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Friday

Her (Midnight) : I think you might need some extra help on the dance so text me when you're free

Me (2 hours later): You're going to have to give me some private lessons vvvv

Saturday

Me (7 pm): hey broccolibutt what kind of trouble are you getting into tonight?

Her (10 min later): Broccolibutt? Not sure if that's a compliment or an insult haha but I'm going to xxxx

Me (5 min later): its a compliment beb xxxx ehhh get a fake and come to A-bar

Me(1 min later): yea that sounds cool

Her(3 min later): Haha I already promised my friends I would go with them 

Me (2 hours later):true

Monday

Me (4 pm): hey what's your schedule like this week

no response


Context met this girl two weeks at a social. Flirted with her a little, but I didn't really talk to her one on one, was kind of just free flowing teasing her whole group of friends having a good time.  Projecting having a good time etc.  Found out she was the dance instructor for our spring dance with a sorority so I went to that.  Projected a little bit, social dominated convos over other guys, we didn't really talk much then.

Through a party this weekend.  I'm having a great old time, my station had bad ass costumes haha.  She kinda appears out of no where and its on she wants to take shots and photos etc.

I'm teasing her on everything. Telling stories. We're squared up, face to face, most of our bodies touching. I know what this is go into start hooking up and she resists b/c of older sorority girls judging her or whatever. Start to pull her to somewhere more discreet and a friend swoops in and her rides leaving grab her number and tell her to tect me hers.

dance instructor, bartending class juat got certified, pretty sure she said she noticed me in one of my classes that I never go to

Added me on fbook, havent accepted yet.

texts on saturday saw her at the bar sunday

Same deal squared up and shit. Teasing her/vibing on being bossy/unsociable. Introducing her to people. Talking to her friend that cockblocked me the night before. Then my ride left and I had to leave quick. She may have told me she had an exam friday not sure.

Wanted to try buddha games concise style and go for a meet up for tonight or tomorrow but no response.

If anything I'll most likely see her today, thursday, or def Friday.

Thinking texting to build up momentum and get more investment.

I don't know if some random text from the database would apply here, probably want to try to use some call back humor.

Or just regular convo, rapport style to get momentum.
 

Putting this up now so I don't fuck up and text her something that fucks it up more like I have in the past before i get some freedback.
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Yes you need to use
Yes you need to use reengagement/callback humor instead of hitting a girl up randomly and asking her what her schedule is like that week. There is NO incentive for her to answer that text lol.
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If you have enough compliance
If you have enough compliance try to get her to go to a near by jacuzzi or party. Have one of your boys bring a girl too and make it a 2 on2. Get some alcohol and bam. Or standard party. If you dont have enough compliance, meet up for some lunch and get her comfortable. Sometimes these sorostitutes just need to know you arent a creeper in a public setting / group setting.
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Manwhore wrote:Yes you need
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Yes you need to use reengagement/callback humor instead of hitting a girl up randomly and asking her what her schedule is like that week. There is NO incentive for her to answer that text lol.


haha tru. I was really just fiddling around trying to try stuff that I haven't really done before. Why does buddhagames barebones texting style like that work for him though?
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Yea I completely agree with you, that's exactly what I'm going for. Only problem is I'm trying to keep it discrete in a frat house, which is a bitch to do. Though I'm not even sure if I should care about that now that I think about it.

I'm pretty sure that she knows that I'm not a creeper because I've had mad social proof every time we've spoken, but I'll definitely keep that in mind.
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Trying to figure out a good
Trying to figure out a good reengagement text. Sometimes I got it sometimes I don't what do you think of these:

I've got an iphone vid of my boy dancing soo shittily at a club, its pretty funny.
Hey I found the perfect person to be front and center of the dance, much better than xxx name.

