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Forum Discussion: Social Circle Game VS. cold approach and night game.....Similarities and differences

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Hey! For those of you who don't know me, I'm Ben. I've been taking manwhore's skype training for a little over a month now. I'm 20 and attending college at Boston University. Manwhore's program has changed my social and dating life, and its not even half way done yet. 

The main point of this thread is to start a discussion and ask for your opinions on social circle game and how it is the same and how it differs from cold approach (clubs and bars). I know that the charisma and skillset for seduction is the same, but in social circle game, you may see the girl often from classes or parties that you go to (in the case of college). Also, within social circles, a girl may know of you without having met you, which is what I like to call, preheating the oven ;). If you have a good rep and know lots of people, attraction is almost instant because you have been preselected. This is way different with cold approach game, because you are virtually anonymous in the club. I'm not of legal drinking age yet so I haven't experienced cold approach exept for at frat parties. 

What is your take on the difference between them and how to dominate both? I know that they both use the same skill set, but they have a slightly different mindset. Let me know what you guys think, I'm curious to hear what you have to say. 

--Ben 

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None of you mayonnaise

None of you mayonnaise monkeys or jihadists know, huh? Too bad we don't have more of the old crew still around. lol 

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Reminds me of an interview I

Reminds me of an interview I watched yesterday of Jeremy Piven (Entourage's Ari Gold). Because of the image he played so convincingly on the big screen, people just assumed rapport with him. He would be so chill & laid back vs the insanity expected of Ari that he'd have to remind people "you dont know me" cuz they thought he was sick or something.

Im merely an observer of the best at the moment, but focus on social game really seems to encourage that over-the-top energy that washes over everyone elses lives leaving them with wet pants and frustration that they're not experiencing "you".
Seems powerful in terms of numbers and ease of access, but energy intensive and not something that should be sustained forever (unless its your profession).

High-level pickup, on the other hand, relies on

#1 You're completely at peace/authentic/one with the way of nature, and reflect that with how in tune you are with yourself. Its less you approaching them, and more that they have entered the little bubble of reality that is under your rule, and you noticed them only because they acted outside of what values & principles that make you so enticing. Hence why they become harlots and troublemakers to us, as very few women on that level can truly nail innocence AND display confidence (FLOTUS is the best public figure that comes to mind)

#2 Taking advantage of girl-friendly tactics. If the only time you're spitting game is at night, you're already behind the curve. Yes, they're all in one place and tempting. No, you wont feel present if you're too busy being rope-a-doped by their bitch shield being up cuz they just crushed 10 other guys more respectable than you under their boot lol
This has a lot of similarities with Social Circle Game, but Pickup seems to really let you hash out the details of making yourself accessible & easy prey for the wild beasts. If you realize how good women can be at manipulating men to get things, using some of their secrets against them will only make them adore you more, cuz they get it. They're used to having to tell stories to chumps about how messy their room is, etc, so its hella charming when you can fuck with them about trivial shit and "let" them decide to suddenly come up with a convenient solution you happened to mention earlier.
#3? Maybe. My perspective isnt that clear yet.

Idk, Im biased, but SC seems like either an ego pad if you're not great at pickup, or you're already pretty damn skippy and somehow dont enjoy the thrill/dont have the time for it (lol) which is understandable, as most of us dont whore ourselves out to other men for the supreme science of sexual shenanigans (Much Respect ;)

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Reminds me of an interview I

Posted 2x, fixed.

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Lmao

Lmao

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Don't overthink it. Social

Don't overthink it. Social circle you have the leisure to play the slow game. Cold approach you are generally trying to hit her hard and fast. A cold approach can turn into a social circle date where you get dinner with friends. A social circle event can lead into easier cold approaches because everyone sees you roll in the 6 with the yung hunneys.

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Very true, could you

Very true, could you elaborate a little bit on what you mean by slow game? Also, I got the numbers of 2 girls in my psych class and they are coming to my place to "drink wine and study." They don't know each other that well. Ideally i'd like to pull a threesome with them, how would I go about turning our study sesh into a bang sesh?

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Damn that's impressive ma

Damn that's impressive ma dude. Ask Manwhore about that if you're training with him. 

Keep in mind both girls know what they're getting into when you say "wine & study". So don't be afraid to make something happen. They're coming to your place because they WANT it.

Great work.

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BelligerentKhaan wrote: Focus

BelligerentKhaan wrote:
Focus on social game really seems to encourage that over-the-top energy that washes over everyone elses lives leaving them with wet pants and frustration that they're not experiencing "you". Seems powerful in terms of numbers and ease of access, but energy intensive and not something that should be sustained forever (unless its your profession).

Very good. Though with proper training this actually becomes somewhat easy ;) 

BelligerentKhaan wrote:
High-level pickup, on the other hand, relies on #1 You're completely at peace/authentic/one with the way of nature, and reflect that with how in tune you are with yourself. Its less you approaching them, and more that they have entered the little bubble of reality that is under your rule, and you noticed them only because they acted outside of what values & principles that make you so enticing. Hence why they become harlots and troublemakers to us, as very few women on that level can truly nail innocence AND display confidence (FLOTUS is the best public figure that comes to mind)

This is one aspect of a broader spectrum. Seems you got some Madonna/Whore issues to work out there, buddy. Stop hanging out in the Manosphere they're all a bunch of whiners and momma's boys. 

All these crybaby misogynists want to deny the simple fact pickup is largely about making women want us. Yep. One avenue of self-actualization; learning how to make women want you and more and more becoming it. You can't go wrong that way. 

BelligerentKhaan wrote:
#2 Taking advantage of girl-friendly tactics. If the only time you're spitting game is at night, you're already behind the curve. Yes, they're all in one place and tempting. No, you wont feel present if you're too busy being rope-a-doped by their bitch shield being up cuz they just crushed 10 other guys more respectable than you under their boot lol This has a lot of similarities with Social Circle Game, but Pickup seems to really let you hash out the details of making yourself accessible & easy prey for the wild beasts. If you realize how good women can be at manipulating men to get things, using some of their secrets against them will only make them adore you more, cuz they get it. They're used to having to tell stories to chumps about how messy their room is, etc, so its hella charming when you can fuck with them about trivial shit and "let" them decide to suddenly come up with a convenient solution you happened to mention earlier. #3? Maybe. My perspective isnt that clear yet. Idk, Im biased, but SC seems like either an ego pad if you're not great at pickup, or you're already pretty damn skippy and somehow dont enjoy the thrill/dont have the time for it (lol) which is understandable, as most of us dont whore ourselves out to other men for the supreme science of sexual shenanigans (Much Respect ;)

Not bad but still seems you think there's got to be some sort of competitive contesting of wills. 

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Short answer; you boss them

Short answer; you boss them around till they're both sucking your dick. 

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- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male

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