Gaming college girls- seed a date or utilize social circle game?

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Not lame at all

The real question is what do you want? to get her out sooner rather than later, or do you want to chill and leave her for the end of the week.

Figure out what you want to do then figure out how to achieve it, worst case scenario you lost a chance to fuck her.

The general idea is to be social and friendly with everyone without gaming too hard and trying to pull ALL girls. Doesn't mean you have to wait. If a girl is down to fuck just fuck her

This is a pretty stupid question dude. 

Yeah stupid question lol I was flustered about the situation

So the background info is this chick was my bathroom this weekend with a few of my friends (all dudes dorm so they were in the mens) and this chick starts going crazy cuz she ripped her thong. She starts begging me to get her scissors but I egg her on to rip it off. She walks out of the stall and I watch her rip her thong off Lol. I'm just laughing my ass off at this point and say some funny shit about her thong being sexy.

Fast forward to Monday she finds me on instagram and Dm's me

Her: Omg lol were u the guy in the bathroom with my friend and me

Me: Ha! yes

Her: omg im so sory loll

Me: lol not a problem

Me: totally accetable party behavior yah know

Her: I mean I got rlly sauced that night but thats jsut so embarassing like whats the odds my thong breaks

Me: what a shame it was a nice thong too :)

Her: well thank youuu :) I've had that thong for so many years so im not surprised

Me: aww hoe sad (cying laughing emoji) haha

Me: you must be devastated lol

Me: RIP RIP   

Me: Em whats your # lets pregame this weekend

Me: if you can handle not having anymore party mishaps :)

Her: hey sorry jst got back to my dorm and my phone died!!

Her: #

Her: ok cool lol  <-----So I was busy and never texted her and she reenaged with this text at like 12:30 am

As you can see my texting had no direction so I flopped for a second but recovered and went with the pregame thing. 

Dude that looks good to me. Exactly what I would've done.

If its not too late, just shoot some shit before the pregame. Text her, build a vibe, then tell her you guys should meet before the pregame and do something rad like enslave kittens to hold an icecream shop for ransom...they've been giving you a bad rep recently and need to be taught a lesson lol.

Or just do the pregame, get her to bring some cutie patooties, flirt with all of them, have fun, and she'll be dying to blow you before you guys leave to bars, parties or clubs. THEN, rip her new thong off hehe

I would also not use any callback humor relating to her thong ripping AT THE MOMENT. You can tell she's super embarassed about it and teasing her would be wayyy too much push.

After you've built some rapport and trust away from that mishap, then maybe when she's blowing you, whip out some scissors lol.

Me: Hi I forgot to text yah last night I was heavily distracted by netflix and kettle corn

Me: This is (name) by the way

Me: whats goin on homie

Her: haha its all good and im at the gym im so fucking sweaty

Her: Wait your from (state)? where?

Me: lol im at the gym too I dont see you thooo

Me: where u at

Her: im upstairs doing abs now

Me: lol stay over there im coming up in 5 I have one more set down here

Me: dom't worry imma sweaty mess too hahaha

I go and find her. She's super fuckin fit and cute. She was talking to a friend of mine so we all fuck around for a bit and I make an effort to make eye contact with her when we are all laughing and stuff so give her some extra attention. We all make pregame plans. She run's off to finish her workout. I see her later she's doing some lunges and we make eye contact and laugh.

Her: I just left lol

Her: I still have class at 6 :(

Me: lol I beat you outta there

Me: those butt lunges are time consuming (cyring laughing emoji)

Her: naaah they arent sore

Me: girl! thats not good they really should be

Her: haha I work them all the time

Me: pff are you one of those meatheads

Her: yes

Me: oh no im more of the ninja type

Me: on my way to karate rn :)

Her: where is there karate lol

Me:  undergroud dojo I cant tell you sorry

Me: lol back from crime fighting

Me: it is actually a gym class here tho

Her: haha glad you made it home

Good ideas here brotha. Tank yous

Me: Ive been meaning to text you back for dayys but I got caught up in some nerd shit

Me: Hows your day treatin yah :)

Her: haha honestly same I've been doing so much HW

Me: I got two classes cancelled today so I'm chillen so hard

Her: Ya my 1:30 got cancelled shud b at the gym but nah lol going shopping soon

Me: ah nice

Me: steal me some new shoes

Me: I like vans (cool glasses emoji)

Her: haha i'll try my best

Me: I just killed it at the gym

Me: my butt > your butt

Her: damn jealous haha

Me: girl if your butt and my hair had children they would be SO adorable

Me: lol!

