girl from campus
Ok so I met this girl at my campus early morning, and setup a date for later that day. We ended up going to her place to watch netflix, I hung out with her for like 2 hrs, kissed a lot and cuddle basically, I tried going for more but kept getting LMR when I tried touching erogenous areas. lol, Finally she had to go do something else so she dropped me off. Obviously I want to meet up with her again, but I cant until Monday because of how far I live from campus. This was on thursday btw.
Anyways I texted her today (so 2 days later) :
"Bonjour Maddie-moiselle", (her name is Maddie and she said something about being french, so I thought it was funny)
she has read receipts on so I see that she saw it but hasn't replied.
Im noob, so I havnt even gotten this far with a girl before lol so I'm just wondering like if I should've texted sooner, later, or doesnt matter, etc.
Also, Im thinking of calling her on monday regardless of whether or not she replies to my text, is this good idea?
Yeah call her.
but up the volume of woen you're pursuing. Quit expecting one girl to be your desired outcome. It most certainly won't work out
You didn't make yourself "the prize." You basically put her in a position where she was putting herself on a limb (bringing you to her place), but you showed yourself to be something she could have easily anyway. And going for you would make her feel "cheap and easy." No go.
At this point you don't have anything to lose calling her. But don't put any faith in her answering, or invest your emotions in her, she's already seen what's up and made her decision... and It's not her fault.
So you take a bus to school and you go to class with this chick? Do you have a job. What's your plan to get your own means of transportation. Not that I'm trying to throw you off the course of this girls' vag, but it's obviously something you need to be thinking about.
I'm 20, live with parents and working on getting a internship. I don't have my own car but I'm working on it. The girl was really into me but yeah somewhere in the interaction I did make it seem like she's the prize or whatnot. I'm just gonna try and focus on building abundance, and improving my logistics. As for this girl she hasn't given me a straight answer about a pregnancy test she told me she was getting so idk maybe I shouldn't even pursuer haha either way she told me she's busy. also I triple texted
me: what are you doing today
her: I'm really busy this week with music and an essay I need to write
me: oh ok. Did you find out yet
me: about the pregnancy*
me: I just got chipotlaid... Now I have an itty bitty burrito baby
So yeah lol
Been in that boat, man.
Go out and game as much as you can. Since she isn't even replying, get as many numbers/closes/day2s as you can and rack it all up. Build abundance that way. It'll only help you.
Work on text game online if you have to. I have been using Tinder and Badoo, things like that and it's helping me improve so much. Game other girls as soon as you start to like one particular girl so you don't fuck it up and fall into scarcity. It's what I'm doing now and I can honestly say it's helping more than anything else and things are starting to roll really well. Even if it doesnt work for this chick, you'll have met dozens of other ones so you'll still be getting ass and making progress. That's all that really matters. Using experiences as reference points are key to getting better and making improvements, it's something I have realized lately and it's awesome man.
Get out there and sarge. You got this, man.
Yo why would you ever text a girl about a pregnancy test. Was this you? Or some other dude that fucked her