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Great vid by Alex -- The concept of being vulnerable

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Alexander nails it in this video. To me it's an "advanced daddy" dynamic. The idea of being a bit of a "stupid guy." LOL.

The "V" word is kindof a dirty word to us guys, because we equate it with being weak. We think that if we don't maintain a "bulletproof persona" and show any vulnerability, we're going to get attacked. Some big alpha dude will come along and smash our head in with a log... People will disprespect and abuse you for it. Actually the opposite, it is a potent attractor. It's the ability to lead, and show a girl that everything is OK... she's not going to be judged or attacked for letting down her guard.

It's even more potent if you do something clumsy or doofy and then double down on it.


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Really liked that videoI

Really liked that video

I enjoyed how he talked about girls getting anxiety from approaches and how they tend to say and act in a way that is not their true nature or intention, and then being a man and taking responsibility for the way she is feeling. wether this is actually accurate or not, it is a postive way of looking at things.

I also like how he describes girls being naive, not stupid, but naive. He implys that they sometimes don't know any better and to accept that reality and work towards something greater. They shouldn't be constantly berated in a macho man fashion, they want some postive leadership.

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It looks like this...

It looks like this...


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