Good Recovery Text

What was your ghey text? Lol

God I feel super ghey just thinking of having you guys read it. Fuck it, shit's embarassingly hilarious.

Me: [Accusing her of proposing/deciding for us that we're married even though we just met that day]

Me: And like, you don't even know my favorite color...

Her: It's not orange? I figured it was the scarf that got you in here today haha (reference to banter we had)

Me: Lol. I came to talk my way into a free coupon book for my friend cause apparently you had to be VIP and he was too hesitant to try.

Warning: The following text is about to get real ghey, real quick. Viewer discretion is adviced.

Me: But then I meet this girl with a really charming radiant smile. Possible time traveler 50s flight attendant. She liked video games too. (All  The coupon book no longer seemed relevant conversation.

Me: And then I met you at some point I think :P

The whole time I was typing it I was getting this adrenalyne rush of this is probably chodey but what if it works, it will work! As soon as I hit send I was like uhh yeah dumb fuck you sound like an ass clow.

She just sent me a snap,invited me out for dollar beer/burger night tonight.

She also looks a lot like the other girl I just posted about except she's got this really magnetic gushingly happy smile/laugh to her.

Yeah even girls that touch my butt don't get a text like that. I only send lovey doveys after a girl's taken my dick for a ride and we've connected on that level. But without physical intimacy texts like that are NOT a good idea. 

You bang her?

Nope.

I got there an hour and a half after she got there figuring she'd be more tipsy by then. She was sober and so were all her friends. Very social vibe, all high school friends (they're 22), didn't see a way for me to basically start trying to pick her up without breaking up the whole social interaction everyone had going on. It was extremely subtle but a guy who I thought was friend zoned whom they had known for a long time (or I figured) I think might have fucked her that night. Wasn't sure but that hunch combined with her not responding to some texts I shot her yesterday make me suspect she did.

It was strange though there was no sexual tension between them and usually when a girl invites two guys that want to fuck her she's pinging one of them to see if she's making the other jealous but there was none of that, it was all just very fun casual social vibe with everyone the whole time.

So basically... you have no game. 

Yeah pretty much. Had a big shift last night. Basically just sputtering illogic was nonsense and having a blast, girls opened up really well, hooked, etc. One girl wanted to meet up With me after in the night but didn't work for my logistics.

I mean the fact that you couldn't work/control the group dynamics. 

you should park your car in a great place. Kind of out of view of the public but doesn't really matter. Those are your logistics if all else fails or it can be your plan A. I banged a girl from a date a couple weeks ago behind a restaurant, in her car, in front of 3 or 4 employees of the restaurant standing outside smoking and taking out the trash. Nobody bothers you. Basically have logistics handled before you arrive.

Dope. I've been having my car be a limiting factor and you're right it isn't.

Gonna go try to fuck a girl from last night after work today. I didn't even remember giving her my number but she hit me up last night after the club and we talked. Tried to come over but she wasn't having it that night but told her I wanted to fuck her and she said she was turned on but didn't want to fuck first night. Basically just danced with her and had her touch my dick while we danced.

@Manwhore, yeah I was in meek passive bitch mode pretending I wasn't so as to protect my ego, just excuses. Same with the car things too, I should be trying to pull regardless. Should have been pumping more energy into the group shaping the dynamics and I paid for it. Shot her 2 texts haven't heard back she probably wanted to fuck and had 2 guys to improve her chances of getting dick. Oh well, live and learn I'll reenage when I see her again, prob will be in 2-3 weeks time.

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I have this weird thing where my game is better with groups than with individual girls. It may be the fact that there's more to work with - I'm better and smoother the more creative, talkative and sassy the girl is. If I have an introvert I struggle more - although a group of introverts would be interesting.

Do you understand how "game" works with a girl when you're talking one on one with her? It's usually that lack of "technical know-how" that breeds this sort of paradigm. Very common though so nothing to worry about. 

