Freaky shy doll
Hello after a looong ass break,yall.
Took kind of a break from talking on a daily basis to women due to work related issues.I gettin back on the horse tho.
Yesterday added a cute girly on fb and str8 dm her and start chatting.
I will point out the main things i got from her on chat before we insta meet last night after 30 min of talking:))
She just got out of a 7y realationship...only relationship she said...she is kinda down now and feels depressed cause of this.
I noticed 90% of her pics were with her face hidden(if tho she is cute...that seemed weird...she doesnt like people to look at her face as she stated).Red hair...dresses like a japanese school girl.Shot skirt...all that cute deal.She agreed to go out but she told me and i quote:
"we can hang out now if you want...just dont try to touch me or kiss me"
I said its fine...dont worry.
We meet ...she was with a short schoolgirl skirt...all that.Oh my...
I decide i will draw her in and just be cool caus it was late at night...she is 1,65 or so and i m 1.98 bastard:))Not fair...keep it cool.
We walk and i talk smack..she is all giggles and leans into me and touches me but i just observe it.
We then sit on a bench and then i do my thing and let her lean in ...She complains on one point that a mosquito has bitten her but cause of the skirt:))i laugh then say i might have a solution for that...Then pick her up and sit her on my lap.She is adorable.
I can see she will not engage in eye contact almost at all...she then tells me she is shy with new guys and thats why...i said its fine...then run my hands on her shoulders and neck and she shivers ...she said she is tickled very easy:))Good...
Then i play a bit with her and when she leaned into me next i grab her for a kiss but she turns...weird .I ignore and proceed.
Then she said something in the lines of : "I dont like people looking at me...lets find a darker place to sit on a bench"
I pick her up by her almost naked butt and move :))She likes it.
We start to move closer to my place and find a place more isolated and sit there.
I put her in my lap and just hug her.I then look at her legs and run my hands on them.Then calmly get my hand closer to her under skirt and see whats her reaction...She starts to breath more shallow...her legs get chicken skin and slowly shiver under my slight touch and i move my hand further ...slight touching her panties.Things get hotter...I start slightly stroaking her panties and feel her shivering like a sexy cute thing ...it was hot.Then i move her panties away a bit but then a security guard passes by and i asses the situation and say Lets go because i could see she was not feeling comfy...we move to another place closer to my place.More darker...i get back at it...but she would not let me put my fingers in...weird...she was feeling all of it and twitching and turning..i pin her in my lap and talk dirty to her slowly...she is melting BUT here i fucked up.I tought i should move her to my place and did not take the chance and try to fuck her right there.I think it was the only way it could have happend.
After i stopped i could not manage to take her to my place...she said that she doesnt want to come cause she knows bad things will happen:))she was cute...but right.I try to spin it around but could not work...took her to her place...insisted i need some water...get in her place...roomates were sleeping but after i drink it i dont go full rape mode:)) and she pushes me out laughing...shit.
I have encountered something similiar some time ago but this was a bit more twisted and i dont know how to proceed.She told me that other guys try to hit on her cause they know she is single and all that.She feels like shit...kinda sad to see..tried to talk her on the good path dont know if it helped...
We talked after and she said that she like scary movies and might use that to get her to my place...but i think she might evade this and still think outside fucking might be more likely...i will push for that and not bet anymore on taking her home as a "sure deal" like i did last night.
what are your feelings about this?
I wouldn't have hung out with her, or I certainly would have fielded her first on that earlier statement. Being that timid and shy is unattractive. Plenty of girls show up nervous and shy, they'll even tell you they're nervous or wound up, even scared lol. Some girls show up looking like a single finger poke would send them shooting off into the ceiling. It's totally fine, you've got to be able to make a girl feel comfortable and relaxed and safe with you. Duh. But to try to laden you with it beforehand and make you responsible for tiptoeing around her little fairy enchantment "safe space" is just immature. And with the way they're trying to slang sexual harassment claims on people it's obvious that little "disclaimer" could be used as a form of legal entrapment.
At some point it got hilarious because she was talking about her pussy like a separate entity with bad intentions "its not me...i m good...she is bad" kind of thing.
As for her first statement ,i did not adress it ...just brushed it off.But,after we had our fun moments and she tried to make sense of it and throw it on me,i kinda returned her favor and said something in the lines of:"Well shit...i can think of a way that i would keep my hands off you...just dont shower for 3 weeks...that might do it".
As of now we made some plans for scary movie and chill at my place probably ,this week.I might be wrong but i think if i get her isolated in my house and all that...knowing how helpless she was when i was pushing her buttons...i dont think there is much to do about it from her part:))And i will keep in mind to set her str8 with her childish act...this would be for setting the tone between me and her.Because i had a previous girl who talked all the smack on chat and when it was time to show up she would act all stupid before sex like "no ..stop...no" all that brain work:))but by then i managed to read the situation and just continue doing what i should do...that means her:))
But all in all i think there is tipping point when talking to this kind of girls,like you said in the membership videos,just do your thing and let her be get close to you.I think i did that with her.I have to fix up her childish act for now
Look dude this is you right here:
In this situation you spend a lot of time interacting with and leading up to a date with a girl, just to say she's got daddy issues with a shitty personality when you go to meet up with her and it doesn't work out. So clearly you weren't able to capitalize on that opportunity, and now you're back because apparently the only option you have now is a girl who's probably got emotional issues. This is not a good look for you, bud.
No one is to blame for the dysfunction going on but you. Don't try to sublimate it onto someone else.
But between back then and now i did had multiple encounters with other girls which turned good and were fun.
This last post was about the not-so-usual type of interaction and the way i acted .This is not the only girl i try to claw to.I chat up with a bunch of them BUT one thing i must admit.For some reason,i seem to turned into a little bitch and avoid talking to the hotter girls...like top of the line.And also i should start going out again because this social media playground is much more time consuming and less productive then actualy going out .