Her: haha true :)

Me: whatre you up to tonight

Me: My roomate ditched me for his band and now I have nobody to ghost hunt with  <---not sure if this was too upfront about me having an open dorm

Me: my room is haunted by the way :)     <---not sure if I framed my room as a bad place lol

Her: im tyring to find a ride to the hockey game my roomate found out lol and what lol no its not

Me: the school team?

Her: yes

Me: yes it is the lights turn on and off and shit! he's a friendly ghost tho

Her: I dont believe u haha

Me: what time is that

Her: 7

Me: Dude he turns on my super cool LED lights and he changes the colors

Me: opens doors too!

Her:  its prob the electricity lol and the wind

Me: turns switches on

Me: don't doubt him

Me: he will start haunting you too (cyring laughing emoji)

Her: haha u might be right but I dont think so lol

Me: he prob ripped your thong :)  <-----this was lame as fuck, repeitive, and borderline mean/annoying

Me: whose your roomie by the way

I'm not diggin the texting at all. She obviously doesn't really find the ghost thing funny! strange vibe, her friend texted me yesterday just to let me know that we she into me so I don't really understand the lack of engagement. 

Any ideas to get this girl out TONIGHT? my roomie is gone and no parties 

Her: haha omg stop and Savannah I usually dont go out with her tho

Me: ahh dont knoew her

Me: she cute like you? lol

Her: maybe lol u tell me

Her: (pic) she's dating (name) on the hockey team tho

Me: yah shes cute if this were pokemon tho Id chose you

Me: (crying laughing emoji)

Her: lol stfu (monkey emoji)

Me: your a sexy lil pikachu

Me: im a charzard

Her: lol shhhh

I got invited out for food with her and all of her friends. A friend of mine actually invited me and i'm not quite sure if she knew I was going. She was rude as hell she probably took 25 snapchats sitting next to me in the car lol. I guess I didn't succesfully grab her attention. I called her out for being a snapchat queen and even jokingly stole her glasses (we swapped glasses and I tried to keep hers) but she wouldn't get off of her fuckin phone. Totally different vibe from when we talked in the gym. I obviously could have handled this better but I have no clue how to get her off her phone without being too intrusive. Awful game. Maybe the group thing threw me off too. Had fun with everyone else tho!

LOL no no I got it right in text man. Thats a computer typo!!!!

LOL no no I got it right in text man. Thats a computer typo!!!!

Handling groups is Level 2. You ain't even on level 1 yet. Look where all that weak shittiness got you

Yup, it's what I deserve I must walk through this shit storm

Why was she on her phone like that, there wasn't the slightest bit of respect she was straight up ignoring everyone there. Was it because of me? When we did talk it was good, then back to the phone. I was charasmatic as fuck to everyone as well, or at least I thought I was.

What was the genetic makeup of the group

It was the girl I was interested in and 3 close friends that were my floor mates last year. All girls. My girl was just straight up not interested in me or anyone else there. We were all shootin the shit and having fun but she did not want any of it. I think she even mentioned something about meeting with a guy tonight right next to me. Very strange behavior for someone that was interested in me enough to blabber about me to her friends.

Ok I honestly just read the text convo for the first time. Lol. It's actually pretty good. 

So I think what's happening here is her friend is dating a guy on the hockey team and now she wants to date a guy on the team too. So you show up and that's definitely not planned, lol. The girl dating the guy on the hockey team was in the car, yeah? 

No she was not. My girl was coming back from the hockey game with her roomie that dates a hockey player and somehow coordinated plans with our mutual friends (my old floor mates) and they picked her up right when she got home. My old floor mates invited me but never specified if my girl actually knew I was involved. We were texting 20 min prior and as you can see from the convo we did not speak about meeting up, and she was not very  interested in me either.

