Flakey theme, need a review
New to this. just looking for pointers and critiques because alot of my text have had the same flakey theme.
Me - : So how did pursuing your dream of becoming a mermaid go? Are you playing with all fishy friends lol?
mermaid nickname from inside joke as a re-engagement
jenn: Lol always jenn: What're you up to
Me - 10 mins later: Usual stuff Just pimping midgets on my corner. How about you?
jenn - 6 mins later: Lol Family Reunion invites jenn: Send me a pic of you for your contact info please?
Me - 5 mins later: First of all were not family....2nd of all shirt optional right?
jenn - 2 mins later: Lol always
pic of me
jenn - 4 mins later: Holy shit you're built
Me - 10 mins later: You gotta be in my line of work. Now send me a pic of you smiling
pic of her
Me - 4 mins later: So are you a social drinker?
jenn - 6 mins later: Lol jenn - 7 mins later: Lol. I'm not a huge drinker at all. On occasion though.
Me - 5 mins later: Good i don't like sloppy people. What are you up too later on tonight :)
jenn - 3 mins later: Bed. Lol work in the am.
Me - 2 mins later: Woah granny over here!!!
Me - 2 mins later: Jk ill be up at 4 am. Wait...did i just get trapped into a legit family reunion though?
jenn - 5 mins later: Lol no hah
jenn: I have to be up early too :(
Me - 3 mins later: Being a responsible adult sucks! Rulez suck! Skool sucks too!
jenn - 5 mins later: Lol
Me - 5 mins later: Just thought of a great idea. Do ya wanna be a kid for one day?
jenn - 4 mins later: Lol I'm listening lol
Me - 3 mins later: Well what's your schedule like this week then ill spill the beans :p
jenn - 5 mins later: 7-4
Me - 12 mins later: So here's the deal i say we crash Chuck e cheese's Wednesday at 733pm sharp over on Monroe street. I get the pizza you get the first round of tokens(as long as you dont let any little kids jack our coins)
jenn - 54 mins later: Lol that actually sounds fun
at this point like an hour goes by and i wanted to go to sleep but wanted a definite answer
Me - 53 mins later: I'm tired so i need a definite aswer: "hell ya" with joy and enthusiasm or : "no thx ass hole I'm a boring dinner/movie girl"
nothing so the next day i tired another re enagement to see if i would get an explation or something
Me - 13 hrs 56 mins later: I guess you never answered back because you fell off your wheel chair and broke your hip n died....
jenn - 12 mins later: Lol yes haha
Me - 4 hrs 34 mins later: Yes to what exactly? jenn - 14 hrs 16 mins later: ? Me - 1 hr 4 mins later: Its fine i don't like your haircut anyways.
jenn - 54 mins later: ?
You're not acting high value enough. Got to be a bit more aloof and let her natural attraction have a role here. You're chasing too hard and flipping the script, it's turning her off.
ya i looked at it from your angle. gunna work on value and more laid back through text
What manwhore said is spot-on.
The lack of "high value" stood out to me most in the way you were like forcing her to give you an answer. You can accomplish what you're trying to do here, but in ways that are "higher value", such as sending funny reengagement texxts.
Like instead of asking for a definitive answer, if she didn't respond till like the next day, I woudla just sent her a pic of you doin something awesome
Also - not only do you ask her like 20 times if she wants to han gout... it's also that you were doing a "full stop" each time. Need to work it into the conversation more without making her think so much about it.
Anytime you ask someone for a super firm commitment, you're going to make them think (which is bad)
ok i got 2 dates this week with diff girls. i worked on aloofness and being cold but flirty. just having trouble understanding what high value looks like through text
There's a shit ton of texting examples on the forum.. you read through any threads/posts at all?