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Good reinitiation text? How could I have screwed up

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First off on the plus side - big ups to me for getting laid way mor frequently. I've put CRAZY work into this. Sex and sexual acts are getting more and more frequent. My results are compunding relatively quickly considering where I came from. Big ups Yo...

So I already had sex with this girl - really enjoyed fucking her - and would like to continue doing that. She was cool. Backstory - I met this girl at wallmart - She's with a guy. my opener was "Hey - this kinda sucks - but I have to do this. I'm doing a challenge for the month of march where I have to say "hi" to five pretty girls a day. Super congruent because that's what I'm doing.

Turns out the guy she's with used to be my neighbor. I don't get her number - but I get my old neighbor's number. He texts me later basically saying that he's going to give this girl my number. She's hardcore investing by doing this - sweet.


We text a bit back and fourth. after a couple days we set a day to meet up.

Pick her up - drive around a bit (maybe like 20 -40 minutes. Bring her to my house - watch a movie and fuck with NO LMR. We literally fuck for the entire movie of Ted. Sex is pretty good. She tells me that she hasn't had sex in months and that she's happy that she got to have amazing sex after not having it for so long.

Cooool

Next day I text her a meme that says "Having sex with you is so good that we should celebrate it by having sex" (thanks JMULV) - she responds favorably...these are the texts sent after.


Me: Finally returned Ted at Walmart. Wasn't bad but I had more fun not watching it.
Her (an hour later): Oh so you finally got to watch it. haha. Maybe I'll catch it some other time. maybe.

Me (2 days later): What up fire spinner.
Me (Minute later): Let's chill Wed.
Me (Minute later): Different movie though. There's no way I'm watching Ted 3 times.
Her (2 hours later):Herro, sorry I haven't been near my phone. Im like super sick, and tomorrow prolly won't work out :| lemme kno the next time youre free, ill hopefully be better by then.
Me (10 minutes): K

Me (2 days later): (I send a pic of my dog whose name is gracie) Gracie wanted to holla at you.
Her (2 hours later): Tell her I saw bow wow.

Me (2 days later): Hey pumpkind butt. I'm doing an open mic tonight. Come wathc me play.
Her (2 hours later): Hello cupcake. wassup? I wish I could but I have plans tonight. Poop too bad, I wanted to hear you jam.

Me (Next day): Let's chill this week pumpkin butt.
Me (1 minute later): I wanna ravage you like a forest beast



It's been like 7 hours - no response -

I kinda sent the last text because I thought it was funny -

Still wanna fuck this girl - I like the fucking and I like the intimacy.

Thoughts of a good reinitiation text - or my next move.

(Already texting 25+ other girls - and trying making some dates.

It's just that I:

A) Don't want to throw away good pussy if she's still into me
B) Want to show myself that I can sustain some sort of relationship (Even if it's a fuckbuddy)
C) Want to know what I did wrong (If there were any major pitfalls)


K thnx
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Your texting was solid, the
Your texting was solid, the forest beast text was hawt. Give her some space, you need to let her reengage you. You're going to end up chasing her too much.
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Still no response from her.
Still no response from her. .

tbh we didn't have like an AMAZING amount of comfort. not sure where to go - it's been like 3 days.
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Feelsgoodman

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Send her something
Send her something nonsensical, like a picture of you being awesome, or some random meme. NOTHING that hints at a meetup, or anything that refers to the great time you had with her. Something purely humorous.
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Sent her some funny, "The
Sent her some funny, "The club can't even handle me right now" meme.

And texted, "to bad you're to young to come clubbing together. it's epic" and then "hahahahahaaha"


Not sure where to take it after.

tbh
I feel like I could even text her like "Whatsup" and there would be a good probability that she would respond.
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Well you just sent her 3
Well you just sent her 3 texts in a row, which was a shit ton. Give her a chance to respond now.
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2 texts - but ya. Idk. I'll
2 texts - but ya.


Idk. I'll give it until like monday or something
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I don't think you've
I don't think you've displayed low value, but because of logositicals obviously you guys couldn't hangout. I've gone through some of the same shit recently, and i think your gonna exhaust her a bit with all the text talk, because you guys havent been together in person in a while. Ideally you should make a plan and handle all the logisticals, and shoot her a quick text asking her to join you with a group so she doesn't feel any weird pressure from the constant " you wanna hang" texts.