Girl I met on the Subway (Salt Lake City)
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 06:53
The fire was lit under my ass last Tuesday and I kinda terrorized the subway and the supermarket after a horrific Monday approaching fest. Pretty much I was having a field day and hitting shit HARD. I met this girl, I wasn't even that loud, she literally got up out her subway seat to hear me, but I auto-corrected (got louder) and took things from there. Got off the subway w/her and talked to her for like 20 minutes. At that point I should have had an insta-date but she kept objecting to it because she had dinner plans w/her gay roommate and his boyfriend, but long story short I came across like total BOSS to her.
I will kick myself if I don't get this one out.
Me: 08/22/2012 03:42:43 Hey beb, hope you didn't die of boredom from being 3rd wheel ;)
Her: 08/22/2012 04:10:01 No we kept it chill- we ended up getting take out and staying in
Me: 08/22/2012 04:17:39 Ice cream and dancing to azonto way more fun sugar
Me: 08/22/2012 21:46:34 Hey pumpkin what does your schedule look like
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called her left a voicemail - restarted a day later..
Me: 08/25/2012 01:19:11 Damn i almost got caught robbing an ice cream truck
Me: 08/25/2012 01:20:43 Next time around I'm going to need you to watch my back ;)
Her: 08/25/2012 01:21:38 Lolzz! I'll be the distraction next time... Sorry I didn't get back to u last night!
Me: 08/25/2012 01:26:32 That'll work. When's the next time you can join me bebe? Ice cream tastes wayyy better when its free
Fuckkk. Just realized why she didn't text me back.
I should have punished her for "sorry I didn't get back to you last night". So essentially I rewarded bad behavior = chode. damn I didn't even catch that in the moment when I was texting. Fuck.
I will kick myself if I don't get this one out.
Me: 08/22/2012 03:42:43 Hey beb, hope you didn't die of boredom from being 3rd wheel ;)
Her: 08/22/2012 04:10:01 No we kept it chill- we ended up getting take out and staying in
Me: 08/22/2012 04:17:39 Ice cream and dancing to azonto way more fun sugar
Me: 08/22/2012 21:46:34 Hey pumpkin what does your schedule look like
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called her left a voicemail - restarted a day later..
Me: 08/25/2012 01:19:11 Damn i almost got caught robbing an ice cream truck
Me: 08/25/2012 01:20:43 Next time around I'm going to need you to watch my back ;)
Her: 08/25/2012 01:21:38 Lolzz! I'll be the distraction next time... Sorry I didn't get back to u last night!
Me: 08/25/2012 01:26:32 That'll work. When's the next time you can join me bebe? Ice cream tastes wayyy better when its free
Fuckkk. Just realized why she didn't text me back.
I should have punished her for "sorry I didn't get back to you last night". So essentially I rewarded bad behavior = chode. damn I didn't even catch that in the moment when I was texting. Fuck.
Mon, 08/27/2012 - 09:01
#1
Re: Girl I met on the Subway (Salt Lake City)
@Katalyst:
Leave this alone start it back up day after tomorrow. Wait that was the 25th it is now the 27th...
This whole "work" thing sucks
Just text her that
Leave this alone start it back up day after tomorrow. Wait that was the 25th it is now the 27th...
This whole "work" thing sucks
Just text her that
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Mon, 08/27/2012 - 10:00
#2
Re: Girl I met on the Subway (Salt Lake City)
@Katalyst:
Yup- it wasn't just that you "rewarded" her bad behavior... you actually PULLED on it.
I would have responded with something like... this, "hmm, idk beb, being the distraction is a tough job- wouldn't want to see you get hurt ; )"
BOOM
ANDDDDDDDD
She's chasing you again...
And the thing is that, with that kind of text- it's not at all obvious what you're doing... in fact, she may not even CHASE you after that, but it still subtly puts her on her toes... it's kinda like a modified version of those "neg" things that used to be so popular. The push is super super subtle... but that's all it takes for her to meet up eventually. Push doesn't have to be "massive", especially in text game... just has to be enough to keep her in check.
Actually, yeah, that text I just wrote up would have been really money. Just sayin.
Simple as that.
Yup- it wasn't just that you "rewarded" her bad behavior... you actually PULLED on it.
I would have responded with something like... this, "hmm, idk beb, being the distraction is a tough job- wouldn't want to see you get hurt ; )"
BOOM
ANDDDDDDDD
She's chasing you again...
And the thing is that, with that kind of text- it's not at all obvious what you're doing... in fact, she may not even CHASE you after that, but it still subtly puts her on her toes... it's kinda like a modified version of those "neg" things that used to be so popular. The push is super super subtle... but that's all it takes for her to meet up eventually. Push doesn't have to be "massive", especially in text game... just has to be enough to keep her in check.
Actually, yeah, that text I just wrote up would have been really money. Just sayin.
Simple as that.
Tue, 08/28/2012 - 06:40
#3
Re: Girl I met on the Subway (Salt Lake City)
@buddhagames:
Yeah I keep fuckin myself in the ass. I need to take a step back and look at the big picture of how texts are.. All i can think of is MEETUP MEETUP MEETUP when I'm in the moment. I don't know though some might say what I did wasn't bad. I can't tell.
Me: 08/27/2012 20:21:16 This whole "work" thing sucks
Her: 08/27/2012 21:36:24 Doesn't it sometimes!
Me: 08/27/2012 21:50:11 I know pumpkin. Lets go roll in the sand and destroy other kid's sand castles.
My thoughts: I wanted to send tonight at the end of the text message but maybe it's a good thing that I didn't...I don't know what I'm doing I'm just throwing darts at the wall and seeing what works and what doesn't.
I feel really good right now. When you take action you feel good.
Yeah I keep fuckin myself in the ass. I need to take a step back and look at the big picture of how texts are.. All i can think of is MEETUP MEETUP MEETUP when I'm in the moment. I don't know though some might say what I did wasn't bad. I can't tell.
Me: 08/27/2012 20:21:16 This whole "work" thing sucks
Her: 08/27/2012 21:36:24 Doesn't it sometimes!
Me: 08/27/2012 21:50:11 I know pumpkin. Lets go roll in the sand and destroy other kid's sand castles.
My thoughts: I wanted to send tonight at the end of the text message but maybe it's a good thing that I didn't...I don't know what I'm doing I'm just throwing darts at the wall and seeing what works and what doesn't.
I feel really good right now. When you take action you feel good.