^I was thinking the same thing too (Manwhore's comment)

Side Note on your txt game: Dude it was good, but you missed an opportunity. Idk if you're reading her signs right cause her asking about your room and playfully edging you on about how its not haunted was "girl speak" for COME ON and LEAD me to your room now I'm interested.

You read the forum post about "Shaping A Girls Behavior"?

I was in YOUR situation with the girl glued to her phone while we were in a bar. I called her out on it playfully, worked temporarily. Then i took her phone, worked temporarily. Then i caused a hilarious fuckin scene at the bar/restaurant where I screamed across the restaurant to one of the waitresss and said playfully, "Don't you hate it when you're trying to have a conversation and someone is GLUED to their PHONE", as I dialed the tone of my voice into playful sarcastic and made a huge jokingly pissed off facial expression pointing to my girl.

The entire place LOL'd and she was so embarassed (in a good way). The waitress came up to us a few min later and further complimented my joke and teased her with me. It was a good laugh but guess what? She never pulled out her phone again.

Oh, and she had a boyfriend...so overstep her beliefs about hockey guys.

i've been meaning to write a part 2 of that post lol

I did see that, but she had already explained she was going to the hockey game and then it took her forever to get back to me. That was actually my planned route to get her over after hockey until this dinner thing popped up. I should have told her before the hockey game to make plans to see me afterwards.

Great example of shaping Jihad, quite honestly I was just trying not to be a fuckin asshole tonight. I've ran bizzare game like that and I usually become too much of a cock and it's a problem. She just REALLY REALLY seemed like she wasn't interested and it wasn't the end of the world my other buds were there and we had fun. I was being charasmatic, exuberant, challenging, and sincere to everyone but she was the only one that appeared to not enjoy me! I was just as charasmatic as our gay waitor LOL I actually thought he was trying to game all of them until we saw his rainbow name tag!

Meow did you understand the point I was making about the hockey guys/team? 

Yes, I think you're probably correct. She was saying something about a guy or a party but when I tried to party with everyone after dinner It seemed like everyone had alternative plans. Yet, they seemed pretty interested in pregaming with me tomorrow.

I still should have had the game to at least grab her attention off of her phone for more than 2 min! Fuck those hockey dudes it's a club team it's not like she has her eyes on some D1 stud. I guess I was dealt a shitty hand tonight but i'm still dissapointed in myself.

Here is the deal plain and simple, I was trying to be nice and I didn't handle the situation correctly.I sure as fuck have the capacity to get her off her phone, but i've been trying very hard to be intimate and make girls feel good lately (as you all are well aware of). The pendulum swung too far in the wrong direction, this WAS an appropiate time to kick in a lil bit of asshole humor. I am glad this happened, I now know what an appropiate butt kicking looks like in this situation.

I let her make me feel self concious. My emotional openess and sincerity must also be supplented with masculinity. SEXY AND STRONG as MW says.

Doesn't matter if they were a D1 guy or not that's not the point, that's not the point in her mind either.

But to be honest, if she was that enmeshed in her phone that's her problem. She wasn't on a date with you man

Ok I get that. Thanks for walking me through this fellas.

Well I fucked up this one too.

I came back from my date sorta late because I assumed this chick wanted NOTHING to do with me. I come to find out from one of my buddies she is in my dorm already with friends. I walk into the building and she is talkiing to some black dude in the hallway. I let out one of the most charasmatic "HEY WASSSUP" ever, at this point I'm very charged from my date. she's almost frozen and black dude talks to me for a second. She follows behind me into my room. I get a really awesome greeting from everyone because everyone is cocked already.

I had two friends waiting for me that I haven't seen in a while so I talk to them for a few. This girl trys to grab my attention and steals my hat of my head. We talk for a bit and the vibe is much different than friday she is actually interested in me. One of my friends tells me that she was looking for me all night, and that her being on her phone friday night was her "playing hard to get." That pisses me off because that was not playing hard to get, it was being rude. I find her again and talk anyways, I'm a little disatisfied with her at this time but I give her a chance. She briefly takes out her phone and I tell her "I'm gonna blow that shit up if you don't get off of that thing," She puts it away for good. Some friends keep asking me how my date went beforehand LOL I don't know how they found out I think my friend that was visiting told them but I tried to not tell people at school...hey kept on saying it around her but she didn't seem to mind actually.

