Has anyone else experienced this??
I recognized a pattern with guys that I am friends with that love to go and pick up girls. Finding guys that love to go out and pick up girls, I have found, is pretty hard and rare.
So when I do meet people like this I like to go out with them because we have something in common. Great
They'll watch me do my thing and they are like, "dude you are awesome." or "Dude, you are a bro for sure" Im like sweet Ive got people to go out with who like to get laid. But then something starts to happen. They won't answer my texts. Or say they are too busy to go out that night. I dont know if they are intimidated or if I make them feel inferior or what. I love everyone and I dont insult them or try to lecture them on how to get girls. Ive always been able to make friends easily and Im cool not obnoxious or anything.
Has anyone else ever experienced this? I feel like these guys are kind of blown away and it causes them to look inward at themselves. Or is this a series of odd experiences Ive had?
THese are not community to my knowledge and this has happened quite a bit. Prob just under 10 occasions.
And sometimes Ill see them out by accident and they are friendly with me and Im friendly back but the "picking up girls energy" just isnt there anymore.
lmao
that's funny. guys always want to come out with me, to the point where it's borderline creepy.
do you actually befriend these dudes, or are you just stunting on them all the time?
lol I guess I just dont pay much attention to them. I kinda say, "Hey how ya doin" then I get to work. Ill see them and share a story or two of the night. Or Ill say, " alright two hotties over here". and I move on it. lol maybe I should slow down and pay attention to my male brethren. I wish I had creepy dudes wanting to go out with me all the time lol.
Bateh it's very similar to my experience with most of these guys. Basically you're them without the ego limitations. That scares the fuck out of them. These guys generally manipulate/tool other guys and that's how their male relationships form. Every single one of them, watch, they have parasitic relationships with other guys. I don't. Plus you're ex-military. There's a strength there that they just don't recognize.
Imagine meeting a couple scientologists here and there. These guys recognize the kind of person you are, they respect it, but you simply don't follow scientology and all the crap that comes with it so there's some common ground lacking that they simply need to be able to rationalize you, lol.
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hmmmmm I see. Well fuck those guys I dont wanna hang out with them lol
yeah it seems that every guy wants to pick up chicks until it actually comes down to picking up chicks
yep. i think i just got lucky surrounding myself by fucking awesome wings who are better than me and dudes from the uni who are always hitting up chicks.
oh, and in London you're never short of options.