Girls flaking on dates
Fri, 12/21/2012 - 02:21
I've about had an ass full of girls doing this lately, wether its me setting up a date or one that I already set up. Here is one I've got for tonight.
Set up the date 2 days ago, confirmed it last night over text.
I'm texting her now 3 hours before our meet.
Me: So let's meet at Del Taco tonight at 8:45. We can share crinkle fries. ;)
Her: Are we still on for tonight? I'm not feeling so well.
Me: Yeah! C'mon girl, it'll be fun!
Her: Well, I won't be eating much, I've got a migraine.
Me: You can feed me fries while I rub your head.
Her: Hahaha no
Just looking for some guidance here, how should I have handled this.
Set up the date 2 days ago, confirmed it last night over text.
I'm texting her now 3 hours before our meet.
Me: So let's meet at Del Taco tonight at 8:45. We can share crinkle fries. ;)
Her: Are we still on for tonight? I'm not feeling so well.
Me: Yeah! C'mon girl, it'll be fun!
Her: Well, I won't be eating much, I've got a migraine.
Me: You can feed me fries while I rub your head.
Her: Hahaha no
Just looking for some guidance here, how should I have handled this.
Fri, 12/21/2012 - 04:54
#1
Re: Girls flaking on dates
@vacuumbed:
In my hardcase experience I do best when I push less, chase less, say less. It's just me and right now I do best when I just have thing to do if date fails and give girls more cotroll over the meet up, let them do some talking and some ralationship building work. At the end you can't make a person want to meet you, you can only give them opportunity IMHO
So here I'd say "Ok Im gonna go work out then. Lets meet some other time, have a good night"
In my hardcase experience I do best when I push less, chase less, say less. It's just me and right now I do best when I just have thing to do if date fails and give girls more cotroll over the meet up, let them do some talking and some ralationship building work. At the end you can't make a person want to meet you, you can only give them opportunity IMHO
So here I'd say "Ok Im gonna go work out then. Lets meet some other time, have a good night"
Sun, 12/23/2012 - 09:58
#2
Re: Girls flaking on dates
Well the issue here is she has a migraine and that's a REAL issue that you kind of ignored.. but if you end it the way Animal is suggesting you betray the only "high-value" interpretation she could have taken of such a faux pas.
This is just me being overanalytical, but it's valid.
This is just me being overanalytical, but it's valid.
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