Getting Money

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Sat, 09/06/2014 - 02:04

Anonymous

Hey guys,today i did two interviews and they went pretty bad.I got to a bar in my town asked for a job,i was feeling anxiety,basicslly i was oozing anxiety all over the place,plus my voice was like that of a fool during the whole interview,these factors were fucking devastating.The owners expression was like ok go die in a corner,i dont have to talk at all about the second interview,the only thing i am gonna say the owner was a hot brunnete,so the game so over for me.

I expect some good advices from you guys,on how to overcome this anxiety problem and be myself,to get the job done.It is important for me to get financially stable,so i can get my claws on manwhores coaching programm.Thanks

Sat, 09/06/2014 - 02:51

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You need to start

You need to start meditating/listening to Eckart Tolle's Practicing the Power of Now, and start controlling your breathing and speaking. You should always be able to speak steady and without wavering.

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Sat, 09/06/2014 - 06:01

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Haha if there was one piece

Haha if there was one piece of advice that could work for every post on here, meditate/tolle

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Sun, 09/07/2014 - 06:29

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Hmm. Well, what I did when I

Hmm. Well, what I did when I was young was I said FUCK YOU to getting a job, and I became self employed instead.

Just fuckin hustle and do what it takes to get paid (minus anything illegal, not worth it).

What it comes down to at the end of the day, is cash in your pocket (bank account, whatever). It's all about profit.

Money is simply a reward for services rendered. You find more people to help, you receive more money as a reward. An exchange of value.

You're young so you shouldn't have many issues in your head. Just find out what works and emulate. Find someone who has made something work, that you have an interest in, or just anything really since you're young, and copy. Keep going UNTIL you make it work.

Fuck that employee mindset. The world is waking up on a massive scale right now. We don't need more employee mindsets running around being controlled and kept submissive. Become your own man - go out and make some fucking cash.

We live in this world right now, with some amazing things going on. We have the INTERNET...... this gets overlooked a lot, taken for granted, or seen as just, "oh yeah the internet, that's cool, meh. next." People don't understand what a huge fucking deal this is. We have the ability to connect with anyone anywhere in the world from your couch.

Business, making money, it's all about providing value for other people. Going to give, going to serve. Find as many people as you can to help, in any way whatsoever that people require some help, and you can't not get rich.

In the form of services or providing goods to people. You find a way to help someone, and you get compensated in the form of money.

The internet is such an amazing way to connect and find people. Learn from other successful people who make money and do what they do. You follow a proven blueprint, and you keep going UNTIL you make it work.

Don't fall into the idiot unsuccessful person trap, "oh I tried that it didn't work. oh I tried that too it doesn't work." Idiots choose one thing, then give up half way and try something else.

Choose something and make the fucking DECISION to make it work - keep going UNTIL. If someone else is doing it, then it's possible, it's conceivable, go and do it. See the end result of what you're looking to accomplish and hold that picture with you - how awesome it will be to be a Self Made Man. A successful entrepreneur, whatever you want.

Find something that interests you and do it. Keep going Until you make it work.

Oh right, anxiety in a job interview. Yeah Eckhart can help you control that. But what you really need is a mindset shift. You need some correct thinking, on top of the mindfulness and meditation.

Shift your mindset from 'trying' to get hired, to "I'm absolutely qualified for this job. Is this job what I'm looking for? Is it good for ME?"

Maybe visualize the interview to make sure that the job is right for YOU. In effect, they are not interviewing you, you are interviewing them.

You're going to have to KNOW what you want in a job - what kind of lifestyle it's going to give you, the pay, etc.

You can't have any negativity regarding this - no worries, or anxieties about it. You've got to give yourself the mindset of being qualified, and the employers will definitely hire you because you're perfect for the job. Have no attachment to whether you get the job or not, as if you don't get it, then that's the best thing for you - and if you do get it, then that's the best thing for you. Whatever happens always works out for the best.

What it really comes down to is KNOWING. You've got to Know deep to your core, what you're looking for, that it's going to happen, and no attachment to it.

Put all your thoughts in the right place. Any worries, doubts, anxieties - look at them and get rid of them. Any thought which does not help you get what you desire, is hurting you. Make sure all your thoughts inside your head are aligned with the greatest version of yourself. -- And then KNOW what you really want. And Know you're going to get it. In your head, this is already a done deal.

No forcing, no trying. Effortless and simple. Feeling good and taking it easy. I wrote an article on mindset awhile back, might be helpful. http://manwhore.org/forum/content/success-mindset

Sun, 09/07/2014 - 12:35

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Ok Megalos your job is to

Ok Megalos your job is to focus on all the advice contained within this thread and report back.

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Sun, 09/07/2014 - 18:44

megalos (not verified)

Thanks guys

Thanks guys,i am going to work on your advices right now.

Mon, 09/08/2014 - 04:26

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Things like this are what I

Things like this are what I love about this forum.

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Mon, 09/08/2014 - 04:57

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I also can't stand the idea

I also can't stand the idea of employment. The idea of working a job just sucks at my soul, (even though I don't have a problem with working a job temporarily as long as it's to a purpose.)

For my two cents, I'd say that attitude is huge. There are two people that live inside you, the CHUMP and the CHAMP. Personally, if I bring the chump to the table, everything he touches turns to dogshit lol. When I bring the champ, everything he touches turns to gold. The difference between chump/champ is negativity/positivity. Champ is always found on the frontlines with a grin on his face, whether he's playing a game or fighting a war, and he doesn't quit. You need to get in touch with your inner "champ."

A lot of that, for me, was developing little daily rituals and habits over the years that bring out my inner champ. I start seeing my day as "having fun" even if it end up being absolutely brutal. That attitude alone will bring you a lot of success in interviews or anything else for that matter

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Mon, 09/08/2014 - 15:57

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Very true, attitude

Very true, attitude determines so so much

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