you're being almost demanding that she meet up with you. Immediately, or at least as soon as possible. Nothing is more important to you, and you're making your assumption very visible that the same is true for her. This is the epitome of "high value" or "Alpha male" behavior. "We're going to meet up. It goes without saying that I'm the best thing ever. Duh. So where are you.." is the subcontext going on here. The keyword for this style of texting is "assuming" and "aggressively persistent". 
 
You might have had plans already, or a busy lifestyle, but you subtly or not so subtly let her know those don't matter, because you two are hanging out! As soon as you and her are possibly able, this has to happen. This falls into that category of "whirlwind" romance for a woman. The idea that she's met an aggressive man that goes after what he wants, and refuses to accede to any social pretense or "rules" concerning dating a "lady". No, he wants her and he's demanding she meet him. And assumes it's going down as fast as possible. This is very attractive to her, as well as a rare and much sought-after experience for a girl, if the guy can stay congruent to this image of himself he's portraying.. 
 
I need you to understand something here.. this style works. You practice this, you will get laid. You will get dates with the kind of girls you didn't think possible before. 
 
This is the sort of absolutely "hardcore" approach that got me fucking a pornstar and her female assistant. Her assistant acting as a sort of fluffer, pulling my cock out of her "boss" to suck on it and make sure it was plenty hard before sticking it back in her. And herself also being available to be fucked in any way I wanted at any time. I've fucked MANY bartenders and strippers and waitresses and other "nightlife" girls using this texting style/rhythm. Some of the most gorgeous and sought-after and intimidating women in nightlife, I fucked because I would not stop and insisted on going over to her house the next day or the day after that, or made her come see me.. and of course even then did not stop till I was inside her.. 
 
Strippers, industry girls.. women that are the stunning icons of nightlife, don't do well with someone that takes their time. It's too slow-paced to maintain their interest, and they get distracted by everything else going on in their life. They need to see aggression to make it show up on their radar. Otherwise they forget lol. They live a life that's incredibly dynamic, and they need someone who understands that. And not just understands it.. but practices it himself. And his texting will demonstrate this. Because this is just how he is. 
 
But there's no games here, just your wit and aggressiveness, which makes everything a worthy pursuit.. including her ;)
 
It's a hard-hitting style that doesn't wait to shoot a text back, doesn't mind sending two or three responses in a row to create and display the emotion and motivation he's feeling in the moment. Even his punctuation is slightly rough around the edges as he displays his rushed desire to experience things and get things progressing. Which in turn the girl recognizes because she's in sync with it, and responds in kind. 
 
These girls live demanding lives, and so learn to be quite demanding themselves, so when they recognize someone who's got the same nature, they feel aligned and comfortable with it. And they also recognize it as a sign of high self-confidence. So when a guy starts writing texts that just automatically assume he's coming over to hang out, or to tell him where she's at so he can roll by, she recognizes him as being a kindred spirit. 
 
But not only that, when a guy projects a reality so hard that this is natural and normal, she just.. goes along for the ride. It's normal human psychological behavior. Plus it's also just.. fun ;)
 
1) It's going straight for what he wants, on the fly, as hard as he can try to get it. 
*THIS is the most important part of this technique*
 
"I'm jumping in shower then heading over to your place"
"When are we hanging out"
"K when are you off work tonight" 
"Where you at right now. Or where you going to be in a couple hours"
 
2) And ALWAYS keeping his eye on the goal, mixing logistics into normal conversation:
 
The seacocks are cool. But they're just not on the same level. What are you doing besides pretending you know football? lol
 
3) And if she doesn't, he'll make up all KINDS of absurd reasons why she's not going along with it. Absurd machinations of a male imagination that can project all kinds of awful scenarios onto her life, trying to put her in a box that she can't stand! ;) 
 
"Yo call me back or I'm going to call your family and put your face on the back of a milk carton"
"Wait now you're silent? This is getting crazy not sure I can handle this"  
"Now's not the time to be doing your nails.."

** Each line is from a separate convo**
 
4) Or he'll give her permission for having left the conversation, this keeps him in perceived control of the flow:
 
(After a half hour or so of her not responding)
"Excuse me I hope you went to bed cuz you obviously needed it." 
"Whatever."
"Exactly my point. Thanks"
I'm sleepn.
"I know. Good night little baby"
Work 230pm 
(it's 6:22am. And this is an undercover invitation. Any bartender can get by on 4 hours of sleep lol. But I'm working on this ebook so I'm going to ignore and let lie till later. Because she will have unrequited desire the next time I hit her up ;) And make NO mistake, this would never have occurred except for the way he handled it to amp her up.) 
 
