Having Issues With My Daygame Numbers
Wed, 07/18/2012 - 16:24
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tXtATeQ7GKg
Okay, so this is something that's sorta interesting for me right now.
So like most people say how their daygame numbers are a lot more solid than their nightgame numbers... Well it's the exact opposite for me. My nightgame numbers are SO MUCH MORE solid than my daygame numbers and I just don't know why.
I'm getting into very long daygame sets, like anywhere from 10-30 minutes... getting the # very smoothly, the girl is always like SUPER SUPER down...
I even will run like a little complience shit to see how down she is... like saying some stupid shit like, "Nah, it's cool, we don't have to meet up" and she'll be like, "nonono I want to meet up... I'll text you" (and then like she'll text me right there).
Yesterday I went out with montaigne (katalyst's wing) and we had a decent day. I got 4 numbers and they were all from these "fairly solid" sets...
I even asked him, I was like, "Dude... am I misreading these sets? Like are they NOT as solid as I think they are?" and he goes, "Nah man, your sets are really good, they are definitley hooked and going well"
But I also told him my issue and he said that, during the day, I might actually just have "too much" value because, as he said, I go in very direct and I'm loud, big, and have piercing eye contact and it may just be that I'm "too much" and so the girl endsup flaking..
He suggested "play it down" a little... and almost like acting a little more sheepishly, smilling more, and building more comfort throughout the interaction...
This all seemed very on point but was wondering if anyone else has this issue.
Okay, so this is something that's sorta interesting for me right now.
So like most people say how their daygame numbers are a lot more solid than their nightgame numbers... Well it's the exact opposite for me. My nightgame numbers are SO MUCH MORE solid than my daygame numbers and I just don't know why.
I'm getting into very long daygame sets, like anywhere from 10-30 minutes... getting the # very smoothly, the girl is always like SUPER SUPER down...
I even will run like a little complience shit to see how down she is... like saying some stupid shit like, "Nah, it's cool, we don't have to meet up" and she'll be like, "nonono I want to meet up... I'll text you" (and then like she'll text me right there).
Yesterday I went out with montaigne (katalyst's wing) and we had a decent day. I got 4 numbers and they were all from these "fairly solid" sets...
I even asked him, I was like, "Dude... am I misreading these sets? Like are they NOT as solid as I think they are?" and he goes, "Nah man, your sets are really good, they are definitley hooked and going well"
But I also told him my issue and he said that, during the day, I might actually just have "too much" value because, as he said, I go in very direct and I'm loud, big, and have piercing eye contact and it may just be that I'm "too much" and so the girl endsup flaking..
He suggested "play it down" a little... and almost like acting a little more sheepishly, smilling more, and building more comfort throughout the interaction...
This all seemed very on point but was wondering if anyone else has this issue.
Wed, 07/18/2012 - 23:41
#1
Re: Having Issues With My Daygame Numbers
Show me your texts I suspect I know what's up. Just lump all these text "convos" yer having that aren't getting responded to in this thread.
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Wed, 07/18/2012 - 23:52
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@Manwhore:
yeah dude- I'll throw those up.
That was actually my exact thought last night.
My daygame texts are SOOO DIFFERENT than my night game texts... like it's weird.. with nightgame numbers, I tend to have something funny and cool to say... but with daygame it's like i go "FULL CHODE" with my texts- I'll throw them up,
It's almost like, I go "sheepish" in my daygame texts... despite the fact that I was super confident going up to these girls.. it's like my texts sorta back down from that frame.
yeah dude- I'll throw those up.
That was actually my exact thought last night.
My daygame texts are SOOO DIFFERENT than my night game texts... like it's weird.. with nightgame numbers, I tend to have something funny and cool to say... but with daygame it's like i go "FULL CHODE" with my texts- I'll throw them up,
It's almost like, I go "sheepish" in my daygame texts... despite the fact that I was super confident going up to these girls.. it's like my texts sorta back down from that frame.
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 02:15
#3
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@buddhagames:
Me: Hey Taylor. Glad I met you on the streets. How was the movie
Me: -BG
Me: Hey Taylor. Glad I met you on the streets. How was the movie
Me: -BG
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 02:16
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@buddhagames:
Me: Hey beb, sweet meeting you. Make it back to long island? -BG
Me: Hey beb, sweet meeting you. Make it back to long island? -BG
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 02:17
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@buddhagames:
Me: Nice meeting you Daniel, one dat, if it ever exists, even, for a second, we should hang out :b
Me: Nice meeting you Daniel, one dat, if it ever exists, even, for a second, we should hang out :b
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 02:17
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@buddhagames:
Me: Caroline, great meeting you, next time should be for longer, preferably not in a train station-Garrett
Girl - 16 mins later: Lovely to meet you as well and, as I'm sure you know already, new york gets to feel really small after a while so I'm sure I'll see you around
Me - 1 day 17 hrs later: How are you? I'm just about to eat at this super authentic Dominican restaurant.
Me: Caroline, great meeting you, next time should be for longer, preferably not in a train station-Garrett
Girl - 16 mins later: Lovely to meet you as well and, as I'm sure you know already, new york gets to feel really small after a while so I'm sure I'll see you around
Me - 1 day 17 hrs later: How are you? I'm just about to eat at this super authentic Dominican restaurant.
