HB8 text conversation from social circle. 10 minute number close.
Tue, 09/04/2012 - 00:21
Girl: Hey sorry! Got busy! Just got home il talk to u tomm! Night :)
Me - 31 mins later: Sure nite ;)
Girl - 2 days 16 hrs later: Hey u always call so late lol
Me - 22 mins later: Late is 2am ;)
Girl - 25 mins later: Haha
Girl - 1 hr 59 mins later: I'm at work til 9 then bed lol
Me - 1 hr 34 mins later: Wow. You need to chillax.... Im heading out if town this weekend but we should meet up next Tuesday night for a drink and fun ;)...
Me - 1 hr 42 mins later: Anyway ...j/k....but seriously enjoy the weekend. :)
Girl - 10 mins later: I can try for that sure
Girl: Goodnight :)
Me - 1 min later: I'll text u when I get back. Nite.
Me - 3 days 21 hrs later: Just got back... wish I could have been gone longer. ;)
Me - 17 hrs 40 mins later: Hey (girls name). I can't meet u tonight. -(my name)
Girl - 38 mins later: Hey that's ok I gotta pack I'm leaving for 5days
Me - 1 hr later: Cool. We'll chat when you get back. Don't get into 2 much trouble ;)
Girl - 2 hrs 29 mins later: Lol I'll try not too
Me - 1 week later: Hey u, how was your trip?
Girl - 4 days 16 hrs later: Hey it was great
Girl - 2 weeks 4 days later: Hey! Ya ! Hahaha how so
Me - 14 hrs 25 mins later: A shark, an irish camel, and a pool party filled with cream and jelly beans. ;).
Girl - 1 min later: Hahhaa what!
Girl: Awesome
Me - 3 hrs 58 mins later: Yup. We need to share our adventures!... eat strawberries, and drink gummy bears. Next Sunday night, come!
Me - 1 hr 23 mins later: ;p
Me - 1 day 17 hrs later: Hey (her name), all fun aside. The last time, we were gonna meet up I had to cancel because of an emergency. We need a do over. :) Coffee or a drink after work for 20mins. Can you make monday night? -(my name)
Me - 7 hrs 7 mins later: Hey girl, what's the word? You can always say no, which is fine.
Me - 31 mins later: Sure nite ;)
Girl - 2 days 16 hrs later: Hey u always call so late lol
Me - 22 mins later: Late is 2am ;)
Girl - 25 mins later: Haha
Girl - 1 hr 59 mins later: I'm at work til 9 then bed lol
Me - 1 hr 34 mins later: Wow. You need to chillax.... Im heading out if town this weekend but we should meet up next Tuesday night for a drink and fun ;)...
Me - 1 hr 42 mins later: Anyway ...j/k....but seriously enjoy the weekend. :)
Girl - 10 mins later: I can try for that sure
Girl: Goodnight :)
Me - 1 min later: I'll text u when I get back. Nite.
Me - 3 days 21 hrs later: Just got back... wish I could have been gone longer. ;)
Me - 17 hrs 40 mins later: Hey (girls name). I can't meet u tonight. -(my name)
Girl - 38 mins later: Hey that's ok I gotta pack I'm leaving for 5days
Me - 1 hr later: Cool. We'll chat when you get back. Don't get into 2 much trouble ;)
Girl - 2 hrs 29 mins later: Lol I'll try not too
Me - 1 week later: Hey u, how was your trip?
Girl - 4 days 16 hrs later: Hey it was great
Girl - 2 weeks 4 days later: Hey! Ya ! Hahaha how so
Me - 14 hrs 25 mins later: A shark, an irish camel, and a pool party filled with cream and jelly beans. ;).
Girl - 1 min later: Hahhaa what!
Girl: Awesome
Me - 3 hrs 58 mins later: Yup. We need to share our adventures!... eat strawberries, and drink gummy bears. Next Sunday night, come!
Me - 1 hr 23 mins later: ;p
Me - 1 day 17 hrs later: Hey (her name), all fun aside. The last time, we were gonna meet up I had to cancel because of an emergency. We need a do over. :) Coffee or a drink after work for 20mins. Can you make monday night? -(my name)
Me - 7 hrs 7 mins later: Hey girl, what's the word? You can always say no, which is fine.
