hang out as "friends"
Long story short: i was heading to my place one night and there was this girl talking with another one in the street(she was coming back home from jogging i thing...spandex and all that nice stuff)....i laser her from like 20m away:))and walk slowly looking at her...she sees me and makes a bit of eye contact...that looks away...i pass her...after 5 seconds she leaves the conversation with the girl and starts walking behind me(she lives in a dorm near me)i slow down...she catches up and then passes me ...i step up the walk and get 2m behind her...all this time scanning her:))i just knew she would look back at me...she did...i say: ups...u got me here :)) she laughs...ask her name...some other small things...the dialog lasted like 2 3 min cause she lived close by....i had a dead phone so i get her facebook....moving forward...i talk to her...get to know that she recently been through a break up...she says she isn't looking for dates and shit...i keep it casual and playfull and say that we will get some ice cream and have a fun time....she says "i will come but only as friends...not a date" i say dont be a dork...its gonna be funny and stuff...i might have an ideea about all this and a plan for the meeting but i thought it would be a good topic for the forum and to hear from you guys some shared wisdom
"Just as friends" is what girls tell you and themselves to rationalize the fact they're not actually trying to get the D. Just play it as normal and escalate. Zero obstacles here. Actually there is one, your lameness. The way that started was gay as fuck. Grow some nuts and open a chick
i was going to open her anyway...but as soon as i saw that gaze that she gave me...i knew i will get her...i would have engaged her anyway...but i wanted to things unflond in a new way...u can say it was faggy and what not but that was my way to go that moment...and yeah,i share your opinion on that first part...i know she just spits out autopilot mode stuff and i was like...yeah...friends...adventure...fun...i will full speed during the date and i will come back with details..thanks Jon
Ahh. Yes I understand ;)
I make assumptions about doods handling approaching like weaklings my bad.
your assumptions are welcome...i admit a have my gaynes moments ...i m working on them...but this time i want her to see my checking out her spandex covered ass ...like" yeah...i was looking at your butt...so what?"
Well played. Then yes you understand what the "as friends" thing is about ;)
i m confronting now with a thing...i now live myself in a dorm...i have rented a apartment with some friends but that finished bad...so i ended here cause i had no other option...thing is,i have roommates and its impossible now for me to have the room for my own...if the thing goes like i want to and i play it right...i get her turned on...where the fuck is this thing going down?:)) i think the only place will be the showers...but still its a long shot
You're kidding me dude. Have it planned out with your roomies beforehand. They should know to leave the scene if need be.
i m working on it
You've got to realize a few things, dude. On the open, if she notices you checking her out and you don't say anything, then she walks past you and you don't stop her then she gets 2m ahead of you and then you open, you are at a huge disadvantage. She knows you wanted to say something but didn't have the balls. Girls love it when a guy just fucking goes for it even though they will put obstacles in your way. Example this hooters chick and I hit it off at the front door of the restaurant immediately when I walk in and she even tells me she wants to suck my pickle...after I order my food at the bar I snap my fingers and point for her to come over which she told me she loved when she came over, then she ignores me and starts rambling on with her hooters friend bar tender right in front of me. It may have appeared like she was not into me but she was actually testing out my courage to take her back to my world......I digress.
As far as your phone being dead you need to tell her to hand you her phone, you put your number and save it in her phone then text yourself from her phone. Gotta be aggressive with these chicks without scaring them and they will melt for you.
Your roommates...as long as your friends are not cheese balls there shouldn't be any problems with you banging a girl in front of them. The girl does not care either I promise you. In fact, she'll find it exciting.
sooo...the story goes on...she flaked that day...i was sure of that...considering that she went through a breakup...first i was like" meh...maybe she doesn't want to go out and plays games"...i stop pushing ...kinda ignore her...today i tell her she is weird and that i don't like persons who can't make some kind of decisions and shit like that...basically talking shit to her....she apologizes for her weird acting...bla bla...then she drops the atomic bomb: "now i m free...i can go for a walk (its near midnight in my country)and after that to get to her dorm room to make something to eat and watch a movie"....when i read this i m flabbergasted...and...to make me remember this event forever...i just went home early from the city i study...i got in my hometown ...so i can't come to her....i want to punch myself in the eyes :))but this is not the main point...the point is that the girl who just want me to see her "as friends" ask me now to come to her place and watch a movie...when she is alone in her room...and to take midnight walks...when a week ago she said she would never come with me to a night walk....this is one of the moments in game when not only u see with your own eyes mindblowing shit...but it explodes in your face like a jack in the box shit:))now...Jon...please dont say to me "i told you bitch"...i m fully aware of that:))