Having trouble with pulling during the day
On tuesday i met a girl in town and we were just hanging out making out a bit and laughing but when i tried to pull her back to my hotel room but she was telling me she has to go blah blah . Yesterday another chick called me and wanted to see me and since she happened to be like 3 blocks away i told her to come and meet me and later when i tried to pull her back she was like "why" and i was like "i forgot my wallet lets go" but she didnt want to.
Im not having alot of trouble at night, or after inviting a girl out for drinks and she is aroused.
I think my problem is being too indecisive or something but i dont really know.... any advice?
Yeah don't make a big deal out of it. Otherwise it comes off like "ho at a hotel". Give more details I can explain a bit better
Well the first chick was from social circle i know her pretty well, i had made out with her in the past. So we had been hanging out with our friends and she was sitting on my lap in the car. Then she told the driver "drop me off here" and i was like "me too" and started walking with her. She asked me where i was staying at and i told her where and we started walking towards it. When we got there i started leading her inside but she was like "i have to go, i have exams tomorrow", which certainly was true. Then i told her "just come with me for a minute, to which she deplied "what for". I was like "lets go check out my hotel room" but she said she really has to go. Then she stayed with me talking about stuff and making out but would just refuse to go up with me. This chick is 17 if it matters.
The other chick that called me, i had only met her the say before for the first time and i was making sexual jokes all the time but nothing more because i had a fever and went home.
I wasnt that into her but i wanted to bang quickly before i ran into other chicks so i took her for a walk and then to my hotel but she didnt want to. Then i was like lets have some drinks later tonight and kissed her bye. Later that night she said she wanted to go for a walk but i had other plans.
Yeah well i figure this will keep happening and i should overcome it and not only pull girls at night, or girls that are straight forward.
Emotional momentum.. you had none. GAME. Ramp that shit up she shouldn't even have time to think about the grape that's about to happen.
interesting... so thats why they follow me at night because there is already alot of emotional momentum. during the day i'm usually more laid back. any examples on how to ramp it up?
C'mon dude you want me to write out an essay based on "any examples on how to ramp it up?" Go fuck yourself
Meh nobody asked for an essay. I was teasing them and being an ass all the time but since that doesnt seem to do it im trynna figure out how to not let her have time to think about whats going to happen.
I was looking for a short answer, for example "Caveman game" if that applies. I mean at what point will a girl NOT have time to think about going up 3 stairs and walking into a room. I recently had another girl abusively come up into my hotel room to suck my dick when i told her i didnt have time but thats another story.
And yeah thanks for linking me to that essay :)