Tue, 09/04/2012 - 02:10
#1
Re: HB8 text conversation from social circle.
kaiba;1165;284 wrote:
Me - 1 hr 42 mins later: Anyway ...j/k....but seriously enjoy the weekend. :)
It was all over after this text brah. Can't bitch out when you try and go sexual, you either go for it or you don't. You never say you were "just kidding"!
Tue, 09/04/2012 - 06:15
#2
Re: HB8 text conversation from social circle.
@HUNTER:
"Just Kidding" is my flip if I go to far in real life. I guess I just use it in text to pull back when I think I went to far or if I go over the too over the top.
Thanks for the pointers. Totally new to text game. Normally, try to connect via phone, but I keep getting voice mail (there actually is a thread in the text conversation about me calling too late. ... 9pm .... 0_o)
"Just Kidding" is my flip if I go to far in real life. I guess I just use it in text to pull back when I think I went to far or if I go over the too over the top.
Thanks for the pointers. Totally new to text game. Normally, try to connect via phone, but I keep getting voice mail (there actually is a thread in the text conversation about me calling too late. ... 9pm .... 0_o)
Thu, 09/06/2012 - 07:15
#3
Re: HB8 text conversation from social circle.
@kaiba:
Ya it just looks extremely chodey to do that via text brah. It approval seeking at its finest. Completely removes any sexual tension that you could have been building. Although...the intial text wasn't stellar this just sealed the coffin.
It can be terrible to do it in real life if you don't do it properly either. It's like you don't want to "mess-up" the interaction and stop receiving those nice validation feelings from the girl so you say you were, "just kididng" in an attempt to get her to keep talking to you. I find it's best to just change the subject immediately.
Ya it just looks extremely chodey to do that via text brah. It approval seeking at its finest. Completely removes any sexual tension that you could have been building. Although...the intial text wasn't stellar this just sealed the coffin.
It can be terrible to do it in real life if you don't do it properly either. It's like you don't want to "mess-up" the interaction and stop receiving those nice validation feelings from the girl so you say you were, "just kididng" in an attempt to get her to keep talking to you. I find it's best to just change the subject immediately.
Thu, 09/06/2012 - 00:03
#4
Re: HB8 text conversation from social circle.
@HUNTER:
Thanks for the feedback. I think you are probably spot on. Thanks for the tips.
Thanks for the feedback. I think you are probably spot on. Thanks for the tips.
Thu, 09/06/2012 - 12:05
#5
Re: HB8 text conver
@kaiba:
The just kidding wasn't that bad. It didn't help probably, but it's not really a game ender either.
Your last text was pretty bad, the "you can always say no, which is fine." It's so defeatist.
The just kidding wasn't that bad. It didn't help probably, but it's not really a game ender either.
Your last text was pretty bad, the "you can always say no, which is fine." It's so defeatist.
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Sat, 09/08/2012 - 04:44
#6
Re: HB8 text conver
@Manwhore:
I'm very pragmatic guy and I did that to force an answer and to give her a way out. So, that I can move on.
I would rather she tell me no, so I can focus on other stuff then to play around (however, going over the top in text is kinda fun).
Also, I was getting going to be MIA for some time after that text, so I wanted to meet up with her before that instead of having to keep the text warm.
Based on the conversation, what should I have texted instead of just requesting for the meetup?
I'm very pragmatic guy and I did that to force an answer and to give her a way out. So, that I can move on.
I would rather she tell me no, so I can focus on other stuff then to play around (however, going over the top in text is kinda fun).
Also, I was getting going to be MIA for some time after that text, so I wanted to meet up with her before that instead of having to keep the text warm.
Based on the conversation, what should I have texted instead of just requesting for the meetup?
Sat, 09/08/2012 - 06:11
#7
@kaiba:
Sure and I understand
@kaiba:
Sure and I understand that. So next time go with a better way of doing the same thing. Add some life/energy to it, and make it more "high value". E.g. "Girl let me know quick 'cuz otherwise I've got some pandas to slay. They're eating my bamboo garden."
Sure and I understand that. So next time go with a better way of doing the same thing. Add some life/energy to it, and make it more "high value". E.g. "Girl let me know quick 'cuz otherwise I've got some pandas to slay. They're eating my bamboo garden."
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Sun, 09/09/2012 - 18:13
#8
Re: @kaiba:Sure and I understand
@Manwhore:
Cool. Thanks MW for the advice. I will do that next time.
Cool. Thanks MW for the advice. I will do that next time.