Fun and how important it is with women and life
Alright so honestly these last few months I've been in a bad headspace due to not meeting my goals. I seriously beat myself up bad when I underachieve or when I don't reach goals. Me and my buddy had a long good talk while on the way to Vegas and he just set me straight. I needed to accept that I failed to live up to my expectation, but that it is ok. So this seg wayed into an amazing trip to Vegas that I honestly don't remember a whole lot of. Now that I've finished prefacing this post we can get onto what this is really about.
FUN.
Like dude, honestly this is so overlooked because at first it seems to directly conflict with the idea of being on the grind and constantly hitting up chicks. Fun can make or break you in a nut shell. If you're having enough fun it can seriously mask a lot of flaws in your game. I had so much fun in Vegas that I was DRAWING women in on my vibe ALONE. It wasn't looks or any of that shit -- I know this for a fact it was all based on the ridiculous amount of fun. Literally my thought process has changed from what should I do next to how do I make this more FUN... So Vegas was just fun without any sense of direction.
Last night I hit up Hollywood and tried to get into Drai's but the bouncer was being quite the cunt. End up hitting Avalon and honestly I love edm music. I get DOWN to edm music and that shit seriously puts me in such a good headspace that people just get drawn in and start having fun with me. This has caused girls to just come up to me and be like omg you're having so much fun or wow you can really dance. Point is if you're not having fun there really is NO point to this. You're just some creepy ass dude who wants to steal value from a chick. And honestly I may be compensating for not having my fundamentals down to the T with the amount of fun I have, so I may have to fine tune that as time goes on. Seriously have fun first, and then bring people into your world of fun. If they're negative, cut them out INSTANTLY as it is not productive towards the goal: FUN. Fun varies from person to person, but everyone can see and feel it off each other. This is seriously a rant but fuck I've just felt so good going out last couple times that I felt the need to write this post lol. With a bit more direction I feel I can harness this fun and cultivate it in a way where I am just clinical about my shit, while at the same time having a ridiculous amount of fun.
And that's not to say that I didn't have fun before, but I just feel like it's on a whole different level of fun. Very hard to describe.
Cool beans dude. What you're describing is the baseline from which all game is drawn. Cheerios
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Absolutely. Thing is I'd have fun but talking to chicks became a ' chore ' sometimes, where I would have to flip this switch on/off. I think people look at this a lot, myself included before, and are like ' pick-up mode '. I think the difference now is ultimately I have fun for myself because I choose too, where as before I think women played a larger influence on whether I was going to have fun.
A lot of this just has to do with the fact that I'm going to sicker venues now versus college bars. I think it's cool that I'm able to draw in women on just the insane amount of fun I am having, but of course I can't elicit these feelings within myself 24/7 and will still have to be sharp when I am not having an insane amount of fun. I don't know I just found it so strange when people were CLEARLY not having fun and drawing their state from the women's reaction. Like they didn't enjoy the music, didn't enjoy dancing, and were just lurking around the venue looking for their fix. Which seriously brings me back a couple years ago when I went out with Carte Blanche from CC and I mean we burned that venue to the ground, but he was like dude you're worried about the girl too much and aren't focusing on just having fun. Just ranting here as I don't think this is that eye opening for people but for me this hit me on a deep level as while I always had fun going out, there was always that subtle shift where I'd be disappointed if I didn't pull. I think perfect example of who embodies this it's all good, always having fun attitude is Vincent Chase.
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I think perfect example of who embodies this it's all good, always having fun attitude is Vincent Chase.
HAHAHA DUDE! I said this exact same thing my first session with MW