Or

Woooh. Just finished practicing the dance for two hours. Where Were You! =p
- obviously tongue and cheek, we talked about how I haven't practiced and she knows never would

or

"What's up lil dancer baby. How's your day going?
or

What's up lil choreographerbutt, during my extra help for the dance. Can you show me how that thrusting move works? I can't figure it out ;)


- during the dance there's this fucking motion that she did once than wouldn't do again and I teased her hard on that during practice, and we also talked about a little student, teacher fantasy thing on friday
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Because he's such an
Because he's such an authority in person that when he hits a girl up with a text like that, he's basically forcing her to rerecognize his hotness.
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Authority
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Because he's such an authority in person that when he hits a girl up with a text like that, he's basically forcing her to rerecognize his hotness.


That's interesting, I definitely don't always come off that authoritative. And that wasn't the vibe I really had with this girl. Though I was definitely the buyer frame, though it didn't come across in text. Definitely gotta think more about what I'm conveying while texting.

What do you think of my last re engagement text, its the one I like the most?
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Edit it, doesn't make sense.
Edit it, doesn't make sense.
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hahahaa wow I'm tired

What do you think of my last re engagement text, its the one I like the most?

What I meant to say was what do you think of the reengagement texts that I thought up from a couple posts up? I think the last one's my best one.
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I know. And I said edit it,
I know. And I said edit it, it doesn't make sense. Attention to details
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this
what about this;

What's up lil choreographerbutt, during extra help can you show me that hip thrusting move again? I can't figure it out ;)
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Make it more demanding. Also
Make it more demanding. Also more minimalist
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Hey choreographerbutt, during
Hey choreographerbutt, during extra help lets work on that hip thrusting move again. I can't figure it out ;)
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Change the last sentence make
Change the last sentence make it more a statement/accusatory/crazy
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something like this?
What's up lil choreographerbutt, during extra help lets work on that hip thrusting move again. I have to perfect it for the dance ;)

What's up lil choreographerbutt, during extra help lets work on the thrusting move again. But only if you can keep your hands to yourself ;)

What's up lil choreographerbutt, during extra help lets work on the thrusting move again. Wear that cute spandex so we match ;)
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Last one was funny but too
Last one was funny but too sexual for the vibe. Middle one would be decent in dif circumstances but it won't fly here. Make it accusatory towards her like something to do with barney or something.
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What's up lil
What's up lil choreographerbutt, during extra help lets work on that hip thrusting move again. But you better not turn me into one of those dancing barney sidekicks- I stopped wanting to watch that show when I was 6
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buddhagames wrote:What's up
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What's up lil choreographerbutt, during extra help lets work on that hip thrusting move again. But you better not turn me into one of those dancing barney sidekicks- I stopped wanting to watch that show when I was 6


lmao sooo simple but still way better than what I was coming up with, I like it

I'm just not understanding why this is a better text. Like I look at that and say wow that's a doozy of a text and can tell its better. I need to pick your brain a little bit.

Right now this is what I'm seeing a little tease at the beginning, funny sexual escalation and the middle, the accusatory to make the sexual part okay I guess
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That's a novel of a text tho
That's a novel of a text tho that's for sure.
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Yeah, I'd cut out some fat
Yeah, I'd cut out some fat before sending

I can't do all the work for these kids
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What's up lil
What's up lil choreographerbutt, during extra help lets work on that thrusting move again. But don't turn me into one of those dancing barney sidekicks- I stopped liking that show when I was 6

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What's up lil choreographerbutt, in extra help lets work on that thrusting move again. But don't turn me into one of those dancing barney sidekicks- I stopped liking that show when I was 6
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Cut more fat.
Cut more fat.
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Choreographerbutt, in extra help lets practice the thrusting move. But don't turn me into barney's dancing sidekick- I stopped liking that show when I was 6
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Dancerbutt in extra help we
Dancerbutt in extra help we need to practice your new thrust move. But don't turn me into barney's dancing sidekick- I stopped liking that show when I was 6

