Girl sent me dramatic long ass text, what do?
meet her last summer
Hang out all day and she sucked my dick (no sex)
We text for the next 14 months, she flakes every time.
Finally agreed to meet up last week
get high + have sex (I thought it was a good time)
agree to meet up next day after she finished at a meeting
She leaves
me: (that night): did you get back alright?
her: Yup I’m home now
me: sweet dreams :)
me: (next day): What time is your meeting over?
me: (8 days later): How much regret are you feeling about this weekend on a scale from 1-10? (referring to halloween weekend lol)
her: Honestly I just wasn’t expecting what happened to happen. And I feel like everything just happened way too fast and we weren’t really on the same page I guess. I wasn’t expecting a relationship from that. I thought we were just going to hangout and get high and chill. Don’t get me wrong I did have a good time but I’m not looking for a relationship right now and that’s just not how I see us. I’m sorry I should’ve said something then. But I feel like I was way too high and got too far into that. I don’t know. Sorry.\
First off I’m having trouble understanding what she even means. I did assert a pretty strong bf/gf frame during the interaction.. Is she simply objecting to that frame (but saying we can still hang out)? Or is she saying she is done with me for good?
Not entirely sure how I should be attacking this.
Any tips are appreciated, thanks.
You fucking asked her if she regretted it?! Why the fuck did you do that?! When you told me this I thought you sent just some logistical shit. God dammit, man.
I would wait, get new girls in the meantime and then re-approach with a fun vibe after "clearing your head" ( bang the other girls lol).
Take that fun vibe and deter away from that whole entire situation. Avoid it like the fucking plague. Make it fun and chill. Friendly if need be. Then switch it on when you chill and bang away.
You fucking asked her if she regretted it?! Why the fuck did you do that?! When you told me this I thought you sent just some logistical shit. God dammit, man.
Noooooooooo. I was making a joke about Halloween weekend, which was the week AFTER we hung out. Was not referencing the time we had hung out at all.
Fuck, sorry dude was trying to reply quickly on my iphone. I'll look at it better tonight
Derp. Yeah it's the frame you set. I mean if you're pushing the bf/gf frame to try to "keep" girls that's just gay IMWCO.
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I usually dont do that, and I didn't think I pressed it that hard this time but I guess she thought I did.
Thinking of just empathising & agreeing with her and saying we should keep geting to know each other on a more casual basis, is this the right approach?
I'm thinking that is your best bet. She probably thought you were talking about the weekend you guys had to be honest. It was easy to misinterpret.
I think you should shoot something chill and empthetic but then let her cool off a bit, go game other girls and what not, come back to her when you've got some abundance and can actually think straight about the situation. I know you already know what you should do, your emotions are just in the way right now, man.
I'll shoot you some ideas either on here or FB when I can think of some.