The girl next door (kinda)

@Volkan:
Add her on facebook asap. Make sure you put up awesome pics from your trip. Chat her up a bit be casual but awesome. Add her there is no reason why you wouldnt its totally normal to do so.

@Manwhore:
The thing that I think about is that how can I show my interest via facebook..lol..I mean we have only seen eachother ones and I am far away from her. I am really interestet in her and I would appriciate if you could give me some tips on what to wright to her and how often to kinda keep the "interaction" going. And also show my interest in a funny and interesting way (via facebook) and then when I head back home and we see eachother its like a special thing..lol :)

@Volkan:
Omg someone please answer this instead of me Im going to doodoo my pants

@Manwhore:

You don't have to directly talk to someone to get them attracted...

How many girls have actually MET jayz? And yet they all think he's awesome and wanna fuck him...

Think about it bro.

and learn how to spell brah.

@Volkan:
DONT worry about showing interest, focus on being awesome. Put up funny comments on her pics, shoot her a message every once in a while (every week or so), throw up awesome pics of you doing random shit in this other country.

With this whole "special thing" youre trying to get into, youre wandering into territory that ISNT cool. Its the stuff your mother lied to you about. "Oh give her flowers and make her feel special. Thats how you get a girl!" That's absolute bullshit. It'll work 1% of the time and in so doing you'll end up being one of those guys serving a girl as her chode boyfriend while she talks shit about how weak you are and samples other dicks when youre not around.

Does that make sense.

@Manwhore:
I cant believe how things did go so well..we are flirting like crazy on facebook..i was like "damn your like a model" "she was like thanks but no hihi"...then about 4 hours later she was like "btw you look good too.. ;)" haha...i think its on! She is also flying to this country that I am right now on saturday so i am thinking how I should meet her..

@Volkan:

Nice man. Yeah if I were you I would follow MW's advice to the T. I personally end up doing way better when I do- and even if a girl ISN'T feeling it for whatever reason.... its still a good learning experience because you'll find out how/why something did/didnt work in one situation

and how/why it totally would in another.

if that makes sense. like i wouldnt advise treating this girl differently than others. I know when I do it backfires, and when Im just cool and chill and don't allow her to turn into some sort of priority my texts and everything come off way more natural and cool. And fuckworthy

@Alex123:
totally true, it does come out more naturally when you "dont care" what happens. We are joking around when we text eachother but there is still something going on u know :) ? I am still learning what works and what doesnt..

@Volkan: Its on.

If you dont mind you should post up your convo, i'd like to peep it so i can know :)

@Alex123:
its on swedish :(

@Volkan:
So here is the deal. The girl has now left the country I am in. We were chatting on facebook and suddenly she was "everything can happen in 2 months".
??? WTF. I was "like what"....."du know what i mean"....."no i dont, u or me"? "I am just saying, its summer, u meet people"...."yeah but if thats your case just tell me" I said...."Its just sad that u are gone for so long, do u meet chicks there?" "I am going to be honest with u.. when have berely talked but u seem to be a really cool chick and wanna get to know u..but if u "loose interest" u can tell me, and no i am not meeting chicks but looks like u do..." (she had pictures with guys)
she: "Thanks I know i am feeling the same but i am just saying its a loong time, course i meet people..whatever we will see when u come back"

Then after i while i said: "i am just getting confused when u say "a lot of things can happen in 2 months...then i am thinking "ok she has other plans"..u know?"
She: "The thing is that we dont know eachother, we have said like 3 words to eachother..we havent or cant give eachother any promises u know..because we dont know eachother and dont know if we even work together..I cant wait for a stranger..not u too...its just so boring..because i am interested".
I was like yea or whatever then i said "maybe u even would think later like "damn i shouldnt even wait for him..it could happen" She: "yea thats not impossible, but what are u after ? A serious relationship?" And then we talking and everything is good know but wtf is this? I mean what the hell should i do. She is saying that she cant "wait" for a stranger? Who told her to "wait"?? I mean yes we are flirting and stuff but hey..if she meets another guy just tell me..right ? My situation is kinda hard too u know?
I cant just leave...give me some tips guys....

@Volkan:
Mang you need to come off like a fun party guy, not a dude slowly pining away over a chick in another country, it makes you look like a desperate tool. A cool guy would have the mindset that this girl is not in his immediate area and has NO repercussions to him so he doesn't even think about her much. You just put yourself in chode relationship box.

@Manwhore:
no we actually live in the same country but i am in another country for 6 weeks.. and she is always like "u are never writing anything"...

@Volkan:
That's a trap dude. To become her emotional tampon.