Help me get laid!
Met a RIDICULOUSLY cute girl last night and have been texting her back-and-forth today. Was a pretty solid interaction she saw me pull an even hotter girl and is complimenting the fuck out of me on text, really responsive and agreed to a date Tuesday but then I realised I have a free house Saturday and can get her over after another date I have planned...
"Come round on Saturday if you want beb I've got a free house, white wine & movie night"
"Oh that's not the kinda garage I was expecting! Ahah. But no way am I dealing with spiders ... Ah I'd love to but I'm out in ---------- Saturday night cause my friend is DJing...(He's awful...cringe)
"You made me laugh last night"
"You came out -------- & saw me with my friend Dean & was like "oh another fella?" Whilst you had your arm around some other girl ahah"
"Aw I remember that you seemed pissed off :("
"I enjoyed meeting ya, was perving your FB you're gawjus"
"And fair enough Tuesday it is then"
"Nooo I'm not the jealous type, you just made me giggle at how hypocritical you were ;) aww thank you, you're really sweet! You're lovely looking yourself!
"Was only joking around when I said it but yea I am awful with that stuff beb"
"I haven't been back long that's my excuse for being a bit of a slut"
"Are you gonna be one of those sexy girls that stay in the DJ booth all night"
"You don't have to explain yourself to me silly, ha no he's so awful at being a dj I'm gonna be hidden somewhere!"
"Aw you should defo hide in (where I live) with me instead I'm gonna be lonely"
"It does sound very tempting I'm not gonna lie!"
"Put the thought on hold because I'm out Sunday night too so I might take Saturday night off"
"Unless you've got a line of offers ;)"
"Adventure times tell them you're not coming, be a rebel ;)"
"And I'll keep the line closed for you bbz"
"Can't be going out two nights in a row, you'll even get a massage if you come"
"Ha well it all depends if you're special enough to cancel my plans on! ;) oh well a massage makes it more persuading but I'm not completely convinced ;)"
Not sure why I've started worrying now but I just thought I'd ask for some quick advice, would be awesome to have this girl come over Saturday. Will have gone from 0 f buddies to 3 in 2 weeks.
Cheers.
So let me get this straight.. the obstacle here is she feels beholden to go see her buddy dj?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
So let me get this straight.. the obstacle here is she feels beholden to go see her buddy dj?
You were absolutely right. Had her agree to come over Friday night (already have a girl scheduled but was willing to switch) but then got her for Saturday which was the initial goal. Cheers for reminding me to man up.
Well sure yes manning up is always good. But I was simply trying to get things straight so you could get figure out what play you needed to make here.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
my only slight critique here would be that you don't need to apologize so much for being a pimp - it turns her on so it's ok just to not even mention it.
also, there's a slight change in the dynamic towards the end of the text convo...you started to chase a little and she realized she was the prize, otherwise she wouldn't have dared to mention "are you special enough for me to cancel my plans'. nothing to worry about but just food for thought.
All those winky faces from her seems like she's definitely down for the dih. Toward the end I think it was just flirty banter
Honestly I thought his texting was absolutely spectacular. I think the conversation is right where it needs to be. He just needs to figure out a way to either work around the dj buddy, or get her to run out on it altogether.
So he could either get her to agree to come over "before" she goes to her dj's gig, which would invariably turn into all night ;), or he inspires/cajoles/manipulates(lol) her into skipping it. What I would do is first ask when she's got to be at this dj thing. Not sure maybe it was mentioned but I'm too lazy to scroll up.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male