Girl SUPER into me but acts weird over text
First met this chick a few weeks back and see her at the club on and off.
She's VERY into me whenever I see her (huge anime eyes) and flirty. Got her # last night when she asked me to write it down...but she's a psycho over text.
Me: Hey gorgeous get home safe -Cyber
Girl: 1 hour later Yep
Me: 12 hour later What are you doing tonight?
Girl: 1 min later R u gay? (wtf lol)
Me: 7 mins later Yep
Girl: 2 mins later R u bisexual?
Me: 2 mins later No I only enjoy cock
Girl: 3 mins later Sorry I dont have one lol
Me: 5 mins later Lol you dork..
Girl: 1 min later Hahaha
Me: 3 mins later I miss your cute face. Let's grab a drink tonight
Girl: 1 min later Cant. Busy
Me: 4 mins later Suka (bitch in Russian)
Girl: 2 mins later Lol good job
Me: 1 min later :)
..wtf's going on?
I would have thrown a couple text in there about random shit before askin what she's doin- even if it's random bullshit it's just the nice thing to do...
It's like if you're making a sales call for business- everyone knows why you're calling but regardless, it's still nice to ask em how the kids are doin before you get down to business
yeah normally I would except we already built so much comfort seeing each other almost every weekend. it seemed like the "polite" thing to do was get down to business lol
If she's that into you, she could possibly be trying to manage her own feelin's for you by overemphasizing her detachment to you in her own head. Chicks do it a lot lol
Just be nice and invite her out to cool shit. Be good-natured. Then when you finally get her out, emotionally abuse her then fuck her. #win
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haha damn I didn't even see it that way. that makes SO MUCH sense dude
also just fyi- th emore a girl is attracted to you- the more you're gonna wanna ground yourelf.... or this exact type of shit happens. As mnwhore said- it's a defense mechanism.... and a lot of times it gets triggered when you have super high value in her eyes, and haven't taken the time to ground yourself or "be real"
She just needs to reject you to feel better about herself. It is a healthy part of a girl's process, otherwise she would fuck every dude she was attracted to which would result in venereal disease and bastard children. I structure shit in my game all the time to let the girl give me resistance, nothing too over the top that breaks the vibe too much. It is a comfort thing. She is, in a weird way from a man's pov, flirting with you and setting up the lay so she can do it without feeling bad about the whole thing. It is healthy.
Stay cool and close
She just needs to reject you to feel better about herself. It is a healthy part of a girl's process, otherwise she would fuck every dude she was attracted to which would result in venereal disease and bastard children. I structure shit in my game all the time to let the girl give me resistance, nothing too over the top that breaks the vibe too much. It is a comfort thing. She is, in a weird way from a man's pov, flirting with you and setting up the lay so she can do it without feeling bad about the whole thing. It is healthy.Stay cool and close
impressive analysis.
Yeah, dude
It is being too smooth. Bitches need to feel that they were not too easy for you or whatever, I honestly do not care, but when I am too smooth it usually triggers her asd, so I manipulate the frame accordingly to achieve better results for my purposes.
It is what it is, Whatever. Some times I do, some times I do not.
What is important here, it puts me in my head when I try to be fucking perfect all the time and say or do the right thing.
I do not like that limiting feeling.
When I know I can say or do what I feel, and even if she does not like it, I stay grounded in myself, purpose, intent, frame, reality or whatever you want to call it and it opens me up. As a result, I can be out of my head and just feeling shit in my body and doing whatever I want with it however I desire. I just go for shit and take it as it comes because it does not fucking matter. I stay cockhard and do not become some pussy ass faggot with my shit because it might upset her or she shall not fuck me. Not sure if anyone else can relate, but that is my experience.
EDIT: Obviously my whole game is not go in there and be a retard and say whatever stupid shit pops into my head with absolute zero regard for her. I do use my social intelligence and I am focusing on communicating with her too, but the above is definitely an element of my game. I do not want some newbie to read this and completely abandon learning how to communicate with girls either because that it is just as important as not giving a fuck about having the perfect thing to say or do.