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Had great interaction. She was literally licking her lips during the convo we had, and then I tried pushing too hard for logistics and walking with her while getting the number isntead of getting it there. AAGH. 



Not sure how to recover from it tbh. 


Text convo: 

"(nickname) her name, save my number on your phone - (my name)""

"I'm sorry I'm not sure why I even gave you my number, I have a boyfriend" 

"Whoaa slow down girl! Sorry if I gave you any ideas. The friend zone is the only place for reader's of Grey's" (She was carrying 50 shades of grey during convo 





No response yet. 

Any ideas? 


Fairly certain she doesn't have a boyfriend and said that because I escalated/asked for too much compliance during the interaction trying to set up a day 2. Seemed too needy. 

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Joined: 09/16/2012
I wouldn't expect much from

I wouldn't expect much from this..chalk it up to experience but give it the old college try anyway.

I wouldn't have played it coy when she was saying she had a boyfriend..Id have gone the exact opposite direction.  Something like "Not even your boyfriend can stop me" in a predatory/jestful nature.

I also didn't like your first text..bland and you're not really dragging her back to her experience with you.  You should've started with an inside joke or if you had some kind of role play setup you could've played off that.  Of course you'd want that joke to emphasize you as the pursuer..which relates to the above paragraph.

I think there's a list of re-engagement texts on this forum somewhere.  You could always throw one of those at her but you need to switch the frame back to you being the predator that is unashamed of your sexual lust for her and not the pseudo too cool for school guy you're trying to portray.

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Joined: 09/18/2014
Sometimes it seems tricky to

Sometimes it seems tricky to balance the language - so you establish predatory frame without generating too much resistance

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Joined: 09/18/2014
Sometimes it seems tricky to

Sometimes it seems tricky to balance the language - so you establish predatory frame without generating too much resistance

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Joined: 01/18/2012
Well Rogan was casually

Well Rogan was casually throwing around some highly advanced game there  wink

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