Fuckbuddy relationship dynamics.

Ha! Fuck yeah motherfucker! In an alley no less

The more emotional control/sway a girl has over you the more she'll sink her hooks in and turn you out. The more control/sway you have the more you can turn the relationship into whatever dynamic you want. You can turn a relationship into anything. Sky's the limit 

Ha, it was about time I pulled the fucking trigger. Jeezus

Ahh cool I think I get it man. Reminds me of that book "P imp" the way you phrase it. That whole power play "gettin Georgia'd" issue (being strung out and drained by one of your whores for those who may not have checked it out) except on a much less poisonous level

So I don't want to completely misunderstand.
Control/sway is majority you checking yourself before reacting/letting her pull your strings. Then leading as usual to mould the relationship however.

Just so you know where to come at this from.. when I read Pimp I wasn't impressed by it. By the level of control he had or what he was "getting them" to do for him. It's not some secret dark side shit you could become adept at if you "went down that path". You can see things from a purely benevolent standpoint, see that "area" of control and simply not be interested by it. A few of the guys on this forum know what I'm talking about.

You can choose to do whatever you want, why would you ever want to do that. Choose better things. 

I bring up the power play because shit's out of balance. Patriarchy was bad for girls and guys. It allowed us to become weak

Definitely man. I understand.

I'd be lying if I said I wasn't impressed at first though. It was quite a scandalous thing to have your mind opened up to, when I read it at first

But I can see that when you move down that path it becomes an oppression, slave dynamic. Poisonous, like I said, for everyone involved. (I saw that in the gradual degredation of all the women involved, and the so-called veteran whores. Sad.)

That's completely backwards as far as I'm involved. I want her to express herself for me, that's what makes her sexy.

Suppose all I can do really is to approach this as an experiment of sorts, since it's a first. Learn a little about myself. It'll be fun.

Her: Can we meet and not have really awkward sex in a doorway?

Hahaha, fuck.

Lol that's a fun one. I'd go straight into sexting right now 

Lol Eli

Nigga you got a book out called pimp?