I've improved one on ones a lot in the past year, there were habits and mindsets that needed changing. I've got loads to acclimitise still as I've never stayed and worked on this area of myself for long, only transiently, and now recently I've resolved to go in a bit deeper

Just got back last night and passed the fuck out. That chick drained my nuts for 24 hours, insatiable.

What I realized from the non-responsive chick and the chick I just saw was that the latter I had done dick escalation with lol. And that probably the first girl wasn't responsive because I didn't escalate. So fuck it, just give the girl the dick and have fun.

I was completely unrestrained from saying whatever I was thinking. This turned out to basically saying a bunch of hilarious shit and also talking about being turned on by her and cutting any boring threads she had with whatever I was thinking in that moment.

An example

Her: blah blah

Me: (Looking at her tits so she can see my, look back at her smiling)

Her: [Some boring thread]

Me: Omg, wow I can't stop looking at your tits. They're really distracting!

Her: Haha. (covers them up a bit) I knew I shouldn't have worn this top might have given the wrong impression.

Me: What impression is that? That you have breasts?

Her: Haha no, that I'm looking to have sex.

Me: Like ever? Yeah you don't want people thinking you would ever enjoy sex.

Her: Haha no tonight.

We keep talking, I start escalating on her physically, she resists. I grab her hands, whisper in her ear, move her hand towards my dick. She resists. After a while I noticed she's letting me touch her more and that now she's letting her hands stay near/on my dick.

I bounce her to another venue to grab food. I make out with her, have her touch my dick over my pants. I pull her to a dark part of the main street, I make out with her, I put her hands down my pants and have her grab my dick. She's paranoid about other people seeing me every time I've escalated on her (at the bar, on the street) I basically agree with her frame and tell her to look around and notice all the people looking at us and even the people who couldn't see my hands because my body or her body was blocking the view. Basically have her see with her own eyes it's in her head and then tease her for it. I also tell her she's bad and accuse her of trying to seduce me lol.

We sit down, order food. I pick a spot that's empty and gives us some privacy. She's still resisting saying she can't have sex tonight because she doesn't want to give me the wrong impression and she has to go see her gynocologist in the morning and she's already cancelled 2 times and she's not that kind of girl.

I start asking her more about that. And basically it comes down to seeing herself as a good girl and restraining herself. Somehow I turn this around into how my dick is her reward for having been such a good girl (she doesn't masturbate, hasn't had sex in 3 months and hadn't come since November/December). This is like a switch with her. I tell her point blank someone like me doesn't come around very often and that I know this and she knows this. It's like she finally started to let herself get hornier and enjoy it more. She basically gets to the point where she says she feels her shoulders feel like they're going limp. Bingo. My phone is dead, she a charger back home. Perfect plausible deniability.

We go back to her place I start making out with her, put her hand on my dick. I take my dick out and push her down to start blowing me. Blows like a champ, I cum in her mouth she swallows (earlier she had mentioned a pet peeve. I told her my pet peeve was girls not swallowing lol. I think this is why she gulped it down. Def bringing up my pet peeve again in the future lol). I get hard again like 5 minutes later, I start pulling her panties down and whip out a condom. She tells me adamantly that we're not having sex tonight. I just agree and repeat yes we are definitely not having sex tonight over and over as I am spreading her legs, pulling her into me and guiding my dick into her vagina.

After we fuck she gets hornier and hornier. Literally dries my nuts dry, just wants to fuck more and more. She had mentioned before her mom told her the best way to keep a guy is to basically fuck his brains out and drain any desire for sex again so they wouldn't go see other girls. So I had mixed feelings about it, a bit of a turn off, having that thought in the background made me feel kind of weird. Not weird enough to stop me from fucking her or blowing mad loads but still, give it some space and see her in short breaks. She was really cool, cooked me breakfast, gave me a back rub, constantly checking to see if she was serving me/treating me properly. When I was fucking her she even asked me how I would like to have her which was kind of hot.

I'm gonna see if my friends want to go out tonight to that place I saw that chicks last week for dollar beer/burger night. I'm gonna basically just say ridiculous shit and have her touch my dick if she's down and try to fuck her in my car. YOLO.