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High school kid here.

Girl girls on my bus who isn't very responsive. Got her number. I joked about showing up at her house and hanging out. She texted me yesterday:

"Your not actually going to show up here right? Haha"
Me "Oh yea im coming"
her "You should probably change it to a different day than, lol"
Me "How about tomorrow"
Her "Oky that will be better"
Me "Alright, sounds good"
Her "Alright"

Then today

Me "When should I come for our date?"
her " I'm not at home I'm at Sarah's (her friend) :o"
me "So 7pm then?"
Her "You can go there if you want but I won't be there lol"

I'm thinking of replying back something like "ok I'll party with your dad then".

I thought we were hanging but I guess not...what should I say back? only day this weekend I can hang out is today...
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Re: Flaked :(
Yes you had it right. "All good bebeh your mom is baking me muffins. She's getting kinda flirty with me you better come rescue me."
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Re: Flaked :(
@Manwhore:

She lives with her dad lol

IDK if she has a step mom living with her but I know her mom doesn't...
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333:
I sent:

"All good bebeh your dad and i are drinkin some brews. He's getting kinda rowdy you better come save me."

Thanks manwhore :D
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333:

Her: "My dads not home he's gone to my cottage for the weekend haha ;)"

well that blew up in my face lol

Multiple ways I could come at this... how about

"Wow who is this I'm drinking with then??"

or something sexual like

"Oh yeah it is empty. Waiting for you babe" or something

what do?
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333:

I never texted back.

She sent me a fb message later

"Did you have lots of fun with my dad? ;)"

i said " gtg. text you later" after she went offline.

Not going to text her. I think I screwed up, and was too available for her.
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333:

I mean, def. go for the meetup.

She reengaged YOU bro... you're good, just be chill- there's no reason to punish her for reaching out to you.

You want to REWARD behavior like that.... but not too much ; )
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Re: Flaked :(
@buddhagames:

Maybe later like next week...

I guess she must still be semi interested since she messaged me, but still I think I went wrong acting so available.
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333:
You're tripping out for no reason. Look how pathetic you're acting. "Oh I think I fucked up, I'm sweating balls over a text that doesn't mean shit and even though she messaged me I'm not going to message her." You're acting like you're on your period.

How did the dad thing blow up in your face? Which.. good use of the framework I sent you.
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333: quit acting like a fag and get this chick.
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333:

Asked her to hang tomorrow, she said okay.

We'll see if she flakes again
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Re: Flaked :(
Didn't mean to be harsh my last reply but you needed that pointed out. Don't be so stubborn, work with the girl to figure out what would work to meet up. You were too rigid last time. The dad thing did not blow up in your face and that was evident from the FB message she sent you.
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Re: Flaked :(
@Manwhore:


That's alright like you said I needed it :D Really appreciate you helpin me out man.

She messaged me first:

"Hey"
"Sup"
"Nothing at my moms, bored out of my tree"
"Probably not as boring as doing credit card statements for your dad"
Lol yea you got me there"
"Where's your mom live again?"
"x town that is 30 mins away"
"Are you coming back tomorrow?"
"Yeah"
"K then let's hang"
"Okay"
"g2g text you tomorrow"
"Okay see ya"

That happened a few hours ago. Thoughts on what I should text her tomorrow to ensure that I don't get flaked again?
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333:
Make and have an actual plan of what youre going to do with her. Youre getting flaked because you dont know what youre even doing
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333:

from today (day i'm supposed to hang)

Me:"Are we still on for tonight?"
Her: "Well what time?"

"5?"

"Ok well prolly just depends on when I go home"

"alright cupcake"

"Lol alright"

later I text her

"When are you home?"

"I don't know yet"

strong flake potential
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333:

still haven't met up with her.....

I'm tired of chasing girls, fuk her
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Re: Flaked :(
You have NO plan. You aren't flexible you haven't set shit with her man. What is she supposed to do with this?

Read my text convos I've published on here.
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Re: Flaked :(
@Francis333:

texted different girl, just got her number
"Fake number?"
her "Nope. What's up? "
"Sandpapering my elbows, you?"
her "Uhmm? "
me "Who is this?"
"Sarah. Lol"
me "I know... I'm just being an ass"
"Ahah, okay. "
this girl is no fun
got her number last week
from school
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Re: Flaked :(
@Manwhore:

Where can I find those text convos?
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Re: Flaked :(
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I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)

- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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