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Hey everyone,
I'm new here, and I ow alot to MW although I haven't had a coaching course yet.
He made my text game pretty solid (by following he's rules).
I know a girl for about two weeks, met her at a gas station and took her number.
I've been texting to her but could pull her up for a date.
Lthe last time I text her she wrote me that she can't take me seriously because I'm always cocky.
I IGNORED that and kept my frame.

Today after 2 days of not texting to her I send her a text and don't know how to keep this going on. I feel like I lost my creativity.

Me: HEY YOU!
Her: hey
Her: good morning and so.
Me: how are you and so.
Her: I'm fine
Her: cleaning out my closet haha
Her: and you?
Me: are you hiding skeletons?
Me: terrible. Send me some candys.
Her: haha funny.
Her: why terrible??

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Her: here you can take what

Please ignore. *damn you double posters*

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Her: here you can take what

Her: here you can take what you want (CANDY EMOJI)

Me: mom told me not to take candys from strangers

Me: but because it's you I'll take the eyecandy.

Me: aren't you working?

Her: woke up late Me: "...work work work work work..." (RIHANNA -WORK)

Me: let's fly to Vegas. Get married, argue about our third child name, divorce and get old lonley and depressed of life.

Her: haha wow Her: you came up with a full script.

Her: just wish us to be happy and enjoy what we have.

Thats the end of the conversation. Help needed.

Notes:

- all the text is in Hebrew. I'm from Israel which means that I'm translating it to English.

- I can't send you all the conversations I had with her because I need to translate everything and I think that some of the jokes or sentences will be meaningless because of the translating.

- please ignore punctuation and such.

- I want to take MW's Skype course but I'm afraid that the language barrier will limit me and give me a hard time.

P.S. all the responses that I text her back was 45mins+- delay because I'm really busy at work and not working with my phone on me... Thanks guys.

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Did you go on a date with

Did you go on a date with her? Or at least try to? Youre not being very clear here...

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No. I tried to pull her out

No. I tried to pull her out for a date twice but she stall everytime.

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You need to bring it back

You need to bring it back down to earth a little dude. Have an actual conversation. Take the same level of creativity and make it about your day or what you've got going on. Your texting is disjointed and there's no rapport or common ground occuring. 

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MW, I get what you mean it's

MW, I get what you mean it's just that every time that I'm talking with her about things like her day and her work and such
she tells me that she can't take me seriously or shooting short boring answers which makes me re-engage all over again (I know that it's part of the game...)
 
That's how I continued the texting:
 
Me: Yep. You got that right.
Me: Tomorrow we have a tough game against *her town's soccer team*
Me: Can't wait to play on field.
Me: You'll be there with short skirt and pom poms?
Her: hahaha don't count on it.
Me: Not really.
Me: I was just being polite. 
Me: The guards won't let you in anyway. 
Me: We only have gay cheerleaders since the coach want us to foucs on the game 
 
Note:
- I'm playing as Defensive Middle Fielder in my town's soccer team. That's a regional soccer league.

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Lmao! Dude that gay

Lmao! Dude that gay cheerleaders line was FANTASTIC lol. 

Ok what was her response to this? It just seems to me like you want to go for the meetup asap, and if she isn't having it then you get a bit disapproving/qualifying her. She needs to feel like she's missing out, because undoubtedly she is. 

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Her: hahaha (01:48AM)Her: He

Her: hahaha (01:48AM)

Her: He really cares about the players

Me: Are you drinking beer or whine?  (01:59AM)

Her: Like right now?

Me: YEAH DUDE (02:04AM)

 Her: havingalittlebit (02:05AM - I think it was a drunk text)

Her: I'm little high

Me: NoooOoOooo  :(

Me: You're no fun (02:09AM)

Her: whay no fun? (02:15AM)

Me: Have a beer for me (02:22AM).

Me: Gotta watch the city. Being Superhero is a b*tch

Her: are you a hero (02:58AM)

Me: if you haven't been raped yet, that means I'm doing my job (03:31AM)

Her: what job? (03:31AM)

and then I stall the chit chat becuase I had a feeling she's shit testing or playing with me.

any suggestions?

I have a big match today so I don't care leave her hangin.... sometimes dead air is a good thing so you always can re-engage later

Notes:

-It was a late night texting... notice the weird hours

-I don't know if she was really drunk or just playing so I had hard time on re-acting

-I feeling like I had an opprutonity to pull right after the "I'm high" response 

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Yeah dude you're not getting

Yeah dude you're not getting closer with this chick you're treating her like an object. And I spotted an actual opportunity to potentially hang out which went completely over your head. 

Like I said earlier you got to bring it back down to earth. 

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Manwhore wrote:. Like I

Manwhore wrote:

Like I said earlier you got to bring it back down to earth. 

like stop being Mr.clown and start talking about real shit? wanna make sure I understand what you said.

 like I said before I feel like I blew up with the serious guy image, everytime I'm talking serious she give me short answers or saying she can't know if I'm serious or not

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What is your object by being

What is your object by being cocky/being a clown?

I think the point is, you need to have a real interaction. Now it seems like you act like that just to get into her pants, ie treating her as an object. Is this how you act around your friends?

You actually need to enjoy her company as opposed to just trying to get into het pants. You can still be cocky while having a real interaction and then it will just add to the experience and youll both enjoy it

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Papaya - Good point. I think

Papaya - Good point. I think my game lack with that, so maybe that's most of the problem.

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Yep that's it right there.

Yep that's it right there. Show me some sections of the convo where you're being more serious

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30/03/16 Some introduction -

30/03/16

Some introduction - we talked about alcohol and stuff and she said she love red whine and beer.

so I tried to pull her for a meetup

.Me: Me, You, Candles and a bottle of red wine

Her: face with cold sweat emoji

Me: Are you trying to get away?

Her: I don't know what you want

Her: talking nonsense

Me: "talking nonsense"

 Me: *burp with alcohol smell*

Her: You're so annoying haha

 Me: ok so I have a serious question

Me: Do you ever feel like you're missing your childhood?

Her: Always

Her: Well how do you want me to respond?

Me: That's an intimate question

 Me: answer what you feel right

Her: I can't talk with you intimacy

Her: You're no so serious yourself for me to take you serious

Me: OMG you're so harsh

Me: Ok I'll go first and then it's your turn

Me: blah blah blah.....

*NO RESPONSE*

So right after that I waited for the next day and re-engaged her with 

Me: Guess what? I woke up today and discovered I have a sixth sense

That's the "pick a number between 1-10" routine

....And the converstions goes on

Notes:

- I guess I just didn't kept things smooth and went to serious mode immediately

- Maybe I just got into her frame and it was a trap?

- There are more I just need to translate them all

- On second thought maybe she's telling me to beware of the friend zone lol