Girl with boyfriend flakes twice. Did I fuck this up? Can I fix It?
This girl has a boyfriend. She hooked up with me in a nightclub a week ago. She lives out of town but we arranged to meet up this weekend because she would be back down. She flaked on the first meet up and now she just flaked on the second one. This is the texting that follows.
her: hey lisa and I are going to the beach now so I wont be able to come today. Sorry
me: it's fine I don't like your haircut anyway
her: Well I dont like your face ;)
her: But in all seriousness how did you know I got a haircut?
me: I didnt know you got a haircut I was just teasing
me: But do you actually want to hang out cuz it doesnt really seem that way
her: I do I just have had stuff come up thats all
me: Ok well if we do hangout now you owe me a back massage to start
her: start what ;)
me: Use your imagination
her: I would rather not have to imagine
me: I can help you with that
her: If your lucky
me: You only get lucky if the massage is good enough. If it is ill turn over and let you do the other side.
her: You wont be even wanting a massage once I am there
me: When do you want to find out
her: I dont know when I can
me: hmm seems this isnt working out
her: because you dont get what you want right away, haha
me: Well do you want to see me before you leave?
her: Im already on my way home
her: I shouldnt be doing anything anyway
her: So as you said this isnt going to work haha
her: Not because of you though
Your being an asshole
I dont think the straight forward aggresiveness is appropiate for some chick with a boyfriend. The way I'd see it panning out is you being more lover boy like a guilty pleasure kinda thing for her.
Ya ok. Maybe I got too pushy with it. I was def being very nice and lacking edge in the text exchanges before this one so I thought I needed to do something different.
Seems I may have fucked it up bad tho as she just deleted me off facebook lol.
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All good. I've had girls delete me off Facebook just so they could fuck me.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
What direction would you take to save this mw? I was ready to write something ghey and almost apologize for being too pushy? Maybe thats too soft tho.
Ok so me and this girl havnt talked since I posted this thread and but a couple nights ago she adds me back on facebook and sends me a text asking how im doing. I reply to her and she never wrote back. How should I re engage?
her: Hey, how have you been :)
me: Ive been good. What about you?
I was think of writting something like "Any reason for the txt the other night?" or "Any reason for the txt the other night haha?"
Honestly dude this forum is really just for alumni. Awful text tho. She hits you up out of the blue and that's all you got? Awful
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Ok so me and this girl havnt talked since I posted this thread and but a couple nights ago she adds me back on facebook and sends me a text asking how im doing. I reply to her and she never wrote back. How should I re engage?her: Hey, how have you been :)
me: Ive been good. What about you?
I was think of writting something like "Any reason for the txt the other night?" or "Any reason for the txt the other night haha?"
If she's hitting you up, assume she wants to see you. You should be setting up dates immediatley by this point. The more you text her, the more chance you have of fucking it up. All you need to say is "Hey good to hear from you. Id love to see you, when are you free to get together this week?"
and if she doesnt give you a date say "Great well get back to me once you figure your schedule out" and leave it at that. Thats literally all you have to do.
Honestly dude this forum is really just for alumni. Awful text tho. She hits you up out of the blue and that's all you got? Awful
Thought you pmd me telling me I was all good. Or did something change?
You're still posting on here aintcha??
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
True!