HB9 off POF need text advice!
Hey guys, so...to put it bluntly my text game is shit. I've been brushing up on it and that's what brings me here.
I got this girl's number off POF, been txting back and forth for about a week and I can't seem to get a consistent conversation, which is all I want to pull the trigger on asking for a meetup (please read the convo from the last 3 days and correct me).
Tuesday:
Sent het one of those "I found a pic of you" texts, no response.
Wednesday:
Me: (send her a pic of me doing pull-ups with my legs in the lotus position, she understood the joke) I've been multi-tasking this morning, figured out how to meditate and work out at the same time.
40 Mins later
Me: It's me, your cell that is, not wanting anything particular right now...
Me: Just wanted to get out of your pocket it's dark down there :P
40 Mins later:
Her: Hahaa
Her: Wow sorry I haven't turned my data on so I didn't see those pics till now
Her: I should try that at the gym tonight
3hrs later
Me: No you shouldnt, its dangerous and I wouldn't want you to get hurt ;)
Hour later
Her: Hahaa I could do it trust me
Thursday:
Me:I think leg days are finally paying off, I was walking back from the gym today and some old lady called me bottylicious!
Me: How'd it go at the gym yesterday?
4hrs later:
Me: Don't just ignore me, say something loser! :P
2hrs later:
Her: It went well. I hit some PRs. Sorry not trying to ignore. I'm at work and I'm feeling sick
20mins later:
Me: Ok I'll let you off with a stern warning, this time...second time might be a spanking XD. You want something to make you feel better?
No response so I just left it for now.
Please critique me as harshly as you want because I am clueless here. Is there anyway to salvage the situation?
I feel like I've been texting her for too long (since last wednesday) at this point. If I met her in person it would be a done deal but I just can't feel value out over text unless the girl is instantly responding and I honestley don't know what I'm doing in terms of building attraction.
Whole interaction has been more or less like this except for the initial one which was very positive.
So why haven't you tried getting her out to meet up with you? You're not going anywhere, she's not seeing the point here. You want to be pen pals or pull the trigger?
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There's nothing wrong with your texting.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
So why haven't you tried getting her out to meet up with you? You're not going anywhere, she's not seeing the point here. You want to be pen pals or pull the trigger?
You don't see it?
He's waiting for her "approval" so he can ask her out. It's as plain as day lol like that's literally the reason he hasn't brought her out yet. He doesn't feel like he has her approval yet. HA
Why did you stop texting on Wednesday? That could have went in the right direction the texting was pretty smooth and funny
Wow incredible, you are exactly right, I've put the pussy on a pedestal. So this is more of an inner game/confidence rather than a text game issue.
Really appreciate all the input guys, out of all the forums I visit this is by far the most helpful.