Goddamn Fucking shit
It seems like the more I text the more I fuck myself over.
Recently I've had the human desire to text and talk to a fuck buddy.
Generally I haven't really responded to her snapchats or messages right away. (Sometimes I fall asleep early...Sometimes I just take an hour or two)
I think it could be good to mention that when I fuck her she tells me she loves me - in like a deep way. Idk - I get off on that shit. Sex is amazing
I finally decided today "I'll be human and say hi"
Sent her a snap chat saying "Super Fucking busy day - what are you up to tiny"
4 hours later I get the response "Hanging and Banging" with a picture of her looking in the camera.
Goddamnit - I haven't responded.
I don't get it mang.
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Doesn't "hanging and banging" assume that she's banging some other dude?
Why do you care so much? Most men want that freedom to be able to bang all these women but they wanna be the only she is banging....huge paradox.
just accept the fact that most quality women will always be constantly chased, validated, and white knighted until the end of time.
I would prefer to be the only dude she's banging, but I also try not to care too much. You can say its a paradox but its not without natural precedent. Look at certain species of wild gorillas, monkeys, dogs etc. etc. and you'll find plenty of examples where the alpha male has exclusive mating rights to all the females. If one of my girls wants to see another guy that's fine but I take it as a sign that I should up my game. I have two gf's right now, they both know about each other and about the way I am and they also know I'd prefer if they didn't see other guys.
As far as the 'hanging and banging' text, can you give us more info? Does she have reason to be pissed at you? Did the photo look like she was 'banging'?
I would prefer to be the only dude she's banging, but I also try not to care too much. You can say its a paradox but its not without natural precedent. Look at certain species of wild gorillas, monkeys, dogs etc. etc. and you'll find plenty of examples where the alpha male has exclusive mating rights to all the females. If one of my girls wants to see another guy that's fine but I take it as a sign that I should up my game. I have two gf's right now, they both know about each other and about the way I am and they also know I'd prefer if they didn't see other guys.As far as the 'hanging and banging' text, can you give us more info? Does she have reason to be pissed at you? Did the photo look like she was 'banging'?
True I tend to just not talk about it and it sorts itself out naturally. Out of sight, out of mind. I have never had a girl explicitly tell me about a guy she is seeing at the same time. I think I give off enough of a "don't ever bring that shit up or you will be nexted" attitude lol. Just broke up with my girl Saturday, operation threesome is now in full swing.
That's great G, there's no reason why threesomes shouldn't be a regular part of our dating life. Keep us posted on that, I look forward to when we're all on track with it and can get some good discussions going
edit. Again, I'd encourage you to do a write up with some of your experiences so far as well as your attitude/outlook towards it. I think it could be valuable for you to get a critique. MW obviously has some amazing insights that really helped me get on track