Girls with boyfriends

@PepsiMax:
Well sounds like you want to take a girl away from a guy so you can date her instead, which is somewhat better than just taking her for some light fucking and then tossing her. If that's the case you need to actually attack the relationship. There have DEFINITELY been plenty of times where I made the conscious decision, "Ok FUCK this guy I want this girl he doesn't deserve her and he's not getting a second thought." At that point that dude is getting shit on any way possible

@Manwhore:
Yeah mang that is EXACTLY my thoughts haha. Yeah and its definately coz i want to date this chick, no like fucking. Chick isn't clingy AT ALL. ;)

So how do i go about this then? Seems pretty weak and counter productive to just bag on the dude directly.

@PepsiMax:
You don't want to bag on the dude. The more you bag on him, the better he looks because it sounds like you're just bitter and jelly to her. It's that whole idea 'haters gonna hate'. A girl I've been hooking up with off and on for about 9 months now tells me about how all her guy friends (that want to fuck her but get denied) bag on me whenever I'm not around. And when I am around, I'll buy them drinks here and there and I'm chill and cool as fuck LOL. Really fucks them up mentally hahahaha and she always goes home with me when I'm around. Solid friends with benefits. Now if only I had 4 of these FWB I'd be SET!

Honestly I think the best way to 'boyfriend destroy' is to talk about how wonderful it is to be in a relationship, the chemistry, how he must be an amazing dude, etc. Would love to hear what jon thinks though

@Jeff:
Naw I definitely tool guys. I say ridiculous fucked up shit. I say he lays diarrhea eggs like a horse when she's not around. I basically change her subconscious perception of him. Or I'll point out something he did and turn it into some psychological flaw that girls hate. Cool stuff

@PepsiMax:

Proceed as if she's single, nonchalantly brush off any bf talk that she brings up (she'll get it after a few times and if she's still around then you know she's keen), build as much sexual tension as possible, set up favorable logistics, crank up buying temperature when you're with her and close.

Personally, I find that most of the time if a chic is not entirely happy/satisfied in her current relationship there is a good chance she's opened to the possibility of being swept away by a better bloke but if a chic is getting some GOOOOOD dicking and is very happy in her relationship not only is it quite difficult to steal her away it is also pretty poor form to do something like that. Of course there is the exception of you genuinely falling for her and wanting to be WITH her in a committed relationship (instead of just be INSIDE her).

does this work better than Tylers bf destroyer tatic of trying to get the GIRL to argue this stuff and do some reverse psychology?

Interesting... I met this chick like 5 or 6 years back ago in my hometown and kept some contact over snapchat. I think she had some feelings for me but last year she blocked me. I guess because she got a boyfriend. 

Back in my home town now and she just texted me last week out of nowhere and said she had seen me in town. Now she says she is married with a kid but plans to divorce because everything is going to shit. I don't know if she is still having some feelings or if she just wants some dick... maybe i'm overthinking it but i don't know if i should lead her on? i have 3 other chicks that i'm seeing and dating this chick is no possibility.

There’s almost no need to do anything to fuck a girl with a boyfriend. It’s so easy all you gotta do is act as if she has no boyfriend and when the excuses/objections come up just reframe as if it has nothing to do with sex or hooking up etc etc. Just remember that if she’s talking to you, flirting back and/or touching you, it’s on. Even if she gives you a conversation its on. 

In my experience, the less you mention him the better. Your game, your looks (clothing, body etc) and just your overall presence should eclipse him so much that she basically forgets about him. If she ever “remembers” him, it’s your job help her forget again. Use your head. It’s not hard.

Now, as to why you’d want to “steal” someone’s slutty girlfriend for more than just sex is pretty pointless in my opinion. The way you stole her from his dumb ass is the way others steal her from you. You guys think “he doesn’t deserve her”. Of course he does. She’s a slut and for him to stay in a committed relationship with her makes him a sucka. You wanna put her on a pedestal AND do him a favor by taking on his burden? That’s whack in my opinion. I hit and quit, or at most I hit and keep hitting it but he can keep her. Send her ass back home. You think that you’re the only one she’s talking to? You think once you steal her away and she’s in a relationship with you that she’s gonna stop “talking” to the 2,3,4 other guys she’s “friends” with? 

“He doesn’t deserve her”...lol. That’s some cuck shit. Do better y’all. 

@Papaya:

Just meet up and fuck her. I always assume they want dick. Set the meet up in a hurry though. Don’t be cucking and cup caking with her on Snapchat or whatever. “Hey it’s great to hear from you again! I was about to go grab a quick drink right now and just unwind a bit. Come with and let’s catch up! 

No dating. Just drink and then put your dick in her fuck hole and while ur smashing it be like “yeah you blocked me while you were wasting ur time with ur little boyfriend, you could have been getting that slut pussy fucked by me on the side the whole time but you wanted to be stupid. Look at you now though. Getting fucked by me anyway” And just put it in her head she’s a fuck toy for you and walla, no need to “date” this person 

LOL!

Yeah i think i'm gonna meet her... Last time i pulled a girl that had a boyfriend was two years ago and she didn't wan't to fuck but then she broke up with her boyfriend for a while. Maybe my game wasn't that good and i felt a bit confused about the whole situation. 

Lol see that’s the thing tho bro, you cannot have any doubts in your mind at all as to if she’s gonna fuck you or not. 

