Former Coworker
Alright so back in like June at my current job, we hired this chick to be an assistant manager in training. She would be at our store for little while then she would have to transfer out to another so that she'll officially be an assistant manager.
Her and I had a class together lol same as the other chick. She would for the most part be to herself accept to talk to the teacher here and there. Great ass, colored eyes and nice face, good body.
We started working together and I kinda felt something for her (mostly boners LOL) but she was in a relationship (been together for maybe 2-3 years) and I was kinda torn and wanted to hit that up but I didn't (probably bitched out). Honestly I had several opportunities to get that number but I never took it.
I'd tell her to go and get something and she go get and come back and just make strong eye contact with me (almost goggly eyes maybe, not sure but it was strong eye contact and I feel good vibes off that). She did this to me about 2-3 times, I think the last time I asked her what's up? (After the strong eye contact) and she just kinda looked down and said, no nothing.
***I remember when she first started we talked about how she landed the job and she told me that they (the company not my boss) seeked her out and then she said that her mom told her: "that if they pursue you hard that means they really want you"
Since I'm putting typing this out on my phone I can't really make the above statement in bold and underline it and have it for a future reference. I think women genuinely believe in that statement. And it excites them, yes that was meant towards the job but that could also be applied to other areas of life.
One of the opportunities : her: *talks about her dog*
I tell her about mine and she says oh we should mate them. LOL
She wasn't necessarily having relationship problems but it just sounded like she was in college and he was in high school in terms of wavelength, the way she made it sound.
Since they were gonna move her to another store she wanted to go to San Antonio (4-5 hours from where I live) and she was real insistent about it.
So about mid-late July she gets transferred to San Antonio. The week before she moves we make small talk about it and I find out she's gonna live with family and not with one of her best friends or her boyfriend (he couldn't afford it and she told him she wouldn't pay/take care of his ass)
So she went up there and she's been there since. About a week or so ago she calls my boss (he trained her) and she tells him she wants to quit because her boss just leaves her alone and he's been doing that since the she got there and doesn't help/teach her anything.
My co-workers and boss have her in a group chat and I think she just told them that it's official, she put her two weeks noticed or that she's already done.
The homies kinda of been teasing me about her, I guess they had seen me checking her out. LOL
So I didn't get this girls number and she quitting, I don't want to be a bitch and get her number from one of the co-workers (that's the bitch way). Should I just go for the Facebook.
That might be my best play.
I wouldn't be surprised if she's single, she left the boyfriend back here and if not it felt like they were in different places (in life).
Facebook this one?
Sorry boys I was being a little bitch.
im about to goooooo skating
because Ima slide in those DM's
haha last time I actually skated (my first and only time LOL) I looked like a Bambi fresh out the womb...
I am not an expert but I am still learning. You should have gotten her number from her when you had the chance to. It would have set the frame right from the beginning.
I am not an expert but I am still learning. You should have gotten her number from her when you had the chance to. It would have set the frame right from the beginning.
i agree man, I was just trying to be respectful to the relationship, but I still should've gotten the number. I still think it's salvageable.
The best case scenario would be if my coworkers were to tell her to come by the store and say hi (the assistant manager, really old dude and married btw, told to not be a stranger, lol it come off as weird because of the way he projected it).
but that's almost wishing for them to ask to swing by.
Wishings are are only for wells, Best thing probably is DM's
so is there no way to go see her in person?
popcaan wrote:
I am not an expert but I am still learning. You should have gotten her number from her when you had the chance to. It would have set the frame right from the beginning.i agree man, I was just trying to be respectful to the relationship, but I still should've gotten the number. I still think it's salvageable.
The best case scenario would be if my coworkers were to tell her to come by the store and say hi (the assistant manager, really old dude and married btw, told to not be a stranger, lol it come off as weird because of the way he projected it).
but that's almost wishing for them to ask to swing by.
Wishings are are only for wells, Best thing probably is DM's
"it come off as weird because of the way he projected it)."
i think i got I got auto corrected by my phone! I meant to put, "it didn't come off as weird" he came off friendly (that's the word I was looking for!)!
Since it it didn't allow I had to do the edit like this haha
so is there no way to go see her in person?
so yeah like I meant in the last reply lol the only possible way to she her in person is if, the current coworkers were to message her either in the group chat or regular, and tell/ask to come in and say Hi, while I'm there for work.
That right there would be the abosolute best case scenario.
Inception of my coworkers could make this happen but idk the dark side of the force or grey Jedi force, mind trick lol
Did some reconnaissance and one of the coworkers talks to her a bit more than the rest.
I could probably tell em (jokingly of course, since they've been fucking around and teasing me saying I got her pregnant, smh) to have her come in and say hi.
and no I doubt they're doing anything he's had the same girlfriend for 8 years, and she's another coworkers sister. Btw it makes for a funny work dynamic.
Yes definitley hit that, be like "shiet tell my baby mama she's gotta swing by, judge said it's her weekend to have custody of the kids"
just to clarify as well, why can't you go visit her
Yes definitley hit that, be like "shiet tell my baby mama she's gotta swing by, judge said it's her weekend to have custody of the kids"just to clarify as well, why can't you go visit her
sounds Gucci, I think that'll work!
dude she lives 4-5 hours away and Idk what store she works at. Plus I still don't know if she put in her two weeks or just left the job High and dry.
Although I could find that out from the Coworker. That's such a ted smchoosby thing LOL
fuck so I take it nobody approves of sliding through the DM's on Facebook LMAO
Just coming in at the tail end here. So you're so desperate for girls you're chasing one that lives 4-5 hours away? Dafuq you on honky. Are you even going out? Do you have a social life?
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Just coming in at the tail end here. So you're so desperate for girls you're chasing one that lives 4-5 hours away? Dafuq you on honky. Are you even going out? Do you have a social life?
damn guess I need over the "ones that got away" or missed opportunities, not too much but enough. Need to work on that.
lol I'm like 5% white guess That makes me a honky :/