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Hey guys, wondering if I could get multiple perspectives on this for re-initiation ideas

In short/fast moving line going into club this hotty gets in line by herself behind me. I tell her "you look great tonight" in nonchalant but sincere tone, she smiles & says "thanks, so do you" and proceeds to start explaining why she's in line by herself etc etc to meet friends. I leave it at that and walk in with my buddy to grab a drink at the bar - she goes off and meets up with her friends.

after waiting for bartender and having a few slow sips on by beer I walk while she's with her girlfriends talking to a bunch of mophead turd guys and I walk right in. I noticed for a second she looked at all the guys and her girlfriends, then keeps talking to me and they all scatter.

We def clicked and had a vibe. She initiated touch by grabbing my shoulder/arm a few times. strong sexual eye contact between her & I.

At one point I asked if she comes "to this place much" (small/mid size town), she said no she doesnt club much. teased her and asked what she did for fun than.... her:"read", and which point I teased her again and said "well thats ok I read alot too, I guess it depends on what you like to read"

she was pensive for a moment and then muttered something about "50 Shades of Grey" (cha ching!)

I share my opinion about it being an interesting phenomenon and she says twice "yea every girl wants that done to her at some point, ya know?"

I tell her Im not into leather straps and shit but Im definitely into dominance, submission and taking control of a woman (by this point we're really close and my arm wrapped around back of her hair/neck pulling her in close, alternating my hand down to her lower back, she's loving it)

thats when her friend steps in and starts talking in her ear for a sec, hotty then looks me in the eye with an inquisitive expectant look and says "ok, well we're all going to Midtown" (other bar two doors down)

I take that as my sign to get her number. Shes smiling and says in a cute way "but I just met you, why?", I say "cuzz your interesting and ofcourse gorgeous, now give me your number"

she gives it and then says, "hey, wait, whats my name?!" - I tell her, than challenge back "whats MY name?!", she gets it right and she says "see, we're on the same page". We're still very close physically and kindof yelling in each others ears since its so loud and I got the urge to kiss her on the cheek so I gave her a good soft slow one, she giggled, loved it, and then we went our separate ways...

my first text is that same night after the clubs had just closed

Me: Hey lady how was midtown - Im smashing a sandwich at jimmy john
(called her two days later with super short voicemail)
Girl - 2 days 16 hrs later: Hey I got your message sorry been busy text me tomorrow
Me - 2 hrs 54 mins later: No worries aren't we all. Didn't know that's how conversation works tho
Me - 1 min later: How old are you?
Girl - 8 hrs 14 mins later: 26 you?
Me - 2 hrs 23 mins later: Oh good more experienced & mature. I'm 28. What are you up to tonight?
Girl - 3 hrs 54 mins later: Hardly don't you know men mature slower. I am at the gym now no set plans you?
Me - 2 hrs 14 mins later: Gym for me soon too. Ill be free a bit latr let's grab a drink. Do you know the triangle area?

Its already 9pm here so I doubt she's going to respond in the affirmative, if at all.

Any ideas on when & HOW to reinitiate?
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If I were you I'd just show
If I were you I'd just show up to where she's going to be at and hang out. Didn't know this but apparently this is what Alexander is preaching these days and it works well, and forces you to be flexible in how you go for the meetup, as well as forcing you to expand your social skills by gaming the whole group.
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Manwhore wrote:If I were you
Manwhore wrote:
If I were you I'd just show up to where she's going to be at and hang out. Didn't know this but apparently this is what Alexander is preaching these days and it works well, and forces you to be flexible in how you go for the meetup, as well as forcing you to expand your social skills by gaming the whole group.


So you're saying to show up to the venue(s) I think she'll be at this upcoming weekend?
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Make some kind of a plan with
Make some kind of a plan with her over text to do this.
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any thoughts on actual text
any thoughts on actual text follow up anybody?
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Just text her man, you don't
Just text her man, you don't need anything fancy here.
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followup with 50 shades of grey girl
Girl: Sorry I didn't get back to you yesterday I was exhausted and ending up passing out early.
Me - 1 hr 11 mins later: Dang girl what's got you so exhausted lol
Girl - 1 hr 15 mins later: Work and gym and working with no days off until next Sunday.
Me - 56 mins later: What do you do?
Girl - 39 mins later: Guest sales for a hotel and part time catering you?
Me - 41 mins later: Own a marketing firm for book authors. Sounds like we both could use some relaxation
Girl - 1 hr 39 mins later: Nice and yea no doubt

*** Im not worried or feel like theres a rush, but feel like I should sexualize this a bit more. Thoughts?
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What happened to the
What happened to the ordering?
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Manwhore wrote:What happened
Manwhore wrote:
What happened to the ordering?

???? thats how it came through from the app on my phone... Ill go manually edit it
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See if you can change that
See if you can change that setting in configuration.. it shouldn't be doing that. Especially if it got the first convo ordered correctly?? That's so weird.
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