The whole “game” of girls cheating on their boyfriend is really just being around during a vulnerable time and not fucking it up. 

If you feel good about yourself and don’t see yourself as some chump or horrible person then it’s enough. No need to deeply analyze anything just be around at the right time, don’t be thirsty or obvious. Isolate and close. It’s really easy. Easier than cold approach on single girls tbh. In fact, fucking girls with boyfriends has to be the easiest fucking level of game. Total novice can pull it off. 

Well with that one i didn't even know she had a bf, it was just the fact that she broke up with him after i made out with her that confused me. The way she texted me also signaled she wanted something more. I asked myself if it was worth all that just to bust a nut. I pulled another chick that had a bf from the club once, and it was no big deal for either of us we both just wanted to fuck

Qick Caveat - Shitting on her boyfriend or the relationship only works if she actually gives a shit about what you have to say. Like you have to be coming across stronger than her bf or atleast have been working her enough to where she’s opened up to you. Otherwise, she’ll look at you like you’re a clueless baboon.

Guys have tried to shit on me before and my girls have just been like “um go away” or downright rejected their projection. 

A note to all the guys in relationships (and myself) - Don’t worry about this kind of thing, if you’re worrying then you’re going to lose her anyway. Its not as common as it may seem. You should be focusing on being the best you can be and watch as your girl respects you to the highest degree, in all avenues. 

Also if your girl gets snatched up like this she did YOU a favor. She was never meant to be trusted in the first place. Or your game is wack, either way, you need to focus on yourself and improve

Examples of stuff you can shit on them for - Neediness, judgemental, horrible in bed, jealous/controlling...

Or attack the relationship - Sucks to be locked down doesn’t it? I mean you can’t do XYZ. Are you settling? You could do so much better...

I personally don’t hit on chicks with boyfriends. I believe in karma and I wouldn’t want anyone attempting on mine. I can’t help it if I’m charasmatic and their girls want me anyway ;) - For good buddies I don’t even infringe here. I’m super respectful.

Yeah no need to shit on the relationship if you’re actually attractive. They’ll do it themselves. If they need some “help” to rationalize cheating then the signs will be clear and you can go ahead and shit on him a bit. 90 percent of the time talking shit about the guy isn’t necessary. To me it feels like I’m compensating if I’m doing that 

unprompted. She sees I’m better than him already. She feels it. If she really sees that guy all up there in sky, just shitting on him won’t do it. You have to actually be better than him and she’s also gotta be open to cheating at the time. 

Its like amogging. Like if a guy comes thru and I feel he’s better than me then of course I have to put forth effort to shit on him. However, if I feel like I’m better than him and secure in my value I’m going to naturally have the stronger frame and see him as a joke, and in turn so will the girl. If he wants to play games where he’s trying to make me look bad and all that, bad move, because he’s lower status than me anyway and the way I dismiss him and his reaction to it will reflect that. He is in no way my equal or my superior, so I act accordingly. It’s not passive; in fact, if you’re superior you can say whatever you want to the guy. The trick is I don’t get into these drawn out arguments or feel like it’s my mission to kick everyone else down, because they’re already down so no need. I just have to slap down the upstarts that’s all. 

Dangerous words here infinite. I get what you’re saying but don’t bring the whole superior than him or better than him stuff into the mix. That’s is more insecure than anything. Was talking to Meow about this the other day - We’re not in competition with anyone. We don’t need to bring someone down to get what we want. That’s hella toxic and extremely narcissistic. There will be times when a guy is funnier, wittier, the center of attention, more masculine etc than you.

I really think the cruz of the matter is that she’s looking to YOU to see if it affects you. She can feel that.

Yeah I agree but there’s definitely an aspect of competition to this. You can’t deny it. I personally try to minimize it because it lowers both ur statuses in relation to the chick to be fighting over her and also nothing really gets done a lot of the time. 

You HAVE to believe on some level you’re better than the guys around you. This not optional. It’s like rappers, boxers and other artists/athletes. You MUST believe you are THE BEST on Earth. Deep down you have to think that shit. This whole “we are all equal” shit doesn’t work when some other douchebag is there to shit all over you and isn’t playing nice. He’s actually counting on you to back down and play by the rules, so that he can play dirty. 

If you really think you’re better than these guys, rather than just pretending to feel that way; the behavior is totally different. The pretending makes it so everything to you is a big threat. 

Bottom line is this...do you EVER feel threatened by other guys? If you do, you’re faking this shit and actually have low self esteem. If it was actually high you wouldn’t give a shit because you would KNOW, in your bones, that nobody can fuck with you. How could they if you have nothing to prove or hide? Everything is out there and it’s whatever to you. He cares. You don’t.

I think this logic is a bit flawed, girls don't mecessarily choose the best guy. When i'm on vacation doing nothing but going out and being a douche bag around girls, ibgrt more girls compared to when i'm my best self, ie constantly improving myself in all areas of life. I think some girls will just fuck you if they get turned on, one doesn't need to be the best as long as you assume she'd fuck you. For me the doubt were moral questions, not whether she wanted to fuck or not

Best guy = Assumes he will get laid AND Gives the least fucks. Why? It shows he gets laid and will continue to get laid with or without her.

Girls hardly ever choose the best guy on paper. Plenty of great guys on paper who internal psychological insight and have money and resources who get nothing from women. 

A lot of great philosophical, intellectual, artistic, benevolent and resourceful motherfuckers who get fucking shit. That stuff means nothing.