Half black hottie Solid 8
Hey guys, just wanted to ask your advice about a text convo I got going on with this girl.
Met her in a club and brought her back to my house for an after-party. She's half black and really fucking cute with
long slender legs. Looks like the half black girl who shows up with Deneris in Game of Thrones.
She was super bitchy and arrogant at the start... saying things like, 'where are we going... I'm only coming if there is alcohol'...
' ill just go home'. So I just ignored her and talked to her friends cos I actually didn't like her attitude. But she ended up back at our house and started holding my arm out of nowhere and shit started going well.
Ended up fingering her and she slept naked in my bed but I was super high and drunk so my dick didn't work.
2 days later on text:
Me: How's my 3rd favorite brat doing ;)
Her: Haha who is this
Her: I'm no one's brat!
Me: This is Beyonce's backup dancer. Don't you remeber me? You offered me a job last nite (from MW 19 rules)
Me: Jk what's up girl it's Kierkedashian
Her: I thought I was your 5th favourite?
Me: Mhm, but I bumped you up cos you were good company ;)
Her: What an honour! Hungover as shit
Me: Haha yea I bet. Come make pizza with me tomorrow
Her: I'm on lockdown till my exam on Tuesday
Me: Your French exam? I'll help you out (think this was super chody ?)
Her: To be honest, I can't be anyone's number 3 not now or ever - so while hanging out was fun and as much as I'm sure the pizza would be delicious, I'm going to have to pass.
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So this is where it is at. Got this text about 40 mins ago. I'm not sure if this is her saying, 'dude, it was nice but take care' or 'I actually want you to be more into me'. i'm unsure if I should leave it and reengage at a later date or say something like:
'yeah a dad can't make all his children feel special ;) I just felt like I could have opened up to you. Take care XXXX '
or something like,
'Noooooooooo, guess i'll invite my friends and play monopoly then. You're gay.'
Any advice would be really helpful!
Yeah with black women in particular be SUPER playful while maintaining a good frame and you'll turn them around. They just want some respect while making sure you're not a pushover. And they're STARVED for playful energy. Knock that shit out of the ballpark
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Don't think you're going into boyfriend land just because you get sweet either.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
That study line is actually a good way of overcoming a logistical barrier. Not chody at all. She's doing homework or studying for exams? Bring it over. I'll help you study, I'm smart. The likelyhood of her actually bringing it is low... it's just a logical excuse in her mind to make it okay to hang.
First thing I thought of: What if I upgraded you to number 2... :P
Don't think you're going into boyfriend land just because you get sweet either.
Couldn't agree more with this statement. I used to be afraid of being sweet to girls cause of that whole thought it would put you in nice guy/provider/bf zone but honestly cause I come across as such a carefree, player type, it works incredibly well for me.
A while back I was hitting up an ex manager from work that was black as well. She was a dime, man. She responded well to respect but challenging sweetness along with it worked amazing. For example, I'd be hitting her up with stuff telling her how good she looks on a specific day but saying if she's not on her "A" game for work as well, it didn't mean anything. She'd engage, sometimes shit test and I'd just build on it.
P.S. - Love the brat opener lol