What is this "in extra help", that just sounds awkward.
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Her (Midnight) : I think you
Her (Midnight) : I think you might need some extra help on the dance so text me when you're free

she says this, like both times we talked for a while about me and her practicing the dance together privately etc

that's where the extra help comes from
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Wait, she just said that to
Wait, she just said that to you in response?
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We talked about dance
We talked about dance practice, in which she's like head choreographer, and I don't know the steps since I've only been too one of the practices. So as we're basically all cuddled up against a wall, she mentions that we should "tutor me in the dance" privately and that she wants me to be her partner for a different dance or something. Than I somehow spun it, into me always wanting to hook up with my dance teacher and she follows right along with the roll play. Than her rides leaving and she has to find her friends etc we get broken up and I don't have my phone. So I plug in my number and have her text me something that was what she meant by "extra help on the dance" in the first text
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holy balls - you're spending
holy balls - you're spending this much time and THATS the situation?

Dude- you could text this girl monkey balls and she's gonna be wet.
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I legit never close from
I legit never close from texting, so I want to actually do it right this time, or figure it out for next time
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Manwhore wrote:Dancerbutt in
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Dancerbutt in extra help we need to practice your new thrust move. But don't turn me into barney's dancing sidekick- I stopped liking that show when I was 6

What is this "in extra help", that just sounds awkward.


soo about to send the text does the extra help matter at this point? I'll keep it or drop it, had it in their for the original call back humour but now we have the thrusting move as well so keep it or leave it?
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Just take out the extra help
Just take out the extra help part, it still sounds good (actually better) without it.

"Dancerbutt, we need to practice your new thrust move. Just don't turn me into one of barney's dancing sidekicks- I stopped liking that show when I was 6"
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Ya ^ that's good. But damn,
Ya ^ that's good. But damn, like we both said.. this started out with her wanting to give you "private dancing lessons". Uhh.. durrr
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Ok good looks, i took it
Ok good looks, i took it out.

Her: That probably one of the most interesting texts I've gotten in a while... Haha you have practice at X tomorrow just like everyone else so don't be late
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ItsMario wrote:Ok good looks,
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Ok good looks, i took it out.

Her: That probably one of the most interesting texts I've gotten in a while... Haha you have practice at X tomorrow just like everyone else so don't be late


soo the text i sent offered a lot of funny value and she kind of sent a logical iod text

In person I probably would just overpower this with a playfully challenging expression on my face like,

Girl Don't EVEN start with me what do we need other people for
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Yeah, idk if you read my
Yeah, idk if you read my response to Katalyst- but I would discourage you from thinking of this stuff in "theory language"

Personally, I couldn't have really "handled" understanding the theory behind half this stuff even just a year ago... You gotta be at a pretty solid place, with regards to your own strength of self, to be able to look at this theory and not have it grab a hold of you a little.
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buddhagames wrote:Yeah, idk
buddhagames wrote:
Yeah, idk if you read my response to Katalyst- but I would discourage you from thinking of this stuff in "theory language"

Personally, I couldn't have really "handled" understanding the theory behind half this stuff even just a year ago... You gotta be at a pretty solid place, with regards to your own strength of self, to be able to look at this theory and not have it grab a hold of you a little.


in otherwords, I'm completly off and should try to vibe it out?
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Nah dude, not what I'm saying
Nah dude, not what I'm saying at all. Honestly- I don't want to spend more time on this particular thread at the moment lol so I didn't really read her response yet.
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That was a cold text she sent
That was a cold text she sent you. Fuck that ho
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Yeah, that may or may not
Yeah, that may or may not have played in a roll in my decision to no longer give a fuck about this thread.

That was a weird response and if it were me I would do the same shit I'm doing right now with this thread.

Fucks Given = 0

So cold. Shit
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I would be polite but
I would be polite but withdraw your warmth from any interaction you have with her. If she's nice and tries to appease you, cool. If she tries to give you shit look her in her eyes, stay present, and tell her to shut the fuck up.
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Yeah ^^ that's such solid
Yeah ^^ that's such solid advise on how to handle it- and also don't respond for a little while man. That text doesn't deserve a response.
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Ok got it. Thanks for the
Ok got it. Thanks for the advice.