Girls are fucking CRAZY sometimes
I don't know if any of you have ever seen this, but it's crazy to watch.
You can have a girl and a guy who get along really well, and they're hooking up, maybe even dating and hanging out all the time, but then another dude enters the picture who, for whatever reason, is seen as high-value
All of a fucking sudden, the girl starts getting in little arguments with the guy, starts picking on the guy and literally like subconsciously creating battles, all because she wants this other guy, but doesn't have the balls to just admit that to herself.
So literally like the high-value guy comes in, and then the girl jjust subconsciously starts fighting with her man, or creating little battles, or picking on him... it's crazy
Yes. My sister is objectively a very good looking girl with princess like attitudes. She has flat out admitted to doing this in her younger days. In her words, "Yea I would intentionally create fights so I could hook up with this really hot guy. I was dumb."
haha dude that's kinda cool to hear validation of my lil theory.
I knew that's what was fucking going on. Damnnn
i wonder if she still does that sorta thing just maybe not as blatantly
Yeah dude. Super common
It's just girls gaming themselves.
"Change her mood not her mind"
Uh no she doesn't. I suspect it has a lot to do with the fact that she's 31 years old so she's over the hump now. She can't get away with the bullshit she used to do from 17-24 so her options have dropped dramatically.
scary prospect
My sister's 31 she's still bombshit crazy. She pulled some shit just a few weeks ago I was back to calling her a whore just like the old days. Oh look, when I punched in "whore" while typing this my phone came up with her name as a suggestion. LOL
I've 100 percent noticed this shit myself also
Yeah if you gentlemen are noticing your wiminz starting fights when other dudes come around you nip that shit in the bud. You call her out on it, embarrass her. That shit is NOT okay. Once they realize they're with a dude who's AWARE they'll stop it.
How exactly would you call her out on it? Like literally be like "yo, you can't start instigating meaningless fights bc so and so comes around. Fucking cut it out" type thing?
How exactly do you embarass her....
Alex just allow yourself to get angry first. And then speak from that place
That's how everybody else learned.
I was trying to figure out a way to ask whether the 'shit-tests' are always due to preceiving a higher-value guy or if its merely the guy not living to his potential... But I guess its all relative, even if your not living to your potential she won't feel it unless there is something to compare to?
Cuz Ive seen this stuff happen over and over in different scenarios. I thought sometimes this stuff happens because of cycles of high-energy/low-energy, alpha/beta, and the bitching was a signal to get back on track not to go for std tests before your next date
It can definitely mean she's banging. Depends on the guy/girl. In your case it definitely means it lol
Alex just allow yourself to get angry first. And then speak from that place
Great advice.
Yeah if you gentlemen are noticing your wiminz starting fights when other dudes come around you nip that shit in the bud. You call her out on it, embarrass her. That shit is NOT okay. Once they realize they're with a dude who's AWARE they'll stop it.
This. The woman needs to learn early on that crazy behavior ain't cool. Don't be afraid to cut her off for a bit so she learns.