Gaming a girl through facebook?
So there's this chick I met at a birthday party back in February that I have on facebook and instagram. We didn't really talk other than that night and even then barely, I was pretty busy with other chicks since she didn't have a bf. She doesn't have a bf anymore and I was wanting to hit her up.
How do I go about doing this? I virtually know nothing about her, have only talked to her a bit in person that one time but I have her on Facebook. I want to sort of stay away from the blatant "hey whatsup" message. What do you fellas suggest for something like this? She's pretty hot so I already know she's getting hit up by tons of guys now that she's single.
What sort of Facebook presence do you have? Do you post up funny shit and/or your thoughts on stuff? I do, so talking to the wiminz on their is easy because they already "know who I am" so to speak.
I have a bunch of pictures that get a bunch of likes, funny status stuff, funny shared photos, some mixed martial art's stuff, lots of pictures of partying too actually.......
Does this help in terms of messaging her? I don't know how to go about this, but I do know your initial profile has a lot to do with the crowd you attract (I.E. social proof)
Yeah dude. Done. You could also post something to her wall that's good, or has some "callback humor" elements. That would definitely catch her attention. Or just message her, you're probably already past the point you need to be. Good job
Oh sweet, thanks man. Do you suggest a reengagement type message from the database or should I try to be creative with it?
I like this one from patrick bateman "Don't get a big head or anything now, but you're downright cute, just had to hit you up."
How do you guys set up your profiles? I have a profile pic in a suit from high school prom, it got quite many likes but i look a bit gay lol.I'll change it if i find a better pic. Aside from that i have some party pics, festival pics, muay thai training pics, and some pics in which i'm in the jungle. I usually remove the tag if i get tagged in a club pic though, i don't wanna get a reputation as a "club guy". Thoughts?
I honestly, don't mind the club/party pics. I think they work in your favor if it looks like you're having with with either lots of people, or girls, or just your buds even.
I think I might have gotten inside my head about messaging this chick, now I know I have to do it because I need to stop letting myself get in the way of the attractive chicks I'd like to game. Not sure what the message itself should say, maybe I could do something like "Not trying to be rude or anything, but I don't remember you very well. I hope you're more than just a pretty face."
Some sort of message that makes her want to reply and preferably makes her qualify herself so I have something to work with... Whatcha guys think?
I would tone it down a bit.
Okay, not sure how to calibrate it. I'll do some more searching around I might have fucked myself by getting in my head