getting club/bar security on bitchy girls

So I was approaching like crazy last night and I opened these two girls and one immediatly puts her forearm on my neck and pushes me away. I proceeded to tell her that shit should "go home" and "think about what you did." I then told bar security to have a talk with her about it which he did.

Is this gay? I was super pissed and I considered anyone grabbing my neck crossing a boundary, even if she's a woman. I can deal with slapping but this not only crossed the line. I also was super friendly to them.