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Was out with a buddy one afternoon doing daygame when I randomly decided to stop in front a market store that was playing some good 1920s/30s swing music. Two girls came by our direction and my buddy opens with "did you know my friend is a dancer?" I immediately pull in one of the girls and spin her. Say some shit, then lead her into salsa dancing on the sidewalk. At this point, making solid eye contact and tell her she can be my flapper girl, and I'll be her leonardo dicaprio lol. Pull her in for a hug then get the number.

ME: Aston

(40 min later) HER: So are you always this smooth or just on Thursdays? ;)

(5 Hours later) ME: It was the music I swear ;)

Call her up the next day, she recognizes who I am. Get playful with guessing background. Also give her shit for being from a certain area. Saying we can't be friends because of that.

HER: I'm starting to think maybe you're too old to be friends with me. LOL

(2 Hours later) ME: Pshh no way. You're too young for me

(1 Hour later) HER: Pleaseeeeee, don't blame me for your old age

(Next Day) ME: Nope. It's all your fault

(3 days later) HER: Look at how we're already bickering.

She took the initiative to re-engage so I'm guessing she's still interested. Any ideas how to steer this into a meet-up? I see some potential in framing this into some kind of couple dynamic.

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Agreed...

Agreed...

Advice, mine would be "I know right, maybe its destiny or some crap lol. Anyways, I need a new dancing partner.. blah blah blah"

...or not.. I need some sort of disclaimer as my signature...

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The advice i've been giving

The advice i've been giving my buddies, is some bars do dance lessons done by instructors. They're basically trying to expand their client base, but they teach basics for like $5 bucks. It gives you an excuse to be super physical, social at the bar and it's a comfortable scenario for her. I've been having amazing success with it for D2s!

Also, I was texting this girl who's about 4 years younger than I am, and I capitalized on that SO much. Like telling her to call me when she turns 18 or asking her if I invite her out on a date, will dateline NBC and the police show up and arrest me...

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Supervillain wrote: The

Supervillain wrote:
The advice i've been giving my buddies, is some bars do dance lessons done by instructors. They're basically trying to expand their client base, but they teach basics for like $5 bucks. It gives you an excuse to be super physical, social at the bar and it's a comfortable scenario for her. I've been having amazing success with it for D2s!

Hmm, don't have that over here unfortunately. Awesome idea though. What type of dance do they teach SuperV?

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You could say something basic

You could say something basic like, "We'll have strong babies." 

Or get a bit more technical with something like, "The part that comes after is better" 

But yes good intuition I would definitely go the "couple" route.

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ME: The part that comes after

ME: The part that comes after is better

(30 min later) HER: What's the part that comes after?

(Next day) ME: When I push you to the ground and give you makeup kisses

(19 min later) HER: Do you do that to every girl you meet on the side of the street? :)

I feel like she's testing my frame in this last text. And to find out if I'm a player. Her smiley face is somehow telling me though that she wants that kind of guy lol. I'm thinking either a low investment I don't give a fuck response "of course" or something exaggerated like "only every other girl at even hours of the day".

I know the making her feel special frame could work too but might come off incongruent at this point. Thoughts fellows?

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"I would respond  "Lmao, shut

"I would respond 

"Lmao, shut it dork! What's your schedule like this week"

Somethin like that,

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ORif you want to send maybe

OR

if you want to send maybe one more text before going for logistics, you could use this - it's something I've been experimenting with in this exact type of situation:

"Lmao, WATCH IT girlll, b'for I decide to pack you up in bubble wrap and ship your ass off"

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Only the seedy little

Only the seedy little gangster criminal girls I meet. What were you doing on the side of that street, hm? 

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You really jewed it up with

You really jewed it up with your text afterwards. I hate it when guys do that. Her mind is wandering, going all over the place, and you made it real.. in a very white knight sort of way

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Manwhore wrote: Only the

Manwhore wrote:
Only the seedy little gangster criminal girls I meet. What were you doing on the side of that street, hm? 

lol homy has skillz

 

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Chica is on point with her

Chica is on point with her texting.

@MW Derp. I see what you're saying now. Could've prolonged that tension and let her imagination work for her. I'm curious how you would've steered the conversation from there.

@BG I'm jacking those lines for future convos ;p

ME: Only the seedy little gangster criminal I meet. What were you doing on the side of that street, hm?

HER: I just got out on bail, so I was trying to make a little money finding suiters. What were you doing, hmm?

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I find it really interesting

I find it really interesting to see the patterns of responses that manwhore's style of texting gets from girls...

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Did you fuck up the text that

Did you fuck up the text that bad and it still worked? LOL 

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Apparently lol. I could give

Apparently lol.

I could give a witty response. Call her out for being a golddigger. Then frame it as her being some kind of predator. Our initial interaction she mentioned "yeah I saw you from far away walking around" implying she was already checking me out before I saw her lol.

That last text was gold though. Made her fit the bad girl role and flipped the script.

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Yeah, his shit is operating

buddhagames wrote:
I find it really interesting to see the patterns of responses that manwhore's style of texting gets from girls...

Yeah, his shit is operating on a totally different level. Like a chessmaster, that always get the mate at the end.

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Yeah, it's really good. Just

Yeah, it's really good.

Just get the meetup though! And at a certain point, you gotta develop your own style, doesn't mean it's worse or better, just different. 

Don't get so caught up in "game" that you forget about the meetup. haha I remember when I first started learning textgame from manwhore, I'd have crazy long conversations where i was just spittin out gold text after gold text, but I wasn't ever going anywhere...

You'll get solid investment using manwhore textgame (similarly you'll get tons of investment if your in-perso ngame is super on point) so it's easy to fall into the trap of being like, "Oh shit, this is a cool toy" and then never getting the meetup. So that was the next step for me, after learning manwhore-style stuff, was simply learning to get to the meetup part quickly, while still being socially calibrated --- then, at the end of the day, you def. wanna make sure you're spittin your own style, just to make it that much more congruent

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Don't frame her as a gold

Don't frame her as a gold digger. Predator is fine, that's kind of hawt, and will get her secretly invested in meeting up with you hehe. 

"I knew you were a predator. I should be scared.. but I'm not 

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ME: I knew you were a

ME: I knew you were a predator. I should be scared.. but I'm not

HER: You should be.

There's a sexual vibe going on here. A kind of playful/threatening. How do I play around with this or amp it up?

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The lights just went off in

The lights just went off in my house..can you bring candles :) Im so scared! 

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And then uninvite her after a

And then uninvite her after a while by saying 'the lights came back on, now back to being scared of you ' especially if she doesnt respond

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Aston wrote: ME: I knew you

Aston wrote:
ME: I knew you were a predator. I should be scared.. but I'm not

HER: You should be.

There's a sexual vibe going on here. A kind of playful/threatening. How do I play around with this or amp it up?

lol yeah, this is what I was talking about - don't get caught up in the bullshit dude. Get the meetup.  You're starting to get too concerned with the "game" and it's actually making things MORE difficult for you, which is going to require MORE game to get out of haha it's a vicious cycle- just get the frigggin meetup lol

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Social Ninja Princess

Social Ninja Princess wrote:
The lights just went off in my house..can you bring candles :) Im so scared! 

That's fucking hawt

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