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For girls that like me, how do I make things happen?

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Joined: 08/13/2013

Guys, please help me get this straightened out.  

Back since  6th grade girls or their friends would tell me they like me or their friends tell me so.  

But I NEVER know/knew what to do. I should have asked this years ago,
but how do I get girls to be fuck buddies/girlfriends when they are already attracted to me.
 
Now, I'm older but still in school but this has happened to me a few times now where I know they are attracted.
12 years later I still can't convert these girls.  Seems like it should be easy if they already like me.

FYI. I didn't get their numbers. Some of them I could have gotten under the pretense of asking for help on hw 

but I don't think that's being clear since they'd be expecting me to ask about hw instead of getting them out.
 

Does everyone just get their numbers and invite them for drinks?  I've had a few run-in with cops/and an accident after drinking
and driving so I'm more cautious of that now.
 

Some of these girls are married, have a boyfriend but they flirt with me and I just don't know
how to make it happen.  
 
I also feel weird flirting with girls with husbands/boyfriends lol
Please enlighten me.

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Joined: 03/03/2013
"Now, I'm older but still in

"Now, I'm older but still in school but this has happened to me a few times now where I know they are attracted.

12 years later I still can't convert these girls.  Seems like it should be easy if they already like me."

What happens when you try to "convert" them?  Each girl's situation is different, so if you supplied some details, that would be helpful.

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Joined: 06/04/2012
Are you just jacking off or

Are you just jacking off or actually asking them out? I feel like it's the former.

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Joined: 08/13/2013
Yea, it ends up being the

Yea, it ends up being the former and for example I asked a girl to grab a snack after class tomorrow and they say OK.  Then the next day they'll say something like I made plans with my boyfriend.  

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Joined: 03/27/2013
Your not "gaming" all the way

Your not "gaming" all the way through the interaction. Your assuming you've already won because they are attracted to you,  and letting your guard down and ultimately becoming boring...or your simply not trying hard enough. 

post some text convos, etc.

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Joined: 06/04/2012
I like plenty of girls. That

I like plenty of girls. That doesn't mean I'll fuck them. You're definitely missing that sex worthy part of your game.

theyre probably just like "oh yeah, I like him. He's super nice and absolutely no sexual threat to me." 

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Joined: 08/13/2013
Thanks guys, you're both

Thanks guys, you're both right I stop trying when they "like me" because I assumed that means they want to fuck me. 

How would I change it up so that I'm a sexual threat and keep gaming so they want to fuck me?  Is it escalation, moving them, isolating or...?

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Joined: 03/27/2013
Frosty wrote: Thanks guys,

Frosty wrote:
Thanks guys, you're both right I stop trying when they "like me" because I assumed that means they want to fuck me. 

How would I change it up so that I'm a sexual threat and keep gaming so they want to fuck me?  Is it escalation, moving them, isolating or...?

talk about blow jobs a lot

talk about your dick a lot

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Joined: 01/18/2012
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