Girl likes my persistence but won't meet up
So the backstory with this chick I met her on the street late night by herself but she was meeting up with friends. We pretty much agreed on a time and date and for some reason she never responded
Me: Hey girl get home safe - Mark Girl - 7 mins later: Just got home :) Me - 2 mins later: Enjoy masturbating to the thought of me :) Girl: Fuck you Me - 1 min later: Obv joking ms pedantic Me - 10 hrs 7 mins later: Tequila 4 Mark 0. I'd kill a small child for a Tylenol Me - 3 hrs 6 mins later: Hope ur still asleep cuz you obv needed it :o Girl - 36 mins later: I've actually been in bed all day. Lol. I got the flu :/ Me - 3 mins later: Aw I gave you that? I said no kissing! Next time no means no :p Girl - 3 hrs 23 mins later: We didn't kiss! Me - 17 hrs 57 mins later: Hey pumpkn how's that flu? I need a Tylenol the size of a hockey puck Me - 1 day 4 hrs later: We need to talk I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant Me - 1 day 19 hrs later: Listen.. Meet me for drinks Girl - 3 mins later: I give you points for being persistent. I don't know you though... Me - 3 mins later: Good. I prefer blind dates Me - 18 mins later: I was sexi boy from street. Tried to steal you away before you met friends Girl - 11 mins later: I know who you are! I mean I don't know you personally. How old are you anyways? Me - 5 mins later: 31. And you're 30 I believe Girl - 1 min later: Yes. That's correct Girl - 3 mins later: What about me the other night makes you think I would be someone you'd want to take on a date? Me - 13 mins later: You appeared slightly smug & opinionated. I like that Girl - 38 mins later: Ha ha. I'm a lot of that. Me - 9 mins later: :) This texting stuff is too nerdy for me. Let's grab a drink Girl - 3 hrs 44 mins later: I don't know. You could be a murderer Me - 47 mins later: Well I missed my chance last time Girl - 4 mins later: Do you live down here Girl: ? Me - 2 mins later: Folsom actually Girl - 1 min later: So you want to meet up? Me - 3 mins later: If we're done with 20 questions. Sure Girl - 5 mins later: Well it's only fair since you followed me home Me - 6 mins later: Fair enough. What days work for you? Girl - 1 hr 22 mins later: Sunday is the soonest I have Me - 25 mins later: That works. Sunday @9? Meet at Firestone Girl - 1 min later: 9pm??? I'm old! Maybe 7? Me - 3 mins later: I can do 8 otherwise let's reschedule Me - 1 day 14 hrs later: *Poke* or does that only work on Facebook. Girl: Very funny ;) Me - 3 mins later: What up pumpkinbutt Girl - 3 mins later: Wow. Punpkinbutt?? Lol Me - 8 mins later: It's affectionate lol Girl - 9 mins later: I assumed :) Girl: It was funny Me - 1 day 4 hrs later: It's so hot went to the movies today just for the ac.. Girl - 57 mins later: It is crazy hot!!! Me - 17 hrs 18 mins later: Hey beb just thinking we need to get together before our spell breaks lol what's yer schedule like? Me - 2 days 5 hrs later: You're going to drive me into the arms of several other women at this rate.
I call her two days later and leave a funny voicemall about how I'm rejecting her application at Walmart and to try the dry cleaner's next door (old-school Braddock lol)
she texts me back this right after
Girl - 57 mins later: God I give you points for humor and persistence
I'm sure there would've been a great line at this point but I was lazy
Me - 17 mins later You find it smexy.
No response...
Any feedback for my texting?
Wow...can't edit posts. Here's a better version
Me: Hey girl get home safe - Mark
Girl - 7 mins later: Just got home :)
Me - 2 mins later: Enjoy masturbating to the thought of me :)
Girl: Fuck you
Me - 1 min later: Obv joking ms pedantic
Me - 10 hrs 7 mins later: Tequila 4 Mark 0. I'd kill a small child for a Tylenol
Me - 3 hrs 6 mins later: Hope ur still asleep cuz you obv needed it :o
Girl - 36 mins later: I've actually been in bed all day. Lol. I got the flu :/
Me - 3 mins later: Aw I gave you that? I said no kissing! Next time no means no :p
Girl - 3 hrs 23 mins later: We didn't kiss!
Me - 17 hrs 57 mins later: Hey pumpkn how's that flu? I need a Tylenol the size of a hockey puck
Me - 1 day 4 hrs later: We need to talk I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant
Me - 1 day 19 hrs later: Listen.. Meet me for drinks
Girl - 3 mins later: I give you points for being persistent. I don't know you though...
Me - 3 mins later: Good. I prefer blind dates
Me - 18 mins later: I was sexi boy from street. Tried to steal you away before you met friends
Girl - 11 mins later: I know who you are! I mean I don't know you personally. How old are you anyways?
Me - 5 mins later: 31. And you're 30 I believe
Girl - 1 min later: Yes. That's correct
Girl - 3 mins later: What about me the other night makes you think I would be someone you'd want to take on a date?
Me - 13 mins later: You appeared slightly smug & opinionated. I like that
Girl - 38 mins later: Ha ha. I'm a lot of that.
Me - 9 mins later: :) This texting stuff is too nerdy for me. Let's grab a drink
Girl - 3 hrs 44 mins later: I don't know. You could be a murderer
Me - 47 mins later: Well I missed my chance last time
Girl - 4 mins later: Do you live down here
Girl: ?
Me - 2 mins later: Folsom actually Girl - 1 min later: So you want to meet up?
Me - 3 mins later: If we're done with 20 questions. Sure Girl - 5 mins later: Well it's only fair since you followed me home
Me - 6 mins later: Fair enough. What days work for you?
Girl - 1 hr 22 mins later: Sunday is the soonest I have
Me - 25 mins later: That works. Sunday @9? Meet at Firestone Girl - 1 min later: 9pm??? I'm old! Maybe 7?
Me - 3 mins later: I can do 8 otherwise let's reschedule
Me - 1 day 14 hrs later: *Poke* or does that only work on Facebook.
Girl: Very funny ;) Me - 3 mins later: What up pumpkinbutt
Girl - 3 mins later: Wow. Punpkinbutt?? Lol
Me - 8 mins later: It's affectionate lol Girl - 9 mins later: I assumed :)
Girl: It was funny
Me - 1 day 4 hrs later: It's so hot went to the movies today just for the ac..
Girl - 57 mins later: It is crazy hot!!!
Me - 17 hrs 18 mins later: Hey beb just thinking we need to get together before our spell breaks lol what's yer schedule like?
Me - 2 days 5 hrs later: You're going to drive me into the arms of several other women at this rate.
Yoyo
So one piece of advise I have in these situations where the meetup isn't coming easily...
strike while the irons hot.
Basically man- don't fuck around when the opportunity is there. Like why not meet up at 7, ya know? Unless it's legitimately not feasible for you, I would just be weary of saying no just as a way of trying to like "mantain control" or something like that
Potted how long did it take you to come to that realization.
Year or two
It's one of those things I try to tell dudes about from the beginning and it just seems like.. one of the last things that stick LOL