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 02:18
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Re: Having Issues With My Daygame Numbers
@buddhagames:
Me: It was cool meeting you. Didn't catch your name?-BG
Me: It was cool meeting you. Didn't catch your name?-BG
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 02:18
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@buddhagames:
Me: Natalie, it was nice meeting you. I'll text you for coffee
Me: Natalie, it was nice meeting you. I'll text you for coffee
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 02:19
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@buddhagames:
Girl: It's Anna. x
Me - 3 hrs 45 mins later: Nice meeting you, Anna. You stay in Bryant park for a while?
Girl: It's Anna. x
Me - 3 hrs 45 mins later: Nice meeting you, Anna. You stay in Bryant park for a while?
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 02:19
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@buddhagames:
Girl: Hi it's Veronica
Me - 4 hrs 13 mins later: Veronica, awesome seeing you. We'll grab some ice cream and watch Ted sometime this week.
Girl: Hi it's Veronica
Me - 4 hrs 13 mins later: Veronica, awesome seeing you. We'll grab some ice cream and watch Ted sometime this week.
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 02:20
#11
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@buddhagames:
Me: Yana, it was awesome meeting you... how's coneticut lmao
Me: Yana, it was awesome meeting you... how's coneticut lmao
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 02:20
#12
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@buddhagames:
Me: Luthea, lmao I have no clue how to spell your name! What's your schedule look like later this week... besides meeting awesome new guys in Bryant park ; )
Me: Luthea, lmao I have no clue how to spell your name! What's your schedule look like later this week... besides meeting awesome new guys in Bryant park ; )
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 11:42
#13
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@buddhagames:
seriously man cut the "well it was nice meeting you" vibe out of the texts. It just sounds really off when I was reading it. Manwhore will fix this for sure. *manwhore symbol*
seriously man cut the "well it was nice meeting you" vibe out of the texts. It just sounds really off when I was reading it. Manwhore will fix this for sure. *manwhore symbol*
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 11:53
#14
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@kris:
I appreciate the feedback. You are 100% right... the "well it was nice meeting you".. OMgawwd, I was reading those and just CRINGED every time I posted one... lol I was like talking to myself like, "Damn, BG, do I REALLLLLLLY have to post these for everyone to see"... it's self punishment ; )
It's weird, like I don't know why there is such a DISTINCT difference between my day and night game numbers... It will be fixed VERY quickly. Now that I'm SUPER conscious of it, I'm going to make moves and get this handled.
My text game is becoming way too good to be held back by bullshiz like this.
I appreciate the feedback. You are 100% right... the "well it was nice meeting you".. OMgawwd, I was reading those and just CRINGED every time I posted one... lol I was like talking to myself like, "Damn, BG, do I REALLLLLLLY have to post these for everyone to see"... it's self punishment ; )
It's weird, like I don't know why there is such a DISTINCT difference between my day and night game numbers... It will be fixed VERY quickly. Now that I'm SUPER conscious of it, I'm going to make moves and get this handled.
My text game is becoming way too good to be held back by bullshiz like this.
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 14:28
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@buddhagames:
yeah buddha, the texts' just aren't congruent with 'you', like you as a person dude. I get the impression you approach these girls just like you would at night: loud and happy n shit. There's nothing 'nice to meet you' about that, cause yur rockin their world like a hurricane. Amp up the volume in the texts to where it feels...right, for you, you feel me?
The only difference is probably that YOU SEE a difference between the two when game is the same. Everywhere, anytime.
yeah buddha, the texts' just aren't congruent with 'you', like you as a person dude. I get the impression you approach these girls just like you would at night: loud and happy n shit. There's nothing 'nice to meet you' about that, cause yur rockin their world like a hurricane. Amp up the volume in the texts to where it feels...right, for you, you feel me?
The only difference is probably that YOU SEE a difference between the two when game is the same. Everywhere, anytime.
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 15:26
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@Gogo:
Yeah you already know what's up so their is nothing to add. But you know whats funny is if we all didn't approach and know about the community if you hit it off with a girl you found in the street and text her "hey nice to meet you :)" or something you'd be like what the fuck why didn't she text me. Or hell even if you know about the community but you only got and texted one number you'd still be like "maybe she doesn't like me/has a bf/is a psycho"
It's only when we have 15 numbers that aren't texting back where we can pinpoint he exact problem ourselfs. Cause if one girl doesn't text back it doesn't mean shit
Yeah you already know what's up so their is nothing to add. But you know whats funny is if we all didn't approach and know about the community if you hit it off with a girl you found in the street and text her "hey nice to meet you :)" or something you'd be like what the fuck why didn't she text me. Or hell even if you know about the community but you only got and texted one number you'd still be like "maybe she doesn't like me/has a bf/is a psycho"
It's only when we have 15 numbers that aren't texting back where we can pinpoint he exact problem ourselfs. Cause if one girl doesn't text back it doesn't mean shit
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 15:29
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@Gogo:
Holy shiznat gogo... you NAILED it dude.
