This girl "freaks out" at every escalation
I find myself in a weird cycle with this girl, where everything is going great and then I do something to step up our whatever it is we are having and her mood suddenly shifts, she then flies away and then after a day or two, it's all cool again. One thing is that when I notice she freaked out over smth/literally flew off, I back down, I don't force things and I don't initiate contact.. I just wait for her to cool down and everything eventually, usually after a couple of days, goes back to normal. And that is how we escalate constantly...
The last time this happened was yesterday. We had a huge party and before I focused on that one girl I kiss closed 2 other girl. Well, we kissed there for the first time later on, held hands blabla etc for most of the night and then in the morning she goes all weird on me. It looked like she was regretting that we kissed and everything, but I don't understand how can the mood change so quickly when we had fun literally all night and she was all ok with it and then in the morning, Boom. Like she freaked out or something. Or fucked me off, I really cannot tell, I was surprised as fuck. And I don't know how to react. I don't wanna be too pushy, I don't wanna be to distant.. So I don't know what to do? Do you have any idea how to break out of this cycle so things can finally go to normal... Because it's obvious we like each other.
Keep in mind she's pretty awkward when it comes to socializing and doesn't have almost any experience with guys.
Dude, girls have been getting banged since they were 15 or 16. This girl is obviously not a virgin, you need to step up your physical/sexual escalation game. How is it you spent the night with this chick (you said "then in the morning") but you didn't take things farther?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Well she's 21 and it would surprise me if she wasn't a virgin.. but that doesn't really matter, as you said - sexual escalation was kind a poor. As for the other thing... The concert was until 4am and then we went to smoke to my appartment with my friend. I was only with her maybe one hour until we both went to sleep and I didn't push because, well, I'm a pussy -that's the 1st reason and 2nd one, when I started to push she started saying no no, I want to take it slower, don't push it too much blabla and well it was I either be agressive or let it go and just chill. So I chilled :)
Ah fuck this shit.. the more I write about it the more I feel like waaay to much effort has to be put into this girl to make it happen. Probably not worth it.
No it would surprise me if you weren't a virgin, she's defiintely not. She's simply reflecting back at you your views of women and your level of experience. And then in your next post rather than face your own inadequacy you escape by blaming it on her saying it's not worth it. Such is the life of a chode
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
And then in your next post rather than face your own inadequacy you escape by blaming it on her saying it's not worth it. Such is the life of a chode
Damn, it just hit me that I do this too much. Thanks for pointing this out.
She's simply reflecting back at you your views of women and your level of experience
Yeah make no mistake that if it was MW or someone else with very solid game with that chick, shit would have gone down! When I first started training with MW last year, I didn't want to believe that shit. But now I know the truth lol.