The part where I really fucked up is we took a while to leave the pregame because I had to fill out guest passes for my friends which I should have done earlier. So my girl and her friends dissappear.This is typical from her though, my roomie told me she was pregaming for a while and kept on leaving and coming back. Big time party girl looking for the next high. I later hear that some other friends of mine were walking behind her on the way to the party and she was with a dude. I get to the party and chat with her again one on one for a bit, then go around and talk to everyone there. The problem is everytime I come back to see her she's with this same dude. I try to interject once, but it doesn't really work. I'm not really skilled on stealing girls back, I've never be in the situation before. I tried to be more charasmatic than him and captivate her with my awesomeness, I did not introduce myself to him either. It worked for a second but another friend (maybe her friend or other dudes friend) came up and starting a conversation amongst the three of them. I would like to hear how I could have handled this better. A friend of mine says he's going to hop into the interaction, distract the dude so I can swoop in. I didn't like the idea of this, it's college man I'm not trying to be a sleezeball.

I try to recover via text:

Me: where yah at unicorn butt

Her: no idea lol going to pee

Me: I'm at football house come here and take shots

Me: or drinks beers lol

Me: fuck that going to union now

Her: I'm going to LC's soon (apartments, not where she lives)

Me: lame dance party at union and pizza

Her: haha so tempting

Me: mad ghosts over in in alum hun

Her: haha I don't believe it   <----YES

Me: come n' check out for yourself

Her: nah lol  <---NOOO

Me: lol chicken

Sounds like it shook your reality a bit when you saw her talking w another guy.

I'm assuming you became approval seeking afterwards and tried to jump in on their party instead of making them come to yours.

Then your frame got more fucked up when another guy friend starts a convo between the two of them and not you. Maybe you didnt show it but deep down you got a little butthurt. Game over.

Shit like you described should not even affect you in the slightest.

Meditate more homie. Those up and down sinks in your stomach you feel when shit doesnt go your way,   Should not control your actions. Thats the essence of a weak frame. You'll bring those crumbled up feelings into other areas of your life and thats not good.

guess what? Life isnt fair. Are you gonna let life's rising and falling tides upset you and throw you off your mantle? Or are you gonna stand up and fight tooth and nail to carve your own path against the odds? Are you gonna LEAD yourself down the path made for you or the path you want to make on your own? Dont be a leaf in the wind.

Great insight Jihad

I actually didn't really try and jump in their party, I turned her towards me and talked directly with her like the dude wasn't there. This actually went fine until the conversation was started by the other person. At that point I should have taken over the group, but your right I got self conscious and ejected.

The fact you didn't talk to this dude at all is a huge glaring issue. You had zero situational awareness so you couldn't act.  Look I'll just say this, I don't always have super powers, but when I do I don't mind making buddies with a guy while I fuck the girl ;).

This situation was not awkward. Ha! You shoulda at least made it awkward mang. Lol. If I got a line on a girl I don't care who it is. I beat out dudes WAY better looking than myself, tall, etc. Constantly

Julien's tried to come into my sets multiple times.. this ain't some chode, this is Julien. I'll let him talk in one ear I'll talk in the other, she's so fucking done at that point I just escalate on her first then pull her around a corner. Bang Times, USA. Brad's tried to come into my set (actually he almost got that one lol). Everybody. You got to be bigger than the scenario

Got it nigga.

LOL Bang Times, USA xD

ya Meow couple ways to handle other guys in set that I do:

1) Go for the girl first, then calibrate asking how she knows the other guys, chitty chat a bit w others to know how they fall in with the girl you're gunning for and act accordingly. Just treat them like non threats and they'll start getting really needy to the point where they blow themselves out or you'll end up being buds cuz you show social leadership

2) I do this when I'm in a more social mood; approach entire group, find out dynamics, then start flirting and kinda take over from there

3) If i'm super in the zone, just take the girl and run lol. But that's only when i'm super duper having a good time cause it becomes really self amusing to just pick up a girl and walk off.

Next time, introduce yourself to the guy and based on the situation, start creating a bubble around you and the girl. If ANOTHER friend comes in and isolates you from the convo in a weird abrupt manner like you described, re-interrupt him like, "YO! Whats up, whats your name?" Then the floor is yawzzzz

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