Getting ass sex with a girl who's not down

Well you need to figure out her internal/mental associations with it. Like she literally might be afraid of shitting on you, and once she realizes that's totally not the case she'll be much more open to it. 

I know the feels lol I think Joe Rogan talks about this how guys have this desire to constantly push boundaries and that's why guys want butt sex.

In college I was seeing a girl who I fucked in the ass. Basically built it up. As I would go down on her I would tease a lot, then tease her ass a lot to the point where she would tell me she couldn't come until I fingered her ass. That and dominant sex. We had a bit of a volatile relationship so we would often have makeup/breakup/angry sex. I would be really dominant. Basically spike her emotions, make her cum hard and have her anchor orgasms with her ass. Then start talking about it during sex like Dan Rose from Sex God Method mentions like "oooh would be so bad if I fucked you in the ass...but I'm not" make her mind go there first, make her want it but don't give it to her so she feels like she wants it. Sexual compliance essentially. Eventually she wanted me to fuck her in the ass, asked her gay friend about it and everything. The key was making her want it and building sexual desire/compliance.

Nailed it.

You can do that with ANYTHING. This girl straight hit me when I mentioned coming on her face, as I was fucking her. I just keep yakking about it, telling her how hot she'd look with it dripping down her face. Needless to say she got her first facial only a couple minutes later. Loved it

Fantastic guys! Very helpful.

Definitely re reading the sex god method. And fuck it woudl be hott to be the first guy to fuck a girl in the ass.

And yeah, I think she heard a story about anal sex going bad or something......

So she's definitely worried about there being shit or something. I told her that doesn't happen. Da bish won't even let me put a finger up there. That's how paranoid she is. And I know her ass is pretty clean. Cuz I sneak a finger there sometimes.

How do I get her to understand it's not that dirty and it's not a big deal.

This same girl gets super self consious if she isn't like shaven down there. 

I've had several girls teling me stuff like "wow it's so weird I've never felt more comfortable naked with anyone else and so quickly too. Even with my past boyfriends."

How I do it is basically go first. After you cum, kiss her, get up, walk around all relaxed with your dick out, maybe go into the kitchen naked ask her if she wants some water. Come back give her a glass, stand there with your dick out while she's drinking water talking about whatever like as if you were in an office somewhere with people around you talking about normal shit.

In this situation I would maybe say some outlandish shit or tell some stories about something crazy someone did. Maybe stuff that would provoke a shit test. Use it as an opportunity to share your opinion like well I don't judge people, everyone's got their own ways, I think it's kind of cool they tried something they wanted to do. I think self-acceptance is one of the biggest issues people in this world have so I like to make people feel comfortable and empowered to be themselves around me. There's so many judgemental people outthere so much bullshit, why continue that I'd rather encourage people to be themselves and try new things out.

Use it as an example to compliment a person, or say it's really cool, or share your perspective on it where you're very accepting, understanding, etc instead of the conventional judgemental reaction.

Also when she's not shaven and you're trying to go down on her go up to her face with a light kind of energy look her in the eyes laugh about random stupid shit you say kiss her. Touch her pussy while you kiss her, make a joke about it have like a light boyish kind of energy..."let me see it, look at fuckin cute she is baby! awww look at her I just want to eat her up, let her come out and play. Hey don't be mean to her, I love her. Shh!" some stuff like that. Basically I would want to add a light, fun more loving/playful vibe in the face of her self-consciousness.

When a girl constantly talks shit about her body (women get conditioned to talk about how ugly they are to fish for compliments and not come off as bragging)....look her in the eyes and in a serious tone be like "Listen, I like you and I respect you. When I'm with you I don't want to see anyone else treating you like shit or disrespecting you including you. If you want to talk shit about yourself when I'm not around, feel free to do that. But when you're with me I don't want to hear any of that shit. (Have her look you in the eye) You got it? Good :) Now let's go blah blah" smack her on the ass.

Bam, fantastic dude! Very useful read.

I just read the anal sex chapterm from Sex God Method. And shit, sounds like a ton of work. I'm just going to work on the finger in the ass thing for now. Anal sex just seems like a lot of work lol.

Is it really considered to be a somewhat clean act?

Ive heard stores from mates saying their cock came out covered in shit and the whole room stunk like shit. I think if the girl was well prepared that shouldnt be an issue but damn, that shit could scar me for life ha.