"Go in strong and calibrate later"
lmao- that's EXACTLY how I approach these girls. I don't give a fuck if it's nighttime, daytime, naptime or teatime... I'm comin in hot and figuring out the landing later.
And yes. I TOTALLY feel you on the whole, "These texts aren't congruent to you" thing... I hear you so so so loud and clear, it's exactly what I was thinking everytime I wrote them, sent them, and then reread them. I just couldn't figure out wtf was going on.
And yeah- that's exactly dead on man... for whatever reason... i SEE a difference between the two. Like not even conssciously necesarily, but subconsciously, I see a difference... despite the fact taht when I'm actually gaming... I don't treat them differently at all, really. Like I remember thinking when I was sending a few of them- almost something like, "okay, man.. just send her a really 'nice' text and hope she responds" lmao- it's like I was almost TRYING to move away from the way I approached and interacted with them... despite the fact that it was THAT person they enjoyed being around and THAT person they gave their number to.
Just gotta be. At all points in the game. Whether it's in person or through text.
Holy shiznat gogo... you NAILED it dude.
"Go in strong and calibrate later"
lmao- that's EXACTLY how I approach these girls. I don't give a fuck if it's nighttime, daytime, naptime or teatime... I'm comin in hot and figuring out the landing later.
And yes. I TOTALLY feel you on the whole, "These texts aren't congruent to you" thing... I hear you so so so loud and clear, it's exactly what I was thinking everytime I wrote them, sent them, and then reread them. I just couldn't figure out wtf was going on.
And yeah- that's exactly dead on man... for whatever reason... i SEE a difference between the two. Like not even conssciously necesarily, but subconsciously, I see a difference... despite the fact taht when I'm actually gaming... I don't treat them differently at all, really. Like I remember thinking when I was sending a few of them- almost something like, "okay, man.. just send her a really 'nice' text and hope she responds" lmao- it's like I was almost TRYING to move away from the way I approached and interacted with them... despite the fact that it was THAT person they enjoyed being around and THAT person they gave their number to.
Just gotta be. At all points in the game. Whether it's in person or through text.
Thu, 07/19/2012 - 15:51
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@icewahine:
hahaha right? I was laughing when I was going through my phone and posting all of these up, lmao. #lifeofapua
But in all seriousness, it's like the fucking scientific method- like the more you do this shit, the more you can be certain of whether it's a "fluke" or something systemic.
That's another thing- I don't stress on any, ONE, rejection or blowout... But I do group like 20-30 rejections together and I'll be like, "Okay, I need to improve my vocal tonality" or some shit like that
hahaha right? I was laughing when I was going through my phone and posting all of these up, lmao. #lifeofapua
But in all seriousness, it's like the fucking scientific method- like the more you do this shit, the more you can be certain of whether it's a "fluke" or something systemic.
That's another thing- I don't stress on any, ONE, rejection or blowout... But I do group like 20-30 rejections together and I'll be like, "Okay, I need to improve my vocal tonality" or some shit like that
Fri, 07/20/2012 - 03:01
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@buddhagames:
yea i agree - go more cocky n funny...but i also have the same issue where a lot of chicks have been flaking on me for using cocky n funny lines.....idk i'm going to get someone to start filming my sets.
yea i agree - go more cocky n funny...but i also have the same issue where a lot of chicks have been flaking on me for using cocky n funny lines.....idk i'm going to get someone to start filming my sets.
Fri, 07/20/2012 - 03:30
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@Katalyst:
YO- let's do that for eachother this sunday. I'm absolutely down. I've wanted to do that for a little while now.
YO- let's do that for eachother this sunday. I'm absolutely down. I've wanted to do that for a little while now.
Fri, 07/20/2012 - 03:31
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@Katalyst:
I bet you could "save" like all of these with some well-played voicemails.
Don't pretend you're not a charismatic motherfucker ;)
I bet you could "save" like all of these with some well-played voicemails.
Don't pretend you're not a charismatic motherfucker ;)
Fri, 07/20/2012 - 03:40
#22
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@Alex123:
Heh, I've gone in with the voicemail attack on a few of them... but yeah, I think I need to do a systematic voicemail bombing of every single number I posted here.
I can be fairly charasmatic at times... I def. need to keep practicing my voicemails though- but yeah, when I get them DOWN... it's gonna be cool.
Heh, I've gone in with the voicemail attack on a few of them... but yeah, I think I need to do a systematic voicemail bombing of every single number I posted here.
I can be fairly charasmatic at times... I def. need to keep practicing my voicemails though- but yeah, when I get them DOWN... it's gonna be cool.
Fri, 07/20/2012 - 05:37
#23
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@buddhagames:
What I've been doing is 15-20 min of vocal drills that MW gave me and THEN leaving the voicemail.
Only done it 4 times so far but they've been turning out smooth everytime.
I just make the calls after I'm done with my daily drills.
What I've been doing is 15-20 min of vocal drills that MW gave me and THEN leaving the voicemail.
Only done it 4 times so far but they've been turning out smooth everytime.
I just make the calls after I'm done with my daily drills.