5) It's a way of unapologetically asserting dominance over her life that lets her know he's dominant but still smooth about it. 
Girl: Who is this 
Me Eric's buddy. He tried to take you from me I stole you back 
Girl: Who's Eric? 
Girl: From other night? 
Me: Yeah at Lily how quickly you forget you really know how to make a boy feel special pfff 
 
6) It's a way of responding to her one-word answers, or her "lol's" and "haha's" that do absolutely nothing to further the convo.. (whether she meant this to happen or not, sometimes girls are their own worst enemies, lol) that do NOT allow momentum to be slowed..
Haha
"I'm not laughing. You still in Vegas?"
 
I have a shoot
"Yeah I'll shoot you too." 
 
Sure.
"You're gay" 
** Each two-line block is from a separate convo**
 
7) It's a type of super flirty banter that lets her know fast and hard that you're coming and you can't be stopped. 
"Hey pretty girl what are you up to today"
Layin in bed in pain
"I was too hard on you in my dreams" 
Lol
"I'll come bring you donuts later I'm about to train"
"Where you stay at" 
(She sends pic)
"That's not a picture of an address" 
Lol
(She sends risque picture)
"Neither is that. but I like it just the same" (I refuse to fall for a woman's bait. But I refuse to disacknowledge my appreciation for it either ;) A seemingly "ignored" response, or under-played response is the same thing so watch out for that) 
 
8) A response to her womanly ploys, that lets her know you don't need any guidance unnecessarily in handling her needs:
"Picked up some tequila"
Patron
"Pff I picked up a brand called On Sale" 
Lmao arent u funny
 
9) Letting her know your desire for her, in a decidedly masculine fashion:
(Sends me a picture of her wearing a sexy outfit)
"You wouldn't last longer than five seconds in whatever THAT is, around me." 
Haha
 
10) But it also lets her off the hook and takes away any potential awkwardness:

Bebe whats yer address Im gonna shoot over there. I look like shit lol hope you dont mind
 
11) It incorporates a subtle way yet powerful way of putting logistics and attraction together that lets her know she's wanted, but in a non needy, high value way:
"Get that gorgeous ass over here"
 
There is a difference between get your gorgeous ass over here and get THAT gorgeous ass over here. They are both complimentary, but one is more bosslike, it says something about you. The other is beginning to border on neediness, it's too much, and in these sorts of scenarios you MUST maintain a high degree of masculine "prowess". 
 
12) But you also mix in humor and silliness in with the audaciousness. It takes the edge off. 
 
"'k where you at I'm bringing wine and a scary movie"
"Where are you. Feel free to kick me out any time after midnight 'cuz I turn back into a pumpkin anyways"
"Are you going to take me for a ride in your big wheels"
"Look I'm not gonna make fun of your rainbow brite furniture it's ok"
"About to go. Where you live Im gonna rob your house I bet you got good china"
 
** Each line is from a separate convo**
 
13) Or his invite is SO audacious it shocks her into going along:
 
"jerk where are you"
Do you want to make out later"
** Each line is from a separate convo**
 
"come get ice cream with me beautiful wench"
(I wrote this text for a student three years ago. Her response? 
 
geez, well when you put it like that
I'd love to
I'm working right now, but when I'm done I'll come meet you.xo
 
She went over to his house that same night and fucked him. )
 
14) He also uses euphemisms to let her know he's not all show. He knows what's up:
 
I'm going to come over and steal your fine china all night long 
 
15) But if she does resist, or there's just natural things that come up to hinder you two from meeting up and it gets delayed, you playfully give her shit about it, so that the emotional momentum is not lost, it's just redirected temporarily to another emotional plane, so it can be picked back up again when logistics allow for it. Or even if she just flakes, he can quasi-punish her without making it seem personal or like he's butthurt about it. It's an unapologetic way of reengaging a girl that let's her know he's a guy she can have a lot of fun with but if she doesn't commit she's going to miss out and he's going to tell her all about it lol. 
 
I'm going to head to the strip and drink then 'cuz yer gay. I mean, I like gay people don't get me wrong but I'm definitely not sharing my cookies with them 
 
16) It's a way of deflecting her inquisitive attempts to ask you personal questions that have absolutely NO bearing on you two meeting up, but could slow things down or implant weird ideas in her head.. but deflects it in such a way she's still entertained and even more enticed to show up:
 

I'm glad you have a good sense of humor! So 30 years old no kids have you ever been married? 

No lol. We'll save 20 questions for Friday Ill let you bring a tape recorder and interrogation lamp
Omg lol your crazy!!! 
But I must warn you I am trained to survive harsh interrogations and turn the tables on my captor! 
 
Why are you staying in your buddies extra room? 1:26 AM
Do you work? 1:26 AM
Yeah I work lol. I just moved out of my house and didn't have a spot lined up. I pay weekly rent. Anything else you want to know? 1:27 AM
I prefer charmin but scott is good too 1:27 AM
 
Now I want you to realize/learn something very important about the way human psychology works in this sort of situation.. even if she's slightly shocked by your assumption the first time around.. she's already become used to it by the time you go to meet up again. It's become normalized for her simply because you've already done it before. YES. 
 
Timeline 
These types of text convos start immediately (as soon as you've left each other's sight) and last anywhere from a few hours to a couple days. They have a short life cycle, if it starts going past that it starts to lose its appeal (as would be natural with this kind of lifestyle energy). But that doesn't mean you can't restart this momentum at a later time ;) I have had MANY text interactions that restarted themselves weeks even months later and gained such hard momentum that a meetup immediately went down within a couple of days. 
 
This is the true potential of using emotional momentum to get the meetup. 
 
These types of text convos also lead to FAST physically intimate encounters. The momentum is there, your masculine drive is there, she's obviously there for the spontaneous fun and natural chemistry of the interaction itself. So obviously the escalation should naturally continue, and it can turn intimate and sexual VERY fast. 
 
Now this does NOT mean this kind of interaction can't lead to a longer term relationship. It can! No need to think you're playing a strategy that only leads to short-term encounters. The only thing that matters if if people are compatible with each other. And the only way to really make sure is to fuck her mercilessly till she calls you daddy. Just sayin'.
 
Let's be clear. The girl shows up knowing she's going to get fucked. The end. 
 
What makes it hard:
Lots of newbies will try to implement ass kissing into this style to supplement what they think the "effect" is they're going for. This is a mistake. Never come off your guns. Tell her you're going to hang out, tell her she can't escape, tell her she's a sexy girl and she's in serious danger of a good time, but do not kiss her ass. 
 
Most guys 22+ will miscategorize the directness, persistence and pacing as neediness. Their egos get caught up and so they will try to overcompensate by being an asshole in some way. Do not ever insult the girl. Just be charming, yet minimalist, and persistent. 
 
*A longer explanation, and multiple example real-life text convos following this style (from first text all the way through meeting up) will be included in the FULL Texting Ebook coming soon from Manwhore*
 

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This is really good stuff MW,

This is really good stuff MW, the ebook is gonna be insane. I liked this chapter a lot because this is kinda the style you've taught me, and its been working great.

My favorite:

"Picked up some tequila"

Patron

"Pff I picked up a brand called On Sale" 

Lmao arent u funny

 

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Holy fuck that thing is going

Holy fuck that thing is going to be killer. 

Damn 

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this is absolute fireballs! 

this is absolute fireballs!  All the texting we've been doing just clicked a little more in my head.

ott:   THANK GOD for making the capture easier; it took me like 15 times to log in a couple days of go

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Amazing

Amazing

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Unreal

Unreal

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This is so cool

This is so cool

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Holy shitballs

Holy shitballs

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"There is a difference

"There is a difference between get your gorgeous ass over here and get THAT gorgeous ass over here. They are both complimentary, but one is more bosslike, it says something about you. The other is beginning to border on neediness, it's too much, and in these sorts of scenarios you MUST maintain a high degree of masculine "prowess". 

Yeah, so this is super interesting. You're basically figuring out a way to create vocal tone in texting. The difference between "That" and "Your", is the same difference that separates the guys with GREAT breaking rapport tonality from the ones who don't know what they're doing. 

GREAT breaking rapport tonality, comes off as if you're  talking//yelling AT the girl- it isn't personalized, it isn't specifically directed at her personally. This subtle texting thing you braught up seems similar. 

Get  THAT ass over here is like you're yelling AT the girl - it isn't personal and is totally breaking rapport and masculine in a sexy way. 

Damn... that's such high-level shit ya got goin on with your textgame

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Yeah I actually thought you

Yeah I actually thought you already knew I was doing that. Like a year ago. You were too lol

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Oh yeah, I absolutely

Oh yeah, I absolutely did. 

haha I was just tryna blow you up a lil 

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lol look at this thread and

lol

look at this thread and then google "text game pua"

there is nothing that even compares to this in the community right now.

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icewahine wrote: lol look at

icewahine wrote:
lol

look at this thread and then google "text game pua"

there is nothing that even compares to this in the community right now.

Thx :)

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pottedflowers wrote: Oh yeah,

pottedflowers wrote:
Oh yeah, I absolutely did. 

haha I was just tryna blow you up a lil 

Good recovery, bro. Lol 

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Manwhore

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pottedflowers wrote:
Oh yeah, I absolutely did. 

haha I was just tryna blow you up a lil 

Good recovery, bro. Lol 

hahahha

SUCH a dick 

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Haha I couldn't help it. 

Haha I couldn't help it. 

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Really good stuff mann.

Really good stuff mann.

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Definitely agree with what

Definitely agree with what everyone is saying here. No eBook or even blog post online comes close to this. Really awesome content MW

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Any chance you will do a

Any chance you will do a paperback of this ebook? You can self-publish through createspace.com and the printing costs are very low

I recently published a 350 page book there and it costs me $5 per copy. You can resell in your website for big margins (the printing and shipping costs are the only costs, as an author you can purchase your own book at cost)

or through amazon.com with lower (but still decent) margins but with wider distribution. If you price it at $30 you can probably get $16 or so per book.

I think that could be very nice because it gives an incentive for people to buy it instead of trying to get pirated copies. Lots of people rather have a paperback than a PDF or ePub

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The presale price is $32. The

The presale price is $32. The regular price is going to be $67, if not $77 I haven't decided. No it won't be in printed form for at least another year or so. 

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I hope there will be a

I hope there will be a section on txt game for POF/OKC numbers

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What specifically are your

What specifically are your questions as far as #'s you got from online? 

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Manwhore wrote: What

Manwhore wrote:
What specifically are your questions as far as #'s you got from online? 

How does the follow up game differs from regular numbers?

How to get the girls to come over instead of meeting up at bar?

Sexting, does it help or hurt?

How to stop getting flaked so damn much? (I think i meet up with 1 number out of 9 or something)

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MW: Will there/is there

MW:

Will there/is there already a section about "after-lay game"?
Things like, how to keep them "on the line" as a fuck buddy after sex. How do you hold their interest.

How to progress from the first lay, to the next. Is there a solid method to use.

How to progress to a Girl Friend should you choose.

How often is it OK to invest in texting her BEFORE you have had sex vs How often is it OK to invest in texting her AFTER you have had sex

Etc.

How you been anyway dude

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Hainz could you give me some

Hainz could you give me some specific situations with this? Have you screwed this up before?

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MW: Will there/is there already a section about "after-lay game"? Things like, how to keep them "on the line" as a fuck buddy after sex. How do you hold their interest. How to progress from the first lay, to the next. Is there a solid method to use. How to progress to a Girl Friend should you choose. How often is it OK to invest in texting her BEFORE you have had sex vs How often is it OK to invest in texting her AFTER you have had sex Etc. How you been anyway dude

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Yes dude these are all quite

Yes dude these are all quite specifically answered, except for the first I'm not quite sure I'm understanding. What are the differences you're perceiving? Is it because since you haven't met them yet you think there's some different way you should be handling them? I'm curious what your experiences are in this.

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Manwhore wrote:
What specifically are your questions as far as #'s you got from online? 

How does the follow up game differs from regular numbers?

How to get the girls to come over instead of meeting up at bar?

Sexting, does it help or hurt?

How to stop getting flaked so damn much? (I think i meet up with 1 number out of 9 or something)

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Manwhore wrote: Yes dude

Manwhore wrote:
Yes dude these are all quite specifically answered, except for the first I'm not quite sure I'm understanding. What are the differences you're perceiving? Is it because since you haven't met them yet you think there's some different way you should be handling them? I'm curious what your experiences are in this.
tradingbr wrote:
Manwhore wrote:
What specifically are your questions as far as #'s you got from online? 

How does the follow up game differs from regular numbers?

How to get the girls to come over instead of meeting up at bar?

Sexting, does it help or hurt?

How to stop getting flaked so damn much? (I think i meet up with 1 number out of 9 or something)

I think they difer (but i can't claim to be right about this) because the girl has less references about you in online game so she needs a bit more back and forth before the agrees to meet up, whereas with in person game she has been your sub communications IRL so she perceives the date as potentially less awkward.