Girls Just Want To Be Conned
Like that’s really the truth about Game. It’s all about conning them with some fake ass fantasy and narrative. They buy into it and you get what you want, then you dominate them and don’t let them dominate you; if they don’t like that fuck them, you work on mad girls at the same time
and basically make them into your little bitches, best ones getting a little bit more priority than the
rest as far as your attention goes. Just a bit.
Thats all it really is. You’re just mentally dominating over other people in slick ways and getting what you want, yet ready to move on to other people if it’s not working out. You don’t care what people think you ultimately just want to get what you want, so you only care what they think as so far as that will affect your goal, and it’s not a caring like life or death lol. If it doesn’t pan out just move on to the next, actually you should be having 3 or more you’re fucking or working on at the same time.
This Game isn’t nice, it isn’t all rainbows and sunshine and positivity. It’s nasty and you’re dealing with evolution, peoples shadows and aspects of human psychology, which is a cesspool. I’m done with the community. Thanks for everything but it’s time to go.
It’s easy, you just have to tap into that side of yourself that doesn’t care what Tyler or anyone else told you about how the Game is, and instead see it for what it is and enjoy it for what it is, which is pretty fun and beneficial to you if you’re not a pussy and can think a little bit. Tyler and community guys implant fake morality into you for reasons that are totally NOT about protecting you and it’s about protecting them and lining their pockets.
So if that's the case, what are you aiming for. What's your big goal? And how are you going to get there?
Way I see it:
There are winners and losers.
I choose to be a winner.
Winner with girls: Gets what he wants. Dominates. They do anything for him. They
tolerate all his bullshit. They emotionally react/attach to him way more than he does to them. Goes for what he wants to the fullest without needing it. Doesn’t care who stays or leaves. “Centered in his reality”/Self-contained.
Loser with girls: Everyone else.
How I’m getting there: First off developing mental strength and myself in general, just to entertain and enhance myself not for these skallywags. Second, that’s proprietary ;)
It’s been real MW. Peace.
Sorry man I've just been busy as fuck haven't been able to spend as much time on the forum as I usually do. I still owe you a response to that earlier felony admission :D I've been working with several freelancers and a couple alumni, expanding! And my homegirl just tried to invite three girls over Saturday night I was like.. "Whoa. Fuck that. Just invite the two."
But yes, morality exists. I'm really not sure what Tyler or whoever else has been saying about it recently as back when I was involved in that organization, they didn't talk about that at all. Lol.
It just depends on what kind of life you want to lead mang. If you want to lead the life of "minimize input, maximize output", you will inevitably end up lazy and "good for nothing". Sure you can manipulate certain people into all sorts of things, but if you really want to hit the big goals, the worthy ones, you have to STOP creating parasitic relationships with people. You've got to start creating synergy. And if you're a bully or a predator or lazy you'll never learn how.
This is utter garbage. Most of what I wrote on this forum is utter garbage anyway.
I leveled up. Yes, yes, YES boundaries and inflicting pain is very, VERY important. However,
I realized that my EGO got in the way of my results, hardcore. Simply put, I wasn’t displaying leadership as much as I was just there trying to force the issue with them and prove the point that I am the higher status one. Not good.
Leadership, as far as women is simply about being CALM and putting the woman into that same calm state and leading her to your outcome. It’s really that easy. No need for complex tricks, calm energy and a focused approach to life solves everything.
My EGO was sooo much coming from a place of “I will NOT be disrespected” that I forgot that pretty much anything a girl does isn’t serious enough to be considered disrespectful lol. Well, there are things that should be checked and all that but that defensive position shouldn’t be the foundation of your interactions and here’s why:
STATE TRANSFER + SELF FULFILLING PROPHECIES!!!
When you SET your energy on the defensive and all that, you’re pretty much hypnotizing the girl into being defensive herself. When you compete with a woman over STATUS then you’re fucked, because if you lose you’re a loser and you don’t fuck the girl, and if you win, well she’s not gonna fuck you because you made her feel like shit and she hates you. So when you deliberately lower a girls status you are putting her in a bad state of mind that’s not good for your outcome.
What I was doing was essentially punishing girls for being girls. Yes I showed them that I don’t give a fuck and that I’m centered in my reality and have boundaries but I also made them feel bad and they didn’t feel free to show their sexual side, because talking shit to a woman makes her feel uncomfortable.
So, ya. That’s the issue. Using one tool for everything and using it out of anger and resentment and all in all...
Seeing girls as sooooooo high above me that I had to “bring them down”. Sure, I brought them down but that’s not usually a conducive state to get laid in, at least not often enough to be doing that shit as much as I did.
Now that I’m calm and nicer to the girls, they are
much more receptive. I have to just remember that it’s about being calm and leading, the guy who is all flashy and fireworks and shit, the manic guy is pretty much over compensating and he gets laid but girls make him work for it, since he thinks he has to work, he’s gonna work.
The guy who doesn’t think he has to work, is gonna go up and it’s gonna look like he’s just talking, which he is and he’ll get laid simply because he assumes he will. If he doesn’t, it doesn’t even matter to him.
Thats how it goes.
interactions unfold how you view yourself first and foremost, the trend of the relationship is based off the place you're coming from, the paradigms the underlying motivations.
Women and game are a microchasm of this, if you're not deliberate and honest in your actions but rather looking to protect your ego or some sort of identity you will get punished for it. You won't get laid or even if you do the kind of women that you will attract will be low quality or seeking to mirror/reinforce your faulty world view.
Yeah, I see that I have to use a lot more empathy and use my energy to make the girls primed to fuck, rather than just force the issue.
Walking up assuming it and just being nice and leading.
Since I was coming from a VERY low place from the very beginning of me getting laid at 15 years old, I learned Game in a very forceful way. My reference experiences are 90 percent “You didn’t force it enough”. The girls I got with from the first all the way to the most recent have mostly been total Cluster B cases and/or co-dependents, where you have to pretty much whip them into submission to get any respect. I didn’t learn about psychology til 2 years ago, and what Cluster B really is didn’t sink in until a few month ago. This is only 4 percent of the general population, although Narcissism is on a very sharp increase due to social media and other factors. That said, I finally started running into
girls who aren’t so crazy, and this now I have to develop that “nice guy” side more, and the way I see it, this is where you develop real Game. This is the political side of Game. When you deal with crazy sluts who strip, who escort and who have no friends or stable family/social circle, it’s EASY to get away with all kinds of abusive shit. In the real(er) world, you have to be nicer and more political.
Being involved with crazy bitches was addicting because they accepted me for me. They didnt
judge, in fact the worse I was the more they “loved” me. That makes me feel good. Good sex, being down for anything and basically just chaos and anarchy. I feel more comfortable in danger than I do in safety, when things are quiet I get anxious.
God I just